BeepBopp's Topics (742)

No she didn't turn ... she changed her mind ..left... and then died...

I'm pretty sure he would be able to give birth to a wolf... what they were doing was making the uterus strong enough to hold a vamp baby..or maybe his uterus was not well developed....so they fixed it....but don't take my word for it ... it's all speculation on my part.....

I bet you never feel insecure about anything..human will feel insecure and its normal feeling doubt and overthinking

Seriously. Especially when someone acts as if it's not a big deal. But of course the OP is still wondering why things took a turn for the worse when it's obvious the seme's inaction lead to the change in the uke's mindset. Ugh. I hate it when people like the original poster don't get the obvious.

Feeling insecure to that point only due to a scent on the seme is still too much.

Sure he can feel insecure, but he made it to the point he is afraid to ask because he already assumes the seme dont love him anymore.

The seme’s actions were : not telling the uke he went to look for a babysitter. It’s not necessary to tell what you did in the day to your lover, especially if wasn’t asked.

The uke has the right to feel however he wants, but assuming that he ain’t loved anymore, from a smell on your lover, and he believes it to the point he is scared to ask. That sounds like someone who lose faith too easily, so drama will happens often, which is why i said he is a pain.

guess you were too busy looking for stereotypes to actually read the story

Lol a backstory doesn’t justify the uke’s action. All uke acts like that and they have a backstory to make an excuse to justify their actions but it’s just not a good excuse.

Please explain yourself because I can’t see how i’m wrong if you don’t.

He doesn't just have a backstory, he has thoughts and feelings, and the place sex has in his life is unhealthy. I'm sorry, but no matter what you just don't understand the uke, who is more complex than all those other ukes you are talking about

Oops, didn't see the part you're asking me to explain... Actually it's quite hard to put words on my thoughts (especially in english).
To me the key to understand everything is his relationship with the seme, 'cauze the author did a fine job with the atmosphere between those two, a lot is unsaid, you just understand their feelings by watching and trying to read the story with their point of view, you try to think like them and you see... They are not a couple (not yet at least). They're just two guys, with broken hearts (in the way that... they never had role models that were in love, "love" for them in nearly non existent, just a far away idea that doesn't concern them). The only thing that matter for them is sex. -the backstories only confirm that

For the seme, sex binds him to the other person (and he likes to "have" someone by his side) but to the uke it's the contrary, sex makes him forget "everything", like.... He needs an escape, away for life. In the flashbacks he's what, in middleschool ? just imagine that you're in university and since middle school the only thing you got to make feel better is sex. But that actually, it doesn't make feel better it just makes you forget who you are. And that you have an habit of picking strangers on the street whenever you feel like it.
Now imagine the way you have sex changes significally and that you find yourself in need of someone else all of sudden and that person says he's gonna leave your side. I don't see what would restrain the uke from having sex at that moment. It's just... the same thing he's been doing his whole life. He's reassuring himself, "I can still do it, it still works"

I don’t feel like uke has been using sex all his life to forget things. So far uke has been having sex for his lust.

Also Uke didnt even realise he was in love (thats super cliche) and when he realise it, it’s like he can’t live without that person (quite cliche) and when he lost hope, he ran away to get fucked (cliche again).

But maybe i am wrong and Uke uses sex as a mean to forget his troubles, so that means everytime he will have a fight with his lover, he will bang a stranger to *forget everything*, or whenever his lover ain’t there and uke is in trouble, he will go get sex from someone else. If thats what he is being doing all his life, he won’t be able to change it, even if he is in a relationship

Yeah maybe for his lust but not just that... at least his first time seals the deal making him thing that's its pretty easy and comfortable.
He denies his feelings because of his past too (okay a little cliche).. and yeah well he's broken hearted... feeling like you're gonna die the moment you get heart broken ain't really a cliche... cauze actually does hurt quite a bit.
And I don't think that has anything to do with being unfaithful. Like I said, they aren't a couple atm so he ain't a cheater

Heartbreak is hurtful but i think it is cliche to make is that much of a big deal.

If he had been in a relationship for over a year, that much of a reaction i would not say cliche. But he never dated the seme and now that he learns seme got a girlfriend, he was sad to the point i call it cliche.
I just think that uke that gets comfort through sex is an annoying cliche. This time at least it wasn’t a misunderstand, the seme purposely lied, but the response was just too much.

No it wasnt. He wanted to forget. He wanted to prove a point to himself. I think the reaction was realistic. How many people get heartbroken and that or the next night find themselves having sex with someone? They do it because:
1. They don't want to feel lonely.
2. They want to forget the pain they're in.

I would agree with you if you meant an heartbreak from a break up. This is an heartbreak from a one-sided crush(he thought it was)

It's more than a crush. Blondie was his fuck buddy, and they lived together. No matter how many women they shared the uke knew they'll be there for each other in the end. Then blondie said he had a girlfriend, and crushed everything. In that moment, the uke felt empty and alone. That's why he said make a mess of me.

Heartache and pain happen with one-sided crushes too.

I still think the reaction was too much (not that it’s impossible in real life, but i think not much people would react like that) and it’s overused in yaoi aka cliche.

Hii

Omg sorry didn't mean to send that lol

Yeah it didn’t feel like Jan was THAT worried about Jamil. It’s kinda sad

Everyone is complaining about henry´s actions but tryto see it this way. This person has an unrequited fo a very long time, to the point thta it has shape his future and interests. So one day he decides to let it go (which is when the manga starts). Then he mets someone who slightly reminds him of his crush, but then he starts to develop interest about this new persn. And at the sam time his crush and long tome friend starts t feel pushed away and discover that his long time friend actually loves him and that loves him back, but decided to let go and start something with another person.

Of course you wuld feel confused, but that doesn´t mean you are toxic. Just plain human. We screw up more times, than we do things right.

How can he be sure to choose Sam when he decided to let go of his feelings. It´s got to be so confusing, at the same time it´s a huge risk. For the life long friendship, for himself, for his heart and changing the way he is used to live, completely.

It´s easy to say that he is toxic, but he is writen so real, that he can be any of us who follow this mangwa. With douts and insecurities. An above all longng for something for so long , that you decide to let go and the it´s in front of you. ¿how to know is not a whim?. You don´t, but e is more cerebral than impulsive as controrary to sam´s personality.

And he knows so... So please don´t be so hard on henry if it was me i´ll probably be a walking contradiction, because that´s what we do.

He either wants or dont want to be with Sam. If he doesnt know what he wants and doesnt make a choice, all that when he is an adult, that person is pretty much going to make so much trouble aka he is toxic.

I agree with everything but I think sams toxic too so...

Idk why Sam married and divorced so i can’t tell if he has been toxic with his ex. But i dont think Sam has been toxic towards Henry, Sam made his feelings clear and even though he is being pushy, he hasn’t been seriously rejected.

Dude he pulled up to his moms funeral talking bout their relashionship like bro he’s not in his right mind to say anything his mom fucking died, and the comment he made was manipulative too

Henry felt better after seeing Sam. I dont remember what Sam said but him coming to the funeral did help. And i didn't feel like he was trying to be manipulative, i’m pretty sure he was speaking his thoughts. He is trying to convince Henry that he loves him (because Henry didnt seem to aknowledge Sam’s feelings).

Ok I get it, he felt better after Sam showed up. But he didn’t need to start talking bout their relashionship problems right on the spot. And he said that if he didn’t date him to not bother to see him again, now that pissed me off since his mom just died and he expected him to be in his right mind to start speaking about relashionship things? Nope. He should pick another place to spill out his feelings that’s stupid.

It was not a good idea but it’s a manga and it doesn’t feel like talking about this during the funeral bothered Henry. And Henry still rejected Sam so it the situation didn’t made a change in Henry’s answer.

I’m just saying that’s an example of him being manipulative, and let me not mention more things.

Sam came to the funeral, he held Henry’s hand, he said he would always be there for Henry and he said they couldn’t be friends anymore.

Saying this is being manipulative is just wrong.
Even when Sam pretended to be sick to keep Henry by his side, it was pretty obvious it was fake (even Henry knew it but he stayed because Sam wanted Henry to stay).

Anyway, your interpretation of a manipulative person to for you to decide, but if thats all it takes to be considered *manipulative*, then almost everyone is manipulative.