
ML asks FL: you also think he's not that bad, is a good guy, charming and actually cares, she agrees. He straight up follows up with "you're just like everyone else who starts sympathizing with and fawning over my brother, even though he is completely in the wrong and knows it".
Meaning the brother has done this shit REPEATEDLY with a lot of other people that the ML has tried to make friends with, or date. He has, on multiple occasions, approached people and given them his own sob story of how he simply is the way he is, and the ML should just forgive him, so no one stays on the ML's side anymore and start advocating for the brother instead. And the FL fell for it hook, line and sinker, even after the ML told her NOT to engage with his brother.

she means well, but she's literally saying "your brother feels bad about continuously and intentionally hurting you. He's knowingly took all your parents love and started going out with the girl you loved, and rubbed your face in it, but he is just like that, he can't help it. So you need to hear him out, even though you're the one who was hurt all the time. Because your bro validates that i'm a nice girl, so he's a nice guy too. So even though he's never apologised or been open with you, you should take the initiative to make amends"

For real ╥﹏╥ girl what was the plan? Say “your brother isn’t nice” and expect your bf says “oh my, I had never considered that before, let’s have a picnic and pretend I don’t have years trauma”? ( ̄∇ ̄") like, we know she’s has good intentions, but she also went behind husband back on this instead of trying to work it out with her bf first u,u

yeah :') she went about this the wrong way u.u also, how can you hear the brother say "oh yeah, I know he has a complex bc how everyone treats him bc of me... but I don't care, instead, I went after the girl he likes to show him he's a loser" and just side with him??? it doesn't make sense hahajja
(props to you friend. my spellcheck went crazy with me in my previous comment and you still understood me XD )
what's with the doctor making unnecessary personal digs and constantly stirring the pot? He's knowingly causing problems between these 2, instead of being reassuring
Now that you said it