I lobed the art and the concept of women and pressure. However, i never felt anything from her relationship with manager chun. Repeatedly they kept saying how she was putting him with her ideals and on a pedestals. He didn't consider her as precious enough to stay and ask for marriage. The person she came out looking happy with, that supported her ideas and gave her new ones was Hyunmin? He was generally interesting and loved and defended her and she was less timid and honest with him. All her new ideas came from hyunmin, not only did he inspire her but she was comfortable. You can feel his love and she never felt distanced from him like she did with chun. So im confused why she never got with him... is this saying women will just go with what makes them comfortable at that age. Sometimes I don't like straight romance because of this... making you settle for marriage or make you feel old at 30 when you're not?? She literally had more chemistry with hyunmin and her love with chun felt so average and she kept going on about "mature" like ???. I noticed she turned into the woman she always aspired to be like but it just felt frustrating tbh. Idk if the author meant to make this backhanded? Chun kept her within her fishtank amd hynmin helped her burst out of it?? SO WHY
Tbh she was the most honest with him... i thought author was trying to portray idealistic love with manager chun and a realistic one with hyunmin... so i was confused at the end. Idk if the author was trying to say you can have different types of love or end up with the one that really is compatible with you etc and that this is more realistic for people but cmon....hyunmin was the one that inspired all those moments and even said to close that distance between them and i felt nothing from chun (i forgot his name) jsjsj
Reminding each other what we love anout the other, the moments we needed to grow from, the habits we still do with each other and unchanging and the time that changes. Consistency and being able to flow with change is hard but something i think love needs and does. It feels sincere with this story because they were sincere with each other and precious like it would be weird if they were apart. Jinwoo started to not rely on him and i guess with candy he wasn't aboe to understand some aspects of jinwoos personality of not expressing a part of himself to candy like when he got ill and how it's similar to how he was near the end of the relationship. I guess thats where you need each other the most and take each other for granted. Also fyi work life should never have that much hold over your personal life. This was a hard story because it's realistic... his love was never gone but life is always changing and influencing how you act thats what i got from this.
I knew it couldn't be just about that brother in law... it seemed like seonwoo was just holding on to him to feel okay (?) since they confided in each other but it fell apart when he got married and now the trauma is still there... whatever it is. Idk I've been there where you kinda just break down and explode because you keep it all inside not knowing how you really felt. People will see you as kind and friendly but when going through this break down you become the opposite... the anger and frustration is kind of scary. I feel seonwoo and i like we're on the part of the story where it matched the title with yuri giving advice!










I wander if this what has led him to think of others first and be the one thats always emotionally available towards others even when he is suffering too... it always looks one sided and I totally get how emotionally unavailable he is now and depressed. I mean im experiencing that too. He mentions "alone" from A but it sounds like he is too. And he mentions problems from his parents and the homophobic terms so thats why i think this... he never mentions how he feels maybe out of fear they'll leave.