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I'm not saying you can't dislike it or should like it and I'm not judging you I just want to know why you don't like poly relationships???

It’s just my preference. I am not able to romantically love more than one person. I will give my entire heart to that person and I expect the same. I also don’t like sharing so I wouldn’t be able to. If there’s someone in a poly relationship and that works for them, then that’s fine i just couldnt

Okay just wanted to know I dont like mistaking things or just not liking someone with out knowing their side of it.

I have I another question

is it that you don't you want be in a polyamorous relationship but you wouldn't dislike someone because they are in one or don't mind being in one I know now that you don't understand being able to love one than one person because you devote yourself to the person you love but you know someone can love more than one person because there is a term for it and it happens to other people. Or are you the type of person that is I don't like it so nobody should and it's bad when it shows up in day to day life or things I am doing???

I'm sorry if it's worded badly, I'm bout to pass out from sleep exhaustion, a slightly full stomach, and a warm bed. When I not trying to be rude I usually try my best to use my best grammar, but it seems that I made many mistakes and my last awake brain cell wants to turn in. Again, I'm really trying not to be rude. Clearing up something I don't understand will help later in for me, so I don't seem like more of a big buffoon. When I think I know something I think I'm right, which is bad because I'm stubborn.

We good I understand what you’re saying. I won’t ever be in a polyamorous relationship but if I see others or have friends that are in poly relationships I’m not gonna tell them they’re wrong cause it’s their life. I don’t care if others are poly, but I’m not gonna be

Okay thanks

Tbh I don’t really understand poly realtionship like how can you love two people to me it’s like I can like someone but love only one person

Well that's the thing you dont understand it so it will be hard to understand people that can. For me atleast I know the I will not stop falling in love with people, and if I have consent from both parties it will allow me to pursue the other person. Though so far the two relationships I have been in are polyamorous all three of us went out equally, though we broke up with the other person because they're a bit tooooo rambunctious.

Another reason that I'm okay with it is that it isn't cheating. Cheating is going behind someone's back and not telling them.

A polyamorous relationship not all 3 4 5 you will be dating as one but you can be dating someone else with your current partner but they won't be dating the person that person too.

Another thing is that me personally, as a person I won't be providing sex so if my partner would like to get someone else to fall in love with and have sex with I wouldn't mind it as long as it's consensual I'm okay with a lot of things as long as there's consent.

Even though I won't stop falling in love it doesnt mean I'll love them any less it's not like a fraction which the more you have the less there is to go around. No, I will love them equally for all of thier unique personalities and hardships. It's all 100%. And as long as the don't change in away that is unsavory I will believe they love me back.

Fuck I talk to much （￣へ￣）

Thank you, I you explained it very well for me now I understand. (▰˘◡˘▰)

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I read in previous spoilers that its Yulan but I don't know. Its just what others have posted

It honestly just be like that unfortunately :/ Some people just want the specific niche they’re in and don’t like outsiders. It sucks

I dont think its racism. Here in u.s i see alot of korean students grouped together. I think its just comfortable like this for them. and maybe this is why the author made it like this..

I’m an international student and it’s often a lot more comfortable to be with people with your own country when you’re away from home. It’s comforting to hear your own language.

Well.. That is not racism.. It is just avoiding to meddle with a group of foreigners you are familiar with..

Currently studying post graduate and I have a lot of Indian and African classmates... And when they are grouped together.. It is hard to casually talk to them and even just being with them because there are times that they will revert in talking into their native language...

And I guess that is also what a foreigner will feel if he/she saw a group of Filipino students as well..

Racism, for me, is when you did totally offensive to other race like, for example: saying.. Indians are fucki** smelly and unhygienic!

Agree. I get that people get homesick but it's good to get out of your comfort zone instead of always hanging out in your ethnic group.

Im a first gen immigrant and avoid hanging out with other people at school for the sole reason that we share the same ethnic background. Not getting much out of the uni experience if you refuse to diversify your friend group.

So far she's been blackmailed into being a fiance knowing she could get killed and they left her alone to almost get killed. This about to be a no for me

There’s many kinds of strength, not just physical, from what I see I think she’s strong mentally, but it might be too early to say.

I know the different strengths but so far she doesn’t even seem THAT bright or quick witted. Compared to others so far she’s disappointing

There are, but she doesn't seem to be neither physically nor mentally strong

I bet you would break down crying in her situation, especially If you weren't as positive, go lucky girl as her. She is mentally strong to be able to handle stuff like this

For sure I would, but I’m not a strong female lead. If it were different fl’s they would have outsmarted or outstrengthed themselves out of the situation

He saved the uke after bringing the uke to a gay sex club but i think it he had good intentions when bringing the uke though. Other than that, they had sex. I think thats it.

Still not worth being called nice BUT ukes are calling people *nice* even when said person tried to rape them(sometimes its successful)....

Honestly! Some characters are like:*gets raped, verbally abused, and kidnapped” hE’s A nIcE pErSoN

Protagonists, antagonists, friends who touch toi much, annoying jealous women, and just anyone else = they nice even if they assault me and im selfish for loving that guy.

HowToBeUke

It's the virgin syndrome (fall in love with the one who took your virginity).

ehh its actually the opposite. we got wish fulfillment male leads, like the dude on the cover and then we harrison... characters with actual flaws and insecurities. he's awesome in that sense

You know what I mean by perfect

YES ME TOO!!!!