Damn Kaoru really got some hardcore abandonment trauma huh. Poor thing couldn't even ask Hara to stay Jesus man, boy needs some milk, some tissues for all those issues, Christ god damn. Even his homie tried to talk him out of this tomfoolery (bless you Asako, you sweet child) and still he didn't even have the confidence or the strength to take his friends perspective into account.
I hope his fated partner doesn't choose this absolutely inopportune time to just appear because Jesus that's a shit show this kids head doesn't need.
But really Kaoru, stop it man. Get some help.
BUT ALSO
idk why Kaoru has to be personally responsible for someone else's damn string. Idk this all reads very blame heavy on the guy for not cutting Hara's string, when bb makes a fair point. Realistically speaking yeah shit doesn't work out between people that fall in love ALL THE TIME so cutting someone's "fated" partner off for the sake of a current engagement that sure is fulfilling and makes you both happy yadda yadda yadda, might seem romantic and the ultimate sign of faithfulness, but really it's just short sighted and ultimately isolating. Like why can't Hara love him regardless of the string? I get that maybe he interprets it as the end all be all, like Kaoru won't be able to stop being anxious about it if it's still attached OR IDK you could fucking prove it, by defying it?!?! If he cuts it once and then it just immediately reattaches wouldn't that then just be fucking devastating? WHY PUT SO MUCH STRESS ON THE GUY? And yeah he probably shouldn't have ever agreed if he had a problem with it, but shit dude. Idk, I just don't think that shit is his responsibility. I think it's unkind ultimately for him to be placed into a situation where he has to do something he felt so uncomfortable about he had to god damn hide it and couldn't even talk about it.
HOWEVER;;;
I also feel for Hara like it's tough. Your partner has been hurt... A LOT and there doesn't really feel like an apt way for anyone to comfort them over a particular trauma that is very unique to them. So you bargain and you make promises in an effort to circumvent those issues, but they can't be kept because the other party (aka traumabomb) is convinced that they know what's best, that doing a certain thing would mean inadvertently hurting you because subconsciously they are constantly reliving that pain they experienced before and comparing their previous encounter to their current endeavor.
It isn't that they resent you or they're angry or they mean to hurt you it's that they are trying so god damn hard to be good and perfect and kind without taking away your freedom, because they desperately want to hold on to you, to beg you not to leave but they're too afraid to open their god damned mouth. And that's hard too watch, it's painful as shit and I get that my dudes. It's frustrating to read to.
THESE BOYS NEED COUPLES THERAPY.
I got a lot of feelings about this, sorry.
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Wow she's a fuckin rapist, Yul needs to get a damn restraining order and move on.
You dont know what a rapist is. They use force to have sex all the way. She is trying to have sex with a man who can totally push her away it's not a rapist thing. If he doenst want, he can really use force to say no. Dont compare woman to man in this aspect. If she drugs him and have sex without consent, then I can agree with u.
Rape is the forcing/coercion of another party into sexual acts hard stop fam. It has very little to do with "capability" in fighting back it is just as much a psychological attack as a physical one and if you think that kind of behavior is okay, that it's alright to coerce someone into something you should probably talk to someone dude.











Wow, main lead is TRASH. lmao, but I'm staying because Bella being like " I hate you"(/ did I fuckin stutter) right after she got her voice back was such a damn mood.
I hope she escapes frfr