
I know she has her own shit going on and all that, but why should that matter? Why does her opinion matter actually? What does she think she's entitled to give her opinion on THEIR relationship? She's a fucking neighbor maybe an acquaintance at best. She's crazy to think she has the right to do such things just cause she can't "support" them.

If my partner told me they got a job offer that would mean they get to go to germany the first thing I'd do is congratulate them. Obviously I'd miss them, but they have this amazing job offer that is a great life experience. I wouldn't act like a child and beg them to stay. I wouldn't even show any signs of sadness at first. I'd congratulate them say how proud I am of them and we will figure out the rest together.
“Child born outside the home” Dawg whose fault is thatcause it sure as hell ain’t the child’s fault