Earlier this week a male friend of mine reported his female coworker to HR for sexual assault and harassment and she got fired. Given the context I decided to share the good news. I don't think the world calls women creeps enough for this type of behaviour. So what if you like a guy and you find him attractive??? That never gives anyone the right to talk to treat anyone like that. The audacity of the bitch that roofied his drink and kissed him unprompted and this other bitch to follow him after he told her not to, touch his meat, call him a whore and demand sex is disgusting. Man or woman you'd get slapped by me cz tha fuck???
YESS FR FR IM SO HAPPY FOR YOUR FRIEND TO FUCK YEAH
Fr ! Just watche at the comment, it's creepy to see how many women blame HIM for getting drugged and assaulted like wtf
Some women will never admit this but the way want to be as deranged and uncouth as men are. And that's why I said the world doesn't call women creeps enough
I feel like bl fans have such a rigid way of thought. Explaining behaviour is not the same as justifying it. For example explaining seoin's questionable tastes during sex doesn't mean justification. The creator does this so well without downplaying that seoin has a lot of work to do when it comes to emotionally regulating himself. seoin easily has one of the best redemption arcs cz it doesn't give him a 180 turn but gradually he hold himself accountable for his behavior and takes responsibility. He is slowly but surely opening up and I think that's the progress that we need in the story. I like both his and yeongwoons character cz the creator improved upon the typical top-bottom dynamic we usually see.
Yeongwoon on top is something . Continue to love bottoms who aren't oblivious to their own feelings. Love my baby boy for just saying fuck it and doing what he wants. He's a breath of fresh air.
This is how you write an emotionally complex bottom. It's not about pity with him but actually realizing he is human and makes mistakes. You don't necessarily feel influenced to constantly pity him while he does nothing to change his situation but hope for him to get his goal. Dohu is so refreshing as a bl manhwas bottom. I love him.
P.s just cz I love him doesn't mean I pity him in this situation, beyond the seduction an apology should be in order.
Why does everyone keep asking Dohu to apologize when he already did multiple times? The problem now is not apology, it's that Juheon simply could no longer trust anything Dohu has said due to Juheon's trust issue and trauma.
If he doesn't want to apologise again and again then he can let go of juheon cz as I see it he's the desperate one in this situation. Dohu will figure it out eventually and they'll kiss and make up
People who hate Na haesoo for how she looks are projecting their insecurities onto fictional characters. Like the creator don't owe y'all anything. Like women like her exist eg. Olandria for love island, small, tiny waist,fat chest and a fat ass. Gets the princess treatment too. Please stop lying when y'all say unrealistic beauty standards. Bodies of whatever shape are allowed to exist even the ones that happen to be seen as most desirable. No one should tiptoe around yalls insecurities because you don't like yourself
I'm going to be rereading this. I love it cz for once the tops ditch the bottom and enjoy each other more
What is this I'm seeing that people are hating on juheon??? Yeah this is one of the only tops I'd defend vehemently. I've seen a post of someone acting like dohu is owed juheons love when he's not apologised cz guess what that's where accountability and taking responsibility starts. I don't hate dohu but people that act like he did nothing wrong just give incel vibes. This creepy ass entitlement that they believe bottoms are owed everything even when they did something is just weird. Let's enjoy the only angst that should exist in bl. At least it's not a love triangle ffs!!!
I agree with you, but I also lowkey find Juheon slightly annoying. My explanation is definitely more of âwell if I was himâŚâ with the addition of âit takes two to tangoâ in that Juheon just seemed to want to the be seen as his true self while also creating and holding this big wall that kept himself at a distance from people while essentially still wanting a genuine relationship (platonic or not) with essentially no intentions. This doesnât make sense to me because it just wouldnât make sense for a person to fully open themselves up to a person and lay out their true selves to a anyone unless they open up and show a part for the other person to reciprocate to which then the relationship would grow from there. Additionally, in my perspective there is nobody in the world who starts talking to someone or interacting with someone for no reason or without any type of intentions. Then adding on to this Korea is a society that has a heavy emphasis on connections and the people you know/are connected to, so in a case like this where Dohu essentially was studying Juheonâs character for a novel without Juheonâs knowledge, Juheonâs reaction seemed a little too strong. I would understand feeling upset for the fact of not being told that âhey I wanna research/observe your characterâ, but Juheon gets upset for âyou were usingâ which is a part I donât get. What was Dohu using his observations of Juheonâs character for? A novel, no? We also donât know whether that novelâs story was continued after the incident and published physically or on the internet, so did Dohu really use him?
Also sorry for the long paragraph here, I donât mean to create an argument. Itâs just my own thoughts that I kind of want to get out (´âď˝*)
This ain't an argument but I'll disagree with you respectfully. It's never in anyone's place to dictate the reaction someone has to being slighted. Dohu studying juheon was him using him given the context of the story. He further doesn't clear things up and apologizes. Discernment is important here. It isn't a matter of proving a point cz that angle logistically makes sense but emotionally he hurt juheon and they were lovers not just random acquaintances who'd feel fluttered by his actions. To juheon it was a breach of trust considering he has a thing against being fetishized and only seen for his looks. Dohu presented himself as different and even when his feelings changed he didn't stop thinking of juheon as a project. It may seem small to you but you never know how deeply you've wounded someone until they show you and when they do. The reaction should not be "you're overreacting"
I understand your point of view, but I wasnât saying his reaction wasnât valid just slightly frustrating because I thought in a relationship like this youâd start to understand the person you are in a relationship with, which then leads to why didnât they talk about it instead of just leaving everything. Does he genuinely think everything that happened was fake with Dohu. I think I wouldâve been fine if they continued acting as if they didnât know each other, but obviously Dohu started initiating conversation with him which at that point I do think Juheonâs reaction makes sense(also then there would be no story). You also stated how Juheon he has a thing against being fetishized and seen for this looks, but wasnât Dohu studying him more so based on Juheonâs character rather than just his looks, no? Overall, I feel frustrated with both characters and wanted to say this. Sorry if you did take it as me saying Juheon was overreacting, I didnât mean it to come out that way. I just thought that if they did kind of nurtured a relationship with each other they would have some understanding of each other to be able to talk about the situation and decide from there if they want to cont. the relationship, leave each other, or etc as there are many different forms and types of relationships.
I'm tired of trials and tribulations please release us
That dick be kissing kihoons diaphragm. Log of wood. Jesus Christ of Nazareth this is just too much I was horrified. I love Yeon but keep that monstrosity away