blueninja89 December 4, 2020 10:45 am

As an African living in the United States I would like to clarify polygamy and polyamory are different. He’s likely polyamorous. Polygamy involves marriage with multiple partners. Polyamory is multiple romantic relationships. For both they require all parties involved equally agreeing to the dynamics but that is not often the case in polygamy. Should be noted polygamy is a form of polyamory but not the other way around. At 15 years I doubt Luca’s married but it’s not unheard of in some African countries, granted it’s not been mentioned that Luca is in fact married, so I thought to clarify. Secondly Luca’s hyper sexuality is not experienced by every African culture or person in the continent. Part of me is annoyed because this is a stereotype constantly associated with black skinned men. It’s possible the author did their research and looked into the Kenyan Masai culture to actually represent it as yes the culture as it is. For yes it does allow for polygamy/ polyamory but also in modern Kenya this is not has common today and the author went with generalizations attributed to the culture as well. Another aspect is how glossed over Aona’s sexual/ romantic inexperience is just steamrolled by a boy he’s met in a matter of days, and Aona’s easy acceptance of it all. It’s so just unrealistic and even comes across as Luca taking advantage of Aona’s naïveté often. It’s not a bad story but I hope people don’t think this plot is perfect either there are some significant issues with it.

blueninja89 November 30, 2020 4:14 am

Why do they always do this. The MC has the choice of a piece of shit or even a bigger piece of shit love interest and that’s it. But somehow that’s suppose to be the whole romantic saga. Falling in love with shit that’s not shittier.

blueninja89 November 30, 2020 1:36 am

How did I know we were going to get the I was as a piece of shit fuckboy backstory, his self loathing just reeked of it from the get go and it’s practically the quintessential cliche BL archetype. The ridiculously attractive ML falls for the innocent charms of the plain looking MC. It’s so cliched it’ hurts. God I was hoping we’d get a second male lead who’s just a genuinely nice guy who doesn’t have some sordid past or shallow mystery surrounding him. The plot is cute but you could have seen this a mile a way if you’ve read enough BL, it ‘s it was clear those hating on the ex GF clearly weren’t paying attention to the finer details of the plot for why and when was the rumored spread of our ML being gay unless he demonstrated somehow or indicated he was gay. And if it was rumors that were enough to stick and not be seen as baseless jealousy of a popular guy. Especially when in the present he’s acting closeted. There’s like a million fuckboy cured by love plots. I Have no fucks to give anymore.

    catvegasan November 30, 2020 4:51 am

    Lol yeah I agree, it's like almost every main lead should have a dark past, and a playboy will meet an innocent uke/girl that will change him. Cliche af and I don't know why I'm still reading stories like this lol, I guess deep inside I still like cliche.

    Also I was hoping this manhwa might take a turn and give an even chance to both of the male lead, but then I got disappointed that the second main lead was just basically an accessory needed for jealousy. I expected too much, I guess.

    Ryle November 30, 2020 11:33 am

    Maybe you shouldn’t assume everything because I’ve read ahead and it defo is not “fuckboy cured by love” he changes on his own wayyyyyy before he met Min.

    blueninja89 November 30, 2020 11:55 am
    Maybe you shouldn’t assume everything because I’ve read ahead and it defo is not “fuckboy cured by love” he changes on his own wayyyyyy before he met Min. Ryle

    What are you talking about did you not just read the same flashback story as we did? It’s literally implied that Min becomes a catalyst of change for him it’s been said from the very beginning. That’s the literal premise of why he’s sought out Min for so long. Lol reading comprehension

    Ryle November 30, 2020 12:07 pm
    What are you talking about did you not just read the same flashback story as we did? It’s literally implied that Min becomes a catalyst of change for him it’s been said from the very beginning. That’s the... blueninja89

    Before insulting MY reading comprehension did you not see that I read ahead????? I literally said that in my first sentence. I've read up to chapter 60+ so I know way more than u lmao

    Ryle November 30, 2020 12:09 pm
    What are you talking about did you not just read the same flashback story as we did? It’s literally implied that Min becomes a catalyst of change for him it’s been said from the very beginning. That’s the... blueninja89

    The chapter suggested that he was attracted to him not that he was the reason for his change. That's all explained in the later chapters

    blueninja89 November 30, 2020 1:57 pm
    The chapter suggested that he was attracted to him not that he was the reason for his change. That's all explained in the later chapters Ryle

    Which when we are first introduced to him he very much says so himself he’s been searching for Min because he wants to thank him for an “unknown” event in his life that has significantly impacted him. I don’t remember the chapter but your welcome to find it, it’s towards the introductory he does the whole club thing to see if Min is even gay but itself to get closer to him in general

    blueninja89 November 30, 2020 1:58 pm
    The chapter suggested that he was attracted to him not that he was the reason for his change. That's all explained in the later chapters Ryle

    My point is Min still is part of his evolution. You’re implying that Min had NO part whatsoever which isn’t at all the case.

    blueninja89 November 30, 2020 1:59 pm
    The chapter suggested that he was attracted to him not that he was the reason for his change. That's all explained in the later chapters Ryle

    There’s nothing wrong with liking this story nor is it a bad one. But it very much is a cliched story.

    blueninja89 November 30, 2020 2:01 pm
    The chapter suggested that he was attracted to him not that he was the reason for his change. That's all explained in the later chapters Ryle

    Plain Jane/Joe x playboy is as old as time. You can blame Romeo and Juliet for hyping that shit up.

    blueninja89 November 30, 2020 2:20 pm
    Before insulting MY reading comprehension did you not see that I read ahead????? I literally said that in my first sentence. I've read up to chapter 60+ so I know way more than u lmao Ryle

    And you reading ahead doesn’t change how the story was started. I’m simply stating a fact. You have more context sure, but unless the author has now decided to ignore the very basis of how this plot began my point still stands.

blueninja89 November 24, 2020 3:42 pm

This author really has a type.Buff dim witted ukes and pretty boy prince semes.

blueninja89 November 14, 2020 12:14 pm

This is one of those stupid ones where it starts off as an eye for an eye which is all good then it just romanticizes the blackmail rape from then on. We’ll have the chief begin to enjoy being continuously raped and the blond equate he has a right to keep doing so, despite in reality as crass as it may sound both are even in their trauma and abuse to one another. Just know they’re going to “fall in love” as well, it’s just makes the rape a segue to an enemies to lovers plot and that trivializes the actual rape experience in the end for both men. It’s another one of those plots that uses rape as a device tool and then makes it’s repeated use lose its significance as just trauma porn.

    YaoiLoveless November 14, 2020 12:38 pm

    Thanks captain obvious. If it ain't your cup of tea, why are you here? Just to shit on it? Just go silently.

    blueninja89 November 14, 2020 2:09 pm
    Thanks captain obvious. If it ain't your cup of tea, why are you here? Just to shit on it? Just go silently. YaoiLoveless

    Live by thee words die by sword.

    Anony November 14, 2020 10:55 pm

    Actually, I was able to read the raws of Ch 3, Ch 8-12, and I have to say, this manga has a bigger plot twist than what you think and it doesn't mask the wrongs they did to each other nor is the apology kept accepted.

    Anonymous November 15, 2020 8:10 am
    Actually, I was able to read the raws of Ch 3, Ch 8-12, and I have to say, this manga has a bigger plot twist than what you think and it doesn't mask the wrongs they did to each other nor is the apology kept ac... @Anony

    I’m super curious, can you spoil the story?

    yaoi321 November 16, 2020 4:11 am
    Actually, I was able to read the raws of Ch 3, Ch 8-12, and I have to say, this manga has a bigger plot twist than what you think and it doesn't mask the wrongs they did to each other nor is the apology kept ac... @Anony

    I would also like some spoilers:))

    YaoiLoveless November 16, 2020 4:41 am
    Live by thee words die by sword. blueninja89

    Don't give me that, "do what you preach" nonsense to quickly dissipate the conflict. But let's keep the peace.

blueninja89 November 9, 2020 12:06 am

Insult. Assault. Rape. The true office romance.

    Bl Lover November 9, 2020 1:10 am

    It’s not supported in reality but fiction with a ship... contract complete. (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

blueninja89 November 3, 2020 4:21 pm

But why are we suppose to feel sorry for him now? He’s been a horrible person from the very beginning to ALL of his romantic partners. Eunwoo was no different. He’s just a terrible person to the core. I know BL loves to redeem toxic men but come on this plot was ridiculous from the very beginning.

blueninja89 November 2, 2020 4:55 am

so he's rationalized that his piece of shit father despite the mounting evidence is his role model, so he too will be a piece of shit because he owe's it to himself, his heritage, and a fucked up science project? Like are we suppose to sympathize with Sea? He seems like a morally terrible person who had every opportunity to be otherwise and willingly chose to become so as he was bored with the world around him. Also the whole situation with using BinHe/River as a guinea pig is truly fucked up, great you saved your friend but the results of a dog and a human can differ vastly. Whose to say your friend would not have disappeared in the sunlight as well? Then keep the ordeal a secret, what of the possible side effects? And speaking of the vampire pill the science behind that is so stupid, how could a brilliant scientist never once question the variable of the dosage once but his son guesses on the first try, that makes no sense?!

blueninja89 October 25, 2020 5:55 pm

I adore the other two couples. I literally could care less about uncle pan and redhead. Their relationship would never work in real life.

    Tsunmimi October 25, 2020 6:15 pm

    not true but do you boo

    blueninja89 October 25, 2020 6:53 pm
    not true but do you boo Tsunmimi

    I think age gap relationships work. This one however wouldn’t in any way. Maturity is the most important element to a age difference relationship. Given they are completely at two different points in their lives, experiences, and expectations this will completely influence their compatibility. You have Uncle Pan who indulges in living carefree and frivolous when in a relationship due to years of experience as a jaded romantic. And Redhead who’s inexperience makes him impulsive, rash, and just as fickle. Those types of personalities don’t mesh naturally to have a relationship, especially when you add two years away from each other. It would take years on redhead’s part and teaching an old dog new tricks on Uncle pan’s part to change such habits and life outlooks. Not to mention redhead deserves better, not this hang up on a man who never respected him to being because of his age. People just think age gaps is just a number. It’s really not as simple as that. It completely depends on each person and couple, but they all have in common a shared outlook. Otherwise age really can impact how the relationship is defined and create a clear imbalance, where they are not equal to one another.

    blueninja89 October 25, 2020 6:55 pm

    I know people will like this couple anyway but they are not at all a healthy representation of a age gap relationship. And BL tends to do an awful job in general in presenting this type of relationship in general.

    Tsunmimi October 25, 2020 7:20 pm
    I think age gap relationships work. This one however wouldn’t in any way. Maturity is the most important element to a age difference relationship. Given they are completely at two different points in their li... blueninja89

    Have you been reading this manga if you have then this stands null and void boo
    Or maybe you should re-read it to get a better grasp of what transpired between them

    blueninja89 October 25, 2020 7:38 pm
    Have you been reading this manga if you have then this stands null and void boo Or maybe you should re-read it to get a better grasp of what transpired between them Tsunmimi

    And you should realize this is a fictional story that’s an omnipotent author took liberties to make the situation work in their favor . Not a realistic approach by any means. But enjoy your fantasy boo.

    blueninja89 October 25, 2020 7:43 pm

    If there are does are interested in an.actual well written BL age gap plot by Chinese authors that seriously takes on how an difference would impact a relationship look at Thirty Years Old and Ji Ye and Guan Shan.

    blueninja89 October 25, 2020 7:43 pm
    If there are does are interested in an.actual well written BL age gap plot by Chinese authors that seriously takes on how an difference would impact a relationship look at Thirty Years Old and Ji Ye and Guan Sh... blueninja89

    Age difference*^

    Tsunmimi October 25, 2020 7:46 pm
    And you should realize this is a fictional story that’s an omnipotent author took liberties to make the situation work in their favor . Not a realistic approach by any means. But enjoy your fantasy boo. blueninja89

    Yet here you are writing an epistle and clutching your pearls that no one requires for a “fictional story”

    blueninja89 October 25, 2020 7:56 pm
    Yet here you are writing an epistle and clutching your pearls that no one requires for a “fictional story” Tsunmimi

    Oh sorry I explained why their dynamic is unhealthy didn’t mean to ruin your delicate sensibilities. You can enjoy fictional characters and elements of story without policing others interpretations and experiences. If you choose to ignore by disliking and carrying why should I care? It’s you who choose to engage in bothering to tell me otherwise my opinion was “wrong”. Learn to take you’re own advice “boo”.

    Tsunmimi October 25, 2020 8:55 pm
    Oh sorry I explained why their dynamic is unhealthy didn’t mean to ruin your delicate sensibilities. You can enjoy fictional characters and elements of story without policing others interpretations and experi... blueninja89

    more epistles and pearl clutching

    Tsunmimi October 27, 2020 5:02 pm
    This reply will be showed after approved! Blue

blueninja89 October 25, 2020 2:17 pm

Only in yaoi does a surprise kiss turn into surprise rape.

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