I keep seeing people saying 17 is old enough to be not this naive. NO IT IS NOT. Hell even 18 isn't. One other thing that you guys keep forgetting is this is in JAPAN, in ASIA, where the sex education is very much different from the western side. You'd be surprised if how limited the knowledge teenagers have on sex in Asia if they don't explicitly go out of their way to learn. It's all censored and "PG" for anything closely related hence no previous experience for most.
Yall blaming the girl??? A TEENAGE girl who was not educated properly about sex?? She clearly looks like she was sheltered by her parents regarding sex education and she wasn't interested enough before to even think nor research about it. Having all of this suddenly dumped on you as well (ofc she asked for it but she didn't know the severity of it) would be overwhelming for anyone, especially if they don't have experience on it. I'm not saying it's the Guy's fault as well since he also thought to be truthful to her (which is good!) The only people in the wrong here are the adults who took advantage of a child and now said child can't live a normal life because of it. The moment he tries to be normal, it now seems like he's trying to drag others down with his baggage, even though it wasn't his fault in the first place. This didn't only showed up on the girl btw!! His friends, being witnesses, would also have their maturity be altered. They educated themselves early on due to an experience. Y'all hate on women too much istg
be fr she victim-blamed him why can't she be blamed back for saying bs
You mean when she said something along the lines of why he didn't fight back or didn't he enjoy it? That was literally the author's point. It's showing that having no proper education and generalization caused by having the subject taboo makes you have assumptions that are wrong! Did she say that to his face? Did she want those thoughts to be on her head? Didn't she quickly tell herself that she shouldn't think of him like that? The truth IN REAL LIFE, even if you don't say it out loud, the thought of "why didn't you fight back", or "you enjoyed it anyway" would come out especially for men, who has a lower cases of reported rape because of the stigma behind it. As I said, there should be no blame on the him nor her. The only ones who failed are the adults and the society those adults created.
I just read the latest chapter after seeing this notification and replied before even reading. Looks like she did say it to his face. Overall literally proves the point that because of lack of proper sex education, she DOES NOT know how to deal with information she just learned. Looks like she thought that being truthful with him, about her thoughts, would be better. Cause that's what she learned a relationship should be (honest and communicate) If you're looking at it at a surface level, yeah she is at fault for saying and thinking about him like that but if you want to actually know the reason, putting all the blame on the girl would be worst way to deal with that situation. From what I've seen in other people's comments, she's been called so many names just because of normal reactions a teenage girl has. It doesn't solve the root of the problem. When people say that she shouldn't be the FL because of this, it could've been any other girl and the guy will still think that he is undeserving of anyone
we victims are still allowed to hate the fl and dislike her for saying that shit to the victims face... no victim should have to be understanding of someone disrespecting their trauma just because they dont know any better... yes its the fault of the adults that raised her but does that mean she should make it the problem of her bf who she disrespected and victimblamed ?? we are allowed to dislike her and also hope she actually reeducates herself on the subject simultaneously
I agree that victims doesn't need to accomodate other's ignorance. I agree that she needs to educate herself more. However in this case, both of them are minors. It's hard enough to deal with this as an adult let alone a minor. I don't think all the burden and blame should go to her. I made the original comment because of how much everyone else was hating and swearing on the girl when the real problem lies elsewhere. A child can make mistakes, learn and grow from it. But if people keep blaming only her, you're just gonna have another kid grow up with trauma. She was being honest with her feelings to the guy because she thought it was the right thing to do. It wasn't at the time because it just triggered him more. My main point has always been this is a child you're cursing at for being wrong.
Comments are back I just noticed today anyone have links to translated novel??? I can't keep waiting like this I'm so impatient
TF WAS THAT SUGGESTIVE SCENE THAT WAS TOO FUCKING WHOLESOME LIKE PICK ONE I CANT DO BOTH
WHAT THE FUCK DID I JUST READDDD I normally don't care for spoilers but goddamn that was heavyy WHAT IS THIS PLOT THIS MANHWA IS SO BABY WTF IS HAPPENING IN THE NOVEL
I recently started reading the novel and well... shit goes down hard
It really does i stopped reading though it was pissing me off the autur built up elijah got us all attached to him then just took him away
I read the novel only until Arthur finally showed Sylvia's true form and I thought that was hype but then read some spoilers a while back that Arthur prioritizes Tessa over his family and ticked me the fuck off and now you're telling me MY MAN ELIJAH is gonna ba taken away too like FUCK
If you had read just a couple chapters more you would have gotten to that part, its like the whole story
(〜￣△￣)〜 oh come onnn seriously. Now I hate that Spoiler made me don't wanna finish tate Guess I'll come back read TBATE again Too many novels too read
I'm sooo sooo soooo proud of her omgg AND GURLLLL YOU LOOK SO GOOD WITH SHORT HAIR WTF SANAOL
I love all of it even if it's all cliche ajdkajd the godly art is such a huge plus too like this is all the tropes I hate because it frustrates me so much but I'm loving every chapter of this HELP