i really hope the author doesn’t give that deadbeat a redemption arc or whatever. deadbeat should say his piece, haebeom should get to vent and lash out 36 years of restrained anger and disappointment, and then deadbeat fucks off. maybe if he’d come around when haebeom was around 8-10 it would’ve been fine, but knowing haebeom’s mother passed away and he still never reached out and now he rolls around 36 years after his child was born is fucking insane he doesn’t deserve an ounce of sympathy. he’s so fucking useless and pathetic IT MAKES ME SO MAD BRUH CAN HE GO KILL HIMSELF THAT STUPID PIECE OF SHIT
it was nice seeing my family though. ho and haebeom and their toasty little potato OH MY ANGELS MY BABIES
I'm sorry the drastic change in emotions between your comments had me dead
The only way I can see this being acceptable is if he had no idea he existed until now but that wouldn't make any sens
Whats with the down votes we need to normalise holding a grudge, i mean come on if its not allowed for abandoning your child after their mum dies (unless some new info comes out), then what can we not forgive someone for
no literally people would rather make 50 excuses for an absent father, but not care about a child who grew up without a father and had to watch his mother die. haebeom’s been through so much, AND WE’VE SEEN IT FOR OURSELVES HELLO, but these weirdos would rather give mr deadbeat over there the benefit of the doubt. the only way it’s acceptable if deadbeat only found out a week ago that he had a kid+his gf died, but even that is extremely far fetched but let’s wait ig
That's quite literally why I put but that wouldn't make sense. Let's normalise reading the whole sentence. Do I want him to be forgiven. No. Do I think he should be. No. Most the comments arent saying he should get a chance they aren't saying they want this to happen they're saying this is possible because bl loves to use the most stupid fucking logic in stories. Prediction doesn't mean desire
how about we normalise not attacking other people?? i wasn’t even replying to you, nor was i referring to you. i was talking about the nine people who downvoted me at the time. and you also mentioned that it wouldn’t make sense, which i also said in my comment to the other person - so let’s use our brains now, if you and i were on the same page, why would i attack you?? maybe next time let’s not jump to conclusions bc i didnt have an issue with you but now you’re being passive aggressive with me for no reason
i decided to re-read season one, bc i forgot about soomin and doha, and doha’s father but wow, his father is a piece of shit. the author would be very stupid to ever write a story about doha’s fathers getting back together, if i’m being honest. the man who gave birth to doha is a dominant alpha and doha’s father is a beta. birth giver left doha and his dad to find love with an alpha and experience ‘real’ love. in chapter seven, doha and his father go out to eat together and doha’s father gives him advice that he shouldn’t be with someone who makes him feel “inadequate” - he says those words with a sad expression, most definitely bc hes speaking from experience. if doha’s birth giver didnt want a child, he should’ve had an abortion instead of dropping the child to someone and fleeing to someone else. in the later chapters (season two) i’m not a big fan of doha’s father bc of how he treats jihwan (calling him “boy” etc) but he shouldn’t be punished by having that stupid ex come back into his life. can you imagine someone leaving you to explore their options and find “real love”, but they expect you to never move on and be a placeholder, just staying still in your life while waiting for them. that’s sick, doha’s birth giver just needs to die man idc. also not to mention the fact that doha had no knowledge of his dominant omega trait and that lack of knowledge such as not knowing what heats were, how to find a partner, how to handle a heat, pheromones etc. led to him getting raped and sexually abused multiple times - OF COURSE IM NOT SAYING DOHA IS AT FAULT ABSOLUTELY NOT, but if his birth giver was there, doha would’ve known how a heat partner/partner in general is supposed to treat you and stuff. like i said, doha’s birth giver needs to die or smth, he can’t just come back into their lives over 32 years later after wrecking havoc and causing so much trauma and pain. the author should not give that bastard man a redemption arc, it would be such bullshit. instead we should get a story about soomin and eui-jin
DOMINANT OMEGA* the man who gave birth to doha is a dominant omega
i ain’t reading allat
Fr I agree with you but I still wanna see some drama if the author shows that Doha's birth father ever coming back ofc I'm not saying they should accept him or something absolutely not it would be crazy to accept that piece of shit after what he has done
“do you live alone” i cant be the other one who thought of sean (hongdae guy )
also this is so frustrating. we went through a whole main story of miscommunication, and we’re going through it again in the side stories but now with some fucking weirdo that calls ml his work husband and another that’s assaulting mc by spraying his pheromones all over him without his knowledge. not to mention the fact that ml doesn’t know it’s a mutal imprinting THEYRE SO FUCKING FRUSTRATING
No I said it too in hongdae guys voice
aren’t they kids in this side story? how is haesu able to drink wine and whyd they go on such a fancy dinner date, not to mention the hotel room hello? there doesn’t need to be sex involved, aren’t they like 16
If you look at the photo in the beginning of the latest ep it shows they've graduated (holding flower bouquets), so they're probably in uni now
oh i missed that, thank you for pointing it out that makes sm sense now haesu also wearing a white shirt that looks like a regular high school uniform shirt also confused me
i’ve never enjoyed a size difference this much before
like it just fits so well, the boss doesn’t look like a child or anything
why couldn’t the sperm donor have died instead of haebeom’s mother urgh. i missed seeing my family, look at my babies
maybe ian saying he doesn’t wanna go back to how they used to be doesn’t mean he doesn’t want tj - maybe he’s just saying he doesn’t want to be in that toxic relationship anymore where they aren’t defined and they fuck around with other people. he could just be implying he wants a healthy relationship. idk i could be wrong though considering how toxic everything is in general and ian is forever indecisive about who he wants
That is a valid perspective. Now this all relies on TJ’s reaction to his words. If the same old same continues, will Ian be able to wait more or he will go back to Jo? TJ has a chance to redeem self for now if your perspective is right.
No youre right Ian clearly wants to be in a healthy relationship and leave the toxicity behind but TJ is ofc complicating things since he doesnt want to leave the gang at all so if he does leave his gangster life and actually decides to get his shit together I could see them actually working out but other than I can see Jo probably becoming endgame if TJ doesnt decide to change because I mean the story is about Ian wanting to leave his past behind so him going back to his gangster life wouldnt make sense
i mean this was a shit show from the start. all the hope we had for winter immediately went down the drain when he became a rapist, then we watched raymon groom a young winter (who seemed to be a minor at the time), then we find out raymon himself was groomed, raped, forced into drugs etc and he kinda pushed the same cycle onto winter. i think it’s quite obvious this wasn’t gonna be a good story, but there was sm heavy stuff going on that you wouldn’t have expected such an anti-climactic, lacklustre ending. like this is a big bowl of nothing, genuinely. raymon never gets his justice against dominic and dominic gets to enjoy his miserable life, that ugly decomposing rat he genuinely looks rancid, like sewer water in real life. and we never found out winter’s age even after two seasons of dog shit
i wonder how the side stories will go