I understand Cirrus feelings. Of knowing someone who is just so perfect, and has been so obviously loved so you feel like they are stuck in a bubble and could never relate on a personal level to your miserable experiences or feelings. But it hurts to see him reject a friend who really cares about him. I wish Chan-Il just keeps pushing forward no matter what because Cirrus really needs more friends and loved ones. He’s too guarded and I fear that’ll be his doom. He can’t just obsess over one person (Skyler). He needs a more balanced set of relationships.
YOooooOo i knew he wasn’t dead! Also I would love to see episodes of Dietrich’s love story with his wife.
Hey does anyone have an inkling as to what the bodyguard meant when he said he didn’t want a kid? Didn’t the mom say that the dad forced her to have the kid? It’s weird the dad told the bodyguard of all people that he didn’t want him. It’s useless for the bodyguard to know and even more useless for the bodyguard to include that detail to MC. So I’m guessing it’s an important detail to the mom’s backstory
There is such a thing as reproductive coercion in abusive relationships. It didn't seem like mom wanted the pregnancy either from what I recall. Or maybe she did but then became depressed because her marriage or the person she fell in love with ended up being completely different.
It wasn't explicitly stated but from the many toxic abusive relationships I read, it probably went like this, the father want to tie down the mom to his side. She struggles so he locked her up and got her pregnant, that way, she won't struggle anymore because she has Jihwan. And from the flashbacks, it worked. That is, until she committed suicide.
So the father and the mother probably doesn't want any children but the father want to tie her down with a child, and after the mom died, he continued to provide for Jihwan because he's "responsible".
I could be wrong though.
I don't think the father told the secretary/driver, he just knows his employer because he works for him since foreover, prb saw all the signs. In many K-drama, personal secretaries are from family's close to the rich household. The young master's be friend with a kid from less rich family since childhood, then they grew up to become subordinate and boss.
I’m tired of the constant slut shaming on Ukes but not Semes. Especially because uke and seme depict homosexuality in a heteronormative light (heteronormative tropes are applied to uke and seme). Most BL readers are women so this really saddens me. Also this isn’t really a BL…it doesn’t wholeheartedly fall into the BL universes’ tropes and agenda. It has more realistic and mature themes.
THAT'S WHAT I'M SAYING like where was this slut shaming energy with tops from other works???
YESSS I BEEN SAYING
Tops are slut shamed as well, people are annoyed at fuckboi tops all the time lol. There are also way more people defending slut shaming of bottoms than tops BECAUSE a lot of BL readers are women and women are mostly likely to defend bottoms in a heteronormative sense since the tops are seen as the equivalent of their partners while the bottoms are them.
I’m tired of the constant slut shaming on Ukes but not Semes. Especially because uke and seme depict homosexuality in a heteronormative light (heteronormative tropes are applied to uke and seme). Most BL readers are women so this really saddens me.
I’m tired of the constant slut shaming on Ukes but not Semes. Especially because uke and seme depict homosexuality in a heteronormative light (heteronormative tropes are applied to uke and seme). Most BL readers are women so this really saddens me.
why do people hate Jaeha? This story was about him finding self love. He couldn’t accept other people’s love and affection because he had self loathing. That’s why he kept pushing everyone away. That’s why the seme had to struggle so much. Yes it was annoying but I think that was the whole point. The whole plot was angsty. The author would’ve failed their purpose of it didn’t cause us any distress.
Also when this was first coming out didn’t everyone love it? What’s up with this comments lol
People need to stop calling characters as sluts as a way to insult them. I mean, obviously people have sex. I don’t know why it’s such a terrible thing for an uke to not fall under the typical uke trope. Also yes he hurt people but he was upfront about his feelings and intentions. It’s sucks that he hurt people and I also hated him but overall I like him as a character. The author did a good job making a well fleshed out character.
Oof that hurt