He cried with her, shared her sorrows. So cool. All other manhwas and mangas the ML gets raging furious and rushes off to kill, and the FL holds them back, saying its in the past, or that they have their own revenge. Which is okay, but then I see here the ML saddened, crying, being there for her comforting her when she is hurting, instead of charging like a bull (which is saved for later, coz the priority is to console her and help her gain her self esteem). I love itヾ(☆▽☆)
Yes, SAME.
Yeah, most of the time we see FL crying after listening to ml's story. But this the first time I saw ML crying for FL
Omg yassssssss I rlly liked thattttttt ╥﹏╥
He certainly knows what priorities are!!! (▰˘◡˘▰)
100th like I feel special
He was just as uncommunicative and taciturn with the FL as she was with him? They both set their boundaries when they got fake-married. At least he tried to get her to stay when she asked for the divorce, clearly because he likes her. She shut him out and ran away without a word, then turned him away which caused his accident, all the while being in love with him (never once giving him the benefit of the doubt). I'm not saying she's at fault, she had no mal-intent, but then neither did the ML, so why is everyone here wanting him to suffer and have some kind of a redemption arc to win her back? Why are MLs expected to do all the heavy lifting for the relationship, and its okay for the FL to blush and reject the guy over and over again, which is somehow they way she shows afection? Sorry, I have severe PTSD from namaikizakari.
Finally, someone I can agree with
i respect you so much and completely relate with the namaikizakari bit
that manga frustrated me so much i dropped it
Same, its nice to see others who dropped namaikizakari like me. It drove me to insanity, and to disliking tsunderes to a good extent
agreed!! it’s sad that it’s the popular mangas/manhwas that always do this like nah change it up!!
The sunbae clearly has abandonment issues, he is pushing her away to test her a bit, justifying it as best for both of them. Can't blame her for leaving, but usually you would need patience and persistence to get through to someone like him, to make him trust that she loves him no matter how much he pushes her away, coz he can't have much faith in what she says. And because she goes right back to the childhood friend (who she is still unsure about), it makes it obvious to sunbae that was a mere stopgap for her, just a distraction. As I always recluse myself, because getting too attached to friends leads to disappointment usually, I relate to him so much. He's cutting his losses, and he is very human. In fact, he is mature about it, not like the childhood friend who starts imposing and overstepping the moment she gets a little further from him.
Personal opinion: I feel we need to be more sympathetic towards actions of male leads in korean manhwas in general. If we can defend FLs for pushing MLs away relentlessly and stupidly because of their past, then we can forgive MLs for doing the same.
i never thought about it this way but it makes so much sense because alot of female leads in manga's push the guy away because "she cant like him" or "shes not ready for that", and we all understand but for male leads people have zero patience so it makes me see them in a new light.
Exactly right? I read a korean novel in which the FL actually punched the ML when he was teasing her (can't remember the specifics, but he didn't even touch her or be rude to her), and then it was played for laughs because she bruised her knuckles, so he had to apologise to her for her punching him. That was the last straw for me...
Fr also I don’t know if you read the manga “everything was a mistake” but the fl really doesn’t try to make the relationship work, she gets mad at the ml for “using her” even though the only reason she approached him was to not get killed.
Oh yeah, I dropped it coz the FL was annoying me. She approaches him to use him in order to stay alive, and then gets mad and teams up with the manhwa's male lead and female lead in order to 'contain' the ML, her oldest friend, when she knows there's a lot more going on behind the scenes, and he's being repeatedly vulnerable with her. That was annoying...
Yessss she read the novel before being reincarnated so she knows what’s going on but as soon as her friend talks about some “dream” she had, she automatically believes her. Anyways it’s nice to have someone who shares the same opinion as me
I disagree with you guys if you think him beating his brother up in that manner is okay. First, his brother is crying. If you're trying to educate younger siblings, you don't beat them up when they're crying, that's being almost abusive (picture yourself hitting your sibling, or family, when they're crying and have snot running down their face. Its a horrifying image). Second, he isn't slapping him, or hitting him on the arms or anything, he's kicking him down, putting his feet on his chest.
If he was a good brother (not going to a good person, coz he's clearly a criminal), he would get his brother up, console him, or atleast let him calm down, before slapping some sense into him rather than kicking him down. In this moment, his elder brother is channelling their father.
His reasons might be that he wants to protect his brother from going down the wrong path, but is this the way? No matter his issues, his personality, his profession, he's using violence on a family member. If no amount of back-story or trauma can justify how MLs treat FLs in shoujo, or MCs in shounen ai/yaoi, then no amount of any backstory/good intent can justify or condone yosef's actions, and they certainly shouldn't be lauded.
I used to like yosef, before knowing he was a criminal who treated his family like this when push came to shove. He turned to crime, didn't he? And now he has the gall to beat his brother up over the same? Even if he's family, if there's one person who has no right to beat yohan up for his violent choices, its yosef.
some people don’t have siblings and it shows the brother is clearly worried about him and he didn’t touch him as a way of abusive but as his own way of trying to say you want to be tough and cool then suck it up
I get that some people don't have siblings, that's why I said 'or family'. And if you can justify showing worry by beating up a family member, then there's something very wrong about the way you're thinking.
the guy didn’t really beat him if he could he could’ve killed him you have to understand some siblings have a physical relationship that may look bad to others but that’s how people are
Is his supportive and hot elder brother now beating yohan up?? Get your feet off yohan's chest!!!!!!!!!!!!!(╯°Д °)╯╧╧
Well, he almost just kicked the shit out of someone to death, regardless of if he had it coming or not, attempted murder is kind of illegal.... so I think him teaching Yohan a lesson is pretty justified.
Supposedly his brother does the same thing so it isn’t really his place to teach him a lesson?
Family always has a say.
What but didn’t he leave the house for a good amount of time = not being in his life? Do note that not all families have good relations so “family always has a say” is not true at all. Such as abusive families
He’s teaching him that he doesn’t want yohan to become like him...he has a future. Most bad older siblings always want better for the younger ones I know from experience so he isn’t being hard on yohan For fun he’s being a big brother the best way --> HE <-- can be.
Agreed .
I don't know, I must say I disagree with you guys if you think him beating his brother up in that manner is okay. First, his brother is crying. If you're trying to educate younger siblings, you don't beat them up when they're crying, that's being almost abusive (picture yourself hitting your sibling, or family, when they're crying and have snot running down their face. Its a horrifying image). Second, he isn't slapping him, or hitting him on the arms or anything, he's kicking him down, putting his feet on his chest.
If he was a good brother (not going to a good person, coz he's clearly a criminal), he would get his brother up, console him, or atleast let him calm down, before slapping some sense into him rather than kicking him down. In this moment, his elder brother is channelling their father. His reasons might be that he wants to protect his brother from going down the wrong path, but I'm not a fan of this guy anymore. He used to be one of my favourites, but now I wish he'd stay the hell away from Yohan.
That’s to long for me to read. Lol. To each there own simple.
If he's kicking his family member down, he is wrong. No whys, hows or wherefores matter.
He did that because the guys were there and he had to look like the boss he didn’t mean it. Read some raws and relax .
See, this guy/gal gets it.
Lol yup (▰˘◡˘▰)
Okay, super duper cute, but huh?? ε=ε=(ノ≧∇≦)ノ I love this one so much, and its such an underrated gem. She loves him so much, but they got a pet out of it??(≧∀≦)
All these years she hid his child from him, denying her kid a father when he hadn't actually done anything wrong, and when he freaked out about being a parent and started enquiring about his daughter's welfare, she gets mad? I dunno the history between them, but why has she taught her daughter to villainize the dad? What is this?? This is annoying to me, the father should have equal rights to know and educate as the mother, atleast when he hasn't done anything wrong? What is with this 'Mother knows best, so she beats up dad when he talks' approach?
I agree!!!
read the whole fucking story then write this, u can find the full 14 ch story by searching Uchi Wa Wakarete Kurashiteiru
when she says she told him everything... did she tell him about the regression or just made up a story about the current timeline?
I think she told him about the past life cause she talked about the killing of her
I don't think so... because if she had told him about the past she would have said, "they killed me" not "the would kill me if"
exactly. Now I don't know whether this is intentional or a mistranslation.
Ohh…well thanks for clearing it up for me too