
this sucks balls just talk to eachother goddamn, stop assuming and putting things off just talk to her omgahdd
honestly i think if she did ask why he switched up, hed fuck that up too because in the letter she gave in chap 10 thats clearly trying to make a bridge but the fucking guy just didnt reply because he was nervous about what it contained, said. he didnt reply for 2 days or more. if he truly liked her he would have replied and tried to make a connection once she reached out, instead he ran away, hes a wuss.

cant women support women anymore???? make men the villians cuz in reality most of them r

What patriarchy. You live in a world where women can lie and and a man loses his life. A woman can lie and send a man to jail, found to be a liar and is not held accountable for said lie. A world where I can say a man r*ped me because I regret having sex with him even when there is proof that I followed and persuaded him. What patriarchy???

While it is true that men go to jail because of a wrongful accusation, who do you think set that system up? Patriarchy according to Snider Naomi (International Psychoanalytical Association, 2018) stated that patriarchy is a set of cultural and values that specify how men and women should behave and this is based on the belief that men have the inherent right to dominate, while women should be subservient. From that Iâm sure if youâre not stupid you can guess why women can just throw accusations at men and still be believed.
An example I found with your claim that women lie, causing men to die is 1955 Emmett Till who died because a white woman lied in her statement that a black boy had physically and verbally harassed her advertently causing his death (Australian Broadcasting Corporation, 2017). Your claim that women can just wrongfully accuse a man of rape, is when a 20-year-old woman was charged on Monday, May 20, 2024 with filing a false report about an attempted rape and kidnaping in which in this news nothing was stated that happended to the man only that the charges place on him were dropped on Friday that week (Bucks County, 2024).
A crime committed by four boys everyday on an innocent young girl named Junko Furuta, a prime example of a woman rejecting a man which led to her death that prolonged for 44 days for that decision. In November 25, 1988 Junko Furuta cycled home when she was knocked her bike and kidnapped to be followed with rape, torture, and murder. It was recorded that Junko was raped 400 times by the 4 men all because she said no. And despite this the boys remained innocent, it was only after a long trial that they were charged with their crimes. The main perpetrator received 20 while the other 3 boys received 5-10 years (Vocal Media, 2023). Another case with many men involved including k-pop celebrities is the Burning sun scandal which you might already know, the Nth room where deepfake was widely used on unsuspecting women, even by their own family members.
Aside from that heavy crime committed by boys, there's a lot of examples of patriarchy in society from gender pay gap, underrepresentation of women in leadership positions, and the prevalence of gender-based violence, sexism. Lastly I donât deny that such crimes that happen to women happen to men too and that men struggle with their mental health which is why 1 in 10 men commit sucide because they are afraid of showing their emotion due to patriarchy according to Anxiety & Depression Association of America(2023). Your argument that women are the real villains is quite unreal and as mangago user Babushka_80 said if you truly believe that the general woman is worse than the general men, wake up the patriarchy has you on hold.Â

Women are just as if not more evil. The problem is that other women pretend like it's impossible. Ohhhh men are evil, if men were, what is preventing them from locking us all up? Taking away any and all privileges, making laws that would prevent our freedom. Use us solely for mating and only feed us enough to keep us alive? If men really were evil, what is keeping us safe? Think about it. Men can definitely be evil, but what is keeping them from taking over?

Girl don't stress yourself trying to educate Ignorant, narrow-minded stupid people. Some minds are so closed off that no amount of factual truth and evidence will reach their fucked up mind. It's such a factual knowledge that our world is structured for so long on Racism, sexism and pedophilia. Trying to explain that to some people is like arguing with a falt earther. No matter the evidence, no matter the actual truth they like to delude themselves and cling to such idiocy instead or reality. It's honestly so embarrassing, as a human being, to witness such willing ignorance. We have and only we have, to question things and critically thinking, a vast of accessible knowledge that many could only wish for. And yet so many still refuse to see how deeply women have been, and are still oppressed systematically for so long since the day a white male decided to play King and normalised jealousy/hate over the female gender.

BTW:
Your logic is dangerously flawed. Men have built systems that oppressed women legally, economically, and socially for centuries, if you have the capacity to open a history book that is lol. Women werenât allowed to vote, own property, or even be protected from marital rape until embarrassingly recently. In many places, weâre still fighting for basic rights. The fact that women arenât completely enslaved isnât proof of male kindness itâs proof of womenâs resistance. Your argument doesnât show strength. It exposes how normalized domination is in your thinking.
Once again there was a reason for the existence of Feminism, but I understand that some people lack the...education yet it doesn't excuse your ignorance.

What is oppressing you today? If they so bad, why is it so easy for women to get away with a crime than a man? Why aren't women locked up in camps today? Where is the big strong man that's knocking you up side the head for not gettinghim a sandwich? Just wanna be a victim so bad, huh. If you so afraid, I'm guessing you locked up in the house, only watch shows about women, eat only from women, your mom probably got preg by a woman since you have no dad or male role models. When you need protection from the big scary man you call the female cops to help, cause male cops are scary too. Victom mentally.... booo

Itâs honestly sooo embarrassing how confidently you dismiss centuries of systemic oppression as mere âcomplaints", which is hevay crazy talk. Since after all these are well-documented historical realities, backed by law, policy, rising femicide statistics, and global patterns of inequality.
To reduce them to qoute on qoute "optional opinions" isn't just ignorant itâs fucking delusional. This level of detachment from reality isnât strength, itâs a huge sign of intellectual deficiency and low critical thinking capacity. Frankly, itâs sad to see someone so devoid of human empathy and so undereducated. Instead of feeding your brain with fantasy manhwas, maybe try opening a history book for once.
Secondly, itâs painfully obvious you didnât engage with a single point that was made. Your response didnât challenge the argument, you simply sidestepped it like a typical narrow-minded thinker, hoping your flimsy sarcasm would cover up the absence of competence. If your goal was to provoke, all you achieved was exposing how little you have to say.
And that term "flat earther" Iâm not sure if you even understand the term, given how consistently you reduce complex issues like sexism to individual failure. Ironically, that puts you equally in the same intellectual category as flat earthers. Uninformed, proudly resistant to evidence, and convinced that mockery counts as debate.
This isnât about playing the victim, itâs about acknowledging historical truth. About recognizing how countless women across the world have bled, fought, and died for the basic rights you now dismiss with a smirk. That you see any mention of oppression as âwhiningâ says far more about the shallow and shameless worldview says everything one must know. You didnât make a point. You revealed your ignorance and called it logic. You didnât try to comprehend! No No, you mocked, cowardly even so. And in doing so, you mocked generations of women who made your very ability to speak freely even possible.
All youâve really shown is intellectual laziness dressed up as low-effort wit. I feel rather second hand embarassment for you, a pity that a fellow woman tears down the hard work of former women.

Itâs almost funny how your 'Argument' if one could call that, is rooted in a series of dangerous oversimplification and misinformed information. Especially when someone who benefits from the very rights women died for becomes the loudest voice in denying those struggles. Your comment wasnât just historically tone-deaf, it read like a parody of willful ignorance wrapped in sarcasm, desperately hoping mockery would mask the intellectual void beneath which obv failed.
You asked, âWhat is oppressing women today?â as if oppression only counts when itâs as visible as chains. So let me help you open the book youâve clearly never bothered to touch.
1 in 3 women worldwide experience physical or sexual violence in their lifetime, most often at the hands of someone they know. Women are overwhelmingly more likely to be victims of intimate partner violence, and economic dependence, social pressure, and fear make it significantly harder for them to escape.
Only a fraction of sexual assaults are ever reported, and even fewer lead to convictions. Recently, a widely publicized case saw a woman raped and her attacker faced no sentence. This isnât an outlier. Itâs a pattern. And no, the justice system isnât gender-neutral; itâs built, like so many institutions, on power hierarchies shaped by race, class, and gender.
You brought up prisons. Maybe if you kept up with the news instead of scoffing at reality, youâd know that in one case I have read about, men have broken out of custody and attacked womens prisom including mass rapes in female prisons. But I suppose nuance, like basic empathy, isn't your strong suit.
And history? Letâs talk about that. You think women havenât been persecuted systemically? Once again crack open a history book if you can handle words longer than a meme. Witch hunts werenât fantasy, they were state-sanctioned massacres of women who dared to possess knowledge, independence, or simply didnât submit. Entire generations of women were tortured and burned alive for understanding herbs or refusing male control.
Still think this is all just âvictim mentalityâ? During wars past and present, rape has been weaponized, from comfort women enslaved by imperial Japan to modern conflict zones where women and children are routinely violated, tortured, and killed. It's not just history. It's ongoing. In many countries, girls are still denied education, freedom, and basic dignity, and femicides rise annually around the globe. Children marriages still real, still existence.
And yet, somehow, your biggest concern is women "playing the victim." I wonder, do you ever stop to consider what it costs women to even speak up, or are you too busy mistaking your own internalized misogyny for critical thinking?
You insult yourself far better than anyone else could, because denying this reality while being a woman is like a candle mocking the flame that lights it. Youâre not bold. Youâre not rational. Youâre just the byproduct of a world that taught you to question womenâs pain before ever attempting to understand it.
Yes, not all men are evil. And no, not all women are saints. This isnât about that. Itâs about acknowledging power systems, the same systems that keep a poor Black woman fighting for scraps while a rich white man decides the law. The world is not equal and pretending it is doesnât make you enlightened. It just makes you a very loud symptom of the disease.
You asked why women arenât locked up in camps? The fact you think absence of barbed wire equals freedom says everything. Most cages donât need bars when society builds them into expectations, into law, into how much safer a man feels walking home at night compared to a woman. Another example is the Gang rape of a Female doctor while she fell exhausted asleep after a hard day of work. Sex traffic/Human traffic just as real and existence, people being sold and slaughtered like animals while you keep your ears and eyes shut.
But if it were you? But if it were you calling and crying out for help, on your knees, begging for someone, anyone to hear your voice, you would pray for solidarity, for someone to stand beside you and fight. Yet here you are, turning your back on your own gender, belittling the very struggles you might one day face. I truly hope reality meets you with the clarity and the force painfully so, since you so carelessly deny others.
You donât need to understand all of this. But at the very least, you could stop embarrassing yourself by pretending your detachment is insight. Because denying systemic oppression in 2025 is like arguing for a flat Earth while holding a globe, loud, confused, and painfully easy to disprove.

So letâs get this straight: you believe that unless someone physically flies to Afghanistan a country where women are executed in public, denied education, and silenced with violence, they have no right to speak out about the injustice? Thatâs not logic. Thatâs apathy dressed up as deflection.
You donât âfixâ systemic oppression by walking into a war zone and saying âplease stop.â You fix it by raising awareness, donating, amplifying voices, and building global pressure. Thatâs what activism looks like. Thatâs how revolutions begin. You think democracy, women's rights, or the freedoms you now enjoy just magically appeared? No they were fought for. By people who protested, resisted, and, yes, spoke up. You think this is how war stops? By a sudden change of heart of the governor? You must be not the sharpest tool in the Shed huh? Now I question of you even finished school or gotten any education because that would explain a lot or maybe you're just American.
But anyways, you owe your own right to speak freely to women who raised their voices exactly how youâre mocking now. So to reduce activism to âwhy not just go thereâ reveals a spectacular misunderstanding of history and how change actually works. Honestly, if you think international solidarity requires a passport stamp, then I overestimated your critical thinking. Dramatically.
Thereâs a difference between being uninformed and choosing to stay that way. And sadly, youâre leaning hard into the latter.

I see, you clearly donât understand most of the words you're using, do you know what closeâminded means? It means not willing to understand others opinions/ideas that differ from yours, guess what you're doing right now, sherlock? And excuse me, I donât have to be a victim of rape or sexual assult to know and understand that it happens to other women.
You keep acting like you're higher than this conversation but all you're doing is saying some bullshit and showing how mentally fucking incompetent you are. You're not even responding to the whole point, evidence was shown to you. What did you do? Act like weâre wannabe victims and say something so outlandish, it shows how fucking stupid someone can be, it's funny seeing someone in real time act like this. Your logic is flawed. Youâre just typing whatever comes to mind, there's no structure nor backbone in everything you're saying.
The point keeps flying over your head, because it seems like you never processed whatever we say.

Oh you sweet poor child, itâs seems like your the close minded one. You see women from a negative narrative and thats holding you back from seeing things from a wider view. Itâs easy to talk about the experiences you donât know about because youâve never gone through it. I hope you can find more growth in the future as an adult!
You should thoroughly reread the replies, itâll help you learn. Arguing isnât about winning, itâs about understanding.
This mindset can takes years to change⌠so donât dwell if you feel asinine!
Best of luck (ŕšâ˘ă
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To add up another, according to George Brown (2023), most pedophiles are male. The prevalence is unknown but estimated to be up to 3% of the adult male population and substantially lower in women.
Jason Caroll from Wheatley Institute (2023), states that lots of articles have shown that men are view pornography on a daily or weekly basis than women. Carroll's research about the difference between men and women on viewing/watching pornography in a different kind of relationships shows how women are more on the "never watched porn" while ln a relationship than men who showed a very small percentage on this matter (It's disgusting how men who're in a serious relationship can watch porn on a daily basis).
Lastly, about infidelity. Infidelity is common in stories and real-life situation nowadays. The Institute for Family Studies (IFS) surveyed men and women from 2010 to 2016 who were either married or had been married before. According to the General Social Survey, men are more likely to cheat than women, with 20% of men and 13% of women reporting having sex with someone other than their partner while still married.
Men IN MOST COUNTRIES are suppressing women everytime. In AFGHANISTAN, under Taliban's rule, women are stripped of their rights to wear, speak, and learn what they want while men do. In every households, women are physically, mentally, and verbally abused by these men called husband/boyfriend. In some traditions or beliefs, they marry off their daughters to an old man just for a money and girls don't have the right to choose who they'll marry. In some parts of Africa, women are believed to be unclean if they won't go through their "old practice" wherein they will "circumcize" a baby girl to make her clean (it's actually gruesome to explain it, watch desert flower to understand or search it). There are more things I want to mention about how women have greatly suffered by the hands of men and these cruel dominance. I'm not saying I entirely hate men but most of my hatred are from these kinds of men...
Now, I'm not saying that women arent like predators BUT MOST MEN are. So @inugome, don't try to say women are the villains cuz in this world we live, MOST men are villains.

Thank you for bringing this up! It's so frustrating seeing ppl not realize that the patriarchy very much exists and still continues to oppress us. Honestly, those that don't believe it exists are either ignorant, privileged, an a**hole, or just so far into the effects of patriarchy that they're blind to it. Even if we are much better off than the women all those years ago, we continue to face the same issues that still hurt us in todays day and age. We're honestly regressing on so many levels that it's depressing... The sad reality is that many women are unsafe out there because of men. There's no victim mentality when it happens every single day around us and has women fearing if they will even get home safe at night. Refusing to believe it exists is just pure ludicrous.

good god after reading all your arguments i simply conclude that you're an incel who lives to somehow satisfy the male being alone, a close-minded and BARELY able to accept true evidences that counter your main point. Probably instead of reading manhwas or visual novels read proper books about history- ALSO probably start from learning the Sociology & Culture of Human Evolution.

Probably a delusional bish who has no idea about what's happening in the real world since she's so busy reading the wrong history of the past, as well as the present.
(I evn doubt she's married..... sounds like a 15year old trying to argue air with water)
P.s I meant to like but my big ass thumb touched the disliked button.
i cant take anymore of miscommunication istg im gonna kms