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Nah cause you're right this man's personality and manners pass the bar for men

exactly he’s not an asshole
ppl just find reasons to hate him but then like the blonde dude as if he’s not a major asshole

I mean him not being an asshole is kinda the bare minimum tho lmao. he has yet to show any really strong individuality nor has he shown much personality. given it's only been like 15 chapters, I do get it when people don't find him interesting as a lead.

Wasn’t she also the one that rejected and I think humiliated (not sure about that one) him in the past? Didn’t he like confess to her before?

Yes, it's her

After all shit she put him through, why does MC act like nothing happened? I hope seme is gonna find out and treat her hella coldly like he should

Well it his character, and I think he didn't want to make a fuss because they were young so maybe she was just immature (even though I think it's bullsh*t)

To be honest I've said that but I've been bullied and if I meet one of the bully I would do the same so... Who am I to judge him

I’ve been to in elementary school as well. I did forgive people who genuinely apologized, but since she didn’t, I would still hold grudges. If they ain’t gonna apologize I’m not gonna forgive them, so I wouldn’t act like him. Also the reason why it makes me frustrated. I hate it when people forgive too easily, it’s really how I said frustrating because usually they let others push them around.

True, but when you're shy you don't dare to say anything with anyone...
And I think the MC is pretty shy, he just hides it behind a fake confidence (and I can relate to him, if you ask anybody who knows me, they would say I'm overconfident, "I don't care" person, mysterious (in a bad way) even though I can't even call a hairdresser without having prepared my text before...)

I don’t think it’s about being shy. I’m a very shy person and I’m not confident at all. It’s more about whenever you can stand up for yourself or not, for example I’m a very assertive person even tho I’m shy. It’s different to get involved in conflict with like a stranger (which for me would also be hard to argue) and with a person u knew. Like yeah I still get kinda like scared that I would meet them or smth but I would still stand up for myself because I really regret I didn’t do it. It’s more about your priorities in life, for me for example it’s respect and my rules. I’m shy but I’m not scared to share my views and I don’t care about anyone’s opinion about me except my family. I know I’m in the right and I give my everything to my friends etc so I don’t think conflicts like that are my fault therefor I’m not scared to be vocal about them. I don’t think that has much to do with shyness but more like you approach to life and yourself? Maybe I’m not as shy as u, since I don’t have a problem ordering stuff but I do have problem for example calling out strangers irl or making friends. It’s more about imo whenever u prioritize not getting into conflict or respect towards you. I’m not a pushover, I hate when people try to manipulate me or treat me like it therefor I’m always vocal about my opinions and also I’m pretty petty as well.

That’s why it’s frustrating to me if someone is a pushover. It’s not like “hey u deserve it” but it’s like “hey you let it happen, u don’t try to change it”. Life is not easy and u gotta have guts to stand up for yourself because otherwise people are gonna devour u.

Yes, wish to have the same confidence and determination haha...

I have very little confidence but I wanna fix it and psychologist really helped my friend with that. So I highly recommend to try it, she was not able to even order food not at all had to ask her friends to do it and now she can go up to random strangers that’s how much it helped her change

I went to some psychologist (5,6) and I can't tell it really help...

Yeah it’s not easy cause u have to find the right one. It took her like 3/4 years and like 5 different ones to find the right one

he really did he set the mood