If I knew someone like the older brother who just tells me “Doesn’t that means he loves you if he wants to have sex with you?” After complaining about a guy trying to have sex with me despite having no compatibility, I’d delete them from my life. I don’t need that braindead energy in my life.
The seme reminds me of a guy who was trying to “court me”. Day one, said he loved me. I played along since it’s so fucking wild. Day two, I tried talking to him about literally anything but he couldn’t even hold a conversation without trying to feel me up. Me: “So what is your thought about the political climate?” Him: “Orange. Anyways, what’s your breast size.” Day Three, meet his mom and then taken up to his room. All he talked about was his love life and sex while I’m trying to talk about the Mandela Effect. He gave me a sweater to show I was “his girl” but OOPS that was a jacket an ex gave him . I “broke up” with him and ghosted his ass.
Anyways, it was a surreal experience that makes me still wonder how people fall for this crap. Listen to me: the guy who can’t even hold a conversation and can only say sweet words to coax you into bed ain’t it chief. Just don’t do it. Find a person who wants to listen to you talk about anarchism all night and not a person trying to get into your pants all night. Can I get an amen sis?
Amen sis u dodged a bullet there
Damn that's some toxic ass guy sis. Thank ghad you ghosted him. Guys like tgat sre deserving of such
Amen all the way! One man tried to kiss me once, out of the blue. I just broke his nose.
Seriously thought, how but HOW can be described Uke so weak ? I mean, uke is meant to be a representation of women... Well, if it's the case... we're real people too not just something who would blush every time somebody hold our hand. Seriously. Fuck that.
NOBODY IN THEIR RIGHT MIND WOULD BEHAVE LIKE THAT, FOR FUCK SAKE
Amen!
And damn right, break his nose! Women are people too!
Seriously... ! And the trope of "You lead men on by being so attentive to their well being". Ahah, I kill for less than that.
How can mangaka thinks that's how we behave in real life? I just read a Shojo where the girl is always hit on and saved by the ML. I mean. WHO WILL BEHAVE LIKE THAT
Ahhh, that piss me off... That piss me off so much. Are we so retarded in their eyes? In real life, a man who try to teach me something by sexually aggressing me would just see my knee fly in his balls. He would still be lucky if he could reproduce at all after that.
Seriously thought: Hey, if you're a writer, just write females characters as persons not just as a sex. Seriously.
Bro, I nearly had a stroke when I read “You lead men on by being so attentive to their wellbeing.” Because honestly??? It really be like that in mangas and real life. Like dude, the number of guys who thought that I was into them or heading to a romantic relationship just because I’m being nice is too damn high! Or guys pushing their well-being onto me in hopes my “motherly instincts” are triggered. I can not!!!
I had a friend who had a guy tell her, “you’re the only girl who cares about me and ask me questions.” She just replied back with, “That’s pretty pathetic.” Then ghosted him LOL
But serious, it’s like these writers think women are only mothers and/or wives. Virgins or whores. There’s no in between!
I KNOW, RIGHT?!
Once, a man tried to seduce me by kissing me by surprise, proceeded by saying that my boyfriend at the time was a weakling because he didn't break up with me as I "cheated on him" and delivered the final blow by "but it's your fault, you smile too much".
...
I punched him so hard in the teeth, he just stayed put on the ground for twenty minutes. And I can assure you, I was smiling when I told him how much of a piece of trash he was. The worse part: He tried to kiss me again, after ALL THAT. Does this kind of man have any self-awareness at all? Oh boy, I was about to lose my shit.
Men writer don't know how to write a female character. It is just facts. They're going to be so much focused on the fact they are women, they are just pouring their stupid and sexist ideas of how women behave. I mean, I read a book where the main character, a woman, started describing herself by the SIZE OF HER BOOBS. It was so cringe, the author made one page worth of "Oh, my boobs are too big, I wanted them to be the size of a lemon". A LEMON.
WHO IN THEIR RIGHT MIND IS GOING TO TALK ABOUT BOOBS TO DESCRIBE THEMSELVES.
They just don't know how to write a woman. I mean even Stephen King doesn't know. (Well, this man is a filthy pig, after all. He wrote about a orgy featuring 13 years old kids and obviously started by the only girl in the group. In the sewers. Yeah.) I never read a good female character written by a male. Not even once.
I find the manga kinda cute and the prince is kinda my type. Not really the overbearing oresama asshole trope we always read. Just really pushy. To be fair, I like the yandere trope so...
Anyways, I hear everyone’s complaint. But tbh, this is a medieval setting story. So the FL was going to be put in an arranged marriage one way or the other. The comments make it seem like we never read a manga with the same fucking premise lol. It could have been far worst for a marriage partner.
Really, the root of the issue is the princess training. If the FL had more autonomy, she wouldn’t particularly care about her position anymore. This can be magically solved if the ML grew a pair of pants and tried to make the marriage more appealing. But of course not because that would be too damn easy and the author can’t milk out as many chapters as possible for this basic ass premise.
I had to drop this as soon as I saw that that girl’s name is “Moe”. Seriously? I can imagine the author patting her shoulder for this “clever” name.
Is it just me or is the terms: ”sadistic”, ”oresama”, and ”asshole” are all synonyms with each other according to these manga writers? I hate both the ”sadistic” and ”oresama” trope but you would think there's a difference? Idk this guy is more of an oresama or the generic ”asshole with a heart of gold”. I would think that he would like causing her pain if he holds the nickname ”Sadistic prince”. Not being a pain.
Lines I wish was in this comic: ”Im not a sadist! I'm just an asshole!” lol
Omg that would be so funny now I wish the manga was like that.
Ngl I’m kinda disappointed that the guy isn’t actually a mummy. Idk what to expect from a title like “My first sex... is with a mummy?!” But I would suspect that there would have been an actual mummy somewhere. Fell for the clickbait smh
I dont know what it says about you if the thing youre disappointed about is the fact that he's not a mummy.
It says that I’m used to these manga that typically tell their entire plot in the title (Ex. That one time I reincarnated as a slime; etc).
This actually made me laugh
Lol I'm disappointed too
Say what you will but this shit is fucking cute. Like deadass, Yuuki and Nao have their own cute factors that shine individually or together. Sure they’re brain dead but that’s all manga protagonists! At least they’re cute like a dog... you don’t approach a dog because of their intelligence lol.
Side note: I’ve been getting into MBTI so I couldn’t help but think: “Nao is such an INFP and Yuuki is an ESFP.” They can’t be any other type (at least any T types cause no brain here).
As an INFP, I can see that.
Okay okay... I see the comments about Kirishima cheating and the snobbish comments going “*push glasses* technically he’s not cheating.” Let’s put the facts and opinions on the table here.
Yes, in the technical sense, Kirishima is not cheating on Yoshino. They aren’t dating and Yoshino plainly said that she doesn’t like Kirishima. (Thank god she has eyes).
But in an ethical and interpersonal stand point, Kirishima is an absolute scumbag in every manner of the word. It doesn’t look great to anyone + it’s a bad sign when the person who claims to “like” you and wants to win you over is going out to fuck women and doesn’t even attempt to show loyalty. It doesn’t matter even if tells her up front that he’s going around to fuck women, it’s still scuffed up. It’s like going on a first date and all your partner does is talk about their ex’s and their sex conquests. And don’t think I’m saying that he should keep his fucking on the downlow... it’s still isn’t great!
Kirishima has no right to ‘hang on’ to Yoshino based on his actions and it’s clear that he doesn’t really ‘like-like’ her (I don’t even want to say “love). He’s like a child who wants to a new toy that just out of reach but at the same time wants to play with his other toys. He likes her... but likes her as a passing interest. We can tell based on the first chapter, he would chew her up and spit her out if Yoshino slips up just once and relaxes her “bad bitch” persona... she would lose his attention if she turns out to be “basic”. To him, Yoshino is just fulfilling his fetish. Hell I don’t even know he would like her anymore if she decides to like him back.
And before anyone sputters out anything about polygamy, open relationships, or being “woke” that’s cool! But we’re looking at Yoshino as reference here because she’s the MC. And Yoshino is more or less the traditional type of gal... as in she cares about monogamy. As such, the least Kirishima could do is appeal to that side of her to show how serious he is about her. But he isn’t. And about her being fine with him doing all this crap... yeah... because she doesn’t like him. Like... she hates him. Why would she care about the actions of someone she really doesn’t like? But him doing all that fucking around won’t improve her impression of him. Tbh, this reminds me of this date I had irl. Dude tells me all about his ex’s and sex adventures then asked me if I cared about him having sex friends. He was so shocked when I told him I literally didn’t care cause I don’t even like him.
Anyways, we have to remember that Yoshino is sticking around to break Kirishima’s heart and also to help her family. She could leave whenever she wants... and seeing how Yoshino hasn’t broken Kirishima’s heart yet, I think we can all tell that he doesn’t really “love” her yet for her to enact her plan. And if anything, they might end up in a loveless marriage tbh. (Well, I hope. I pray Yoshino continues to have good eyesight).
Also, if anyone is wondering why I haven’t dropped this crap, I’m still waiting for Kirishima to be a “yandere”.... since everyone swears from heaven and hell it will happen. Still don’t see it btw based on his actions and that nothing is telling me that he actually “loves” her. And if we’re talking about his earlier “jealousy” scenes, I associate it with his misogynistic view on women tbh.
TBH I want him to love her but I don't want her to love him.
So he could have his heart broken and she could crush his fucking pride because seriously I hate the guy.
//SPOILER MAYBE JUST ASSOMPTION//
//SPOILY SPOIL //
And I strongly feel like he is gonna die at the end.
+ Otherwise i completly agree with u
Oh wow, that’s a well thought out perspective!
yea I get that feeling too. I just hope at least she doesn't end up with him... Yoshino deservesss wayyyy better (▰˘◡˘▰)
I enjoyed reading this
@kai this most well thought comment i ever read and i totally agree with you. wish i could give more then just 1 like. my biggest fear she will end up liking him.
Bruh, Yoshino is strong af. Like way ahead of Kirishima.
Honestly, mood. But tbh I know this author’s other works and I know he has a thing for fucked up, loveless relationships. In his last manga, he had this guy and girl couple. Guy only liked the girl because she looked like her dead sister/crush. They ended up together. Girl is kinda lukewarm towards him going like “I guess I like you.” And guy still can’t tell the difference in his emotions between her and the sister.
Don’t quote me on this tho. My memory of the manga is hazy at best. But the point is: this is shounen and not many shounen mangas properly “respect” the female character.
Wow, I’m amazed that so many people liked my diet analysis. I did a review of this manga a long time ago, when it first came out, on my review blog. Said the same there there, more or less. People told me that I was wrong and cynical about the manga.
A year later, seems like I was on the right track lol
I really wished authors knew that there are other type of conflicts besides “miscommunication”. It’s not just this manga but all of them. This manga just happens to showcase the trope blatantly. It would be nice if there was an MC out there who recognize that there was a miscommunication and went: “Nah bitch. We’re going to talk about this as clear as day. You ain’t running today boy. I locked the fucking doors.” But usually it’s the ML who recognizes it and have to patiently explain to the overly emotional MC.
Now then... fun lesson for all you aspiring writers out there. Did you know that there are other conflicts besides miscommunication? Shocking, I know. They go as follows:
Person vs. person
Person vs. self
Person vs. Nature
Person vs. the unknown
Person vs. God/fate
Person vs. Society
Person vs. Technology
Miscommunication falls under person vs. person but there are more story conflicts that can come from the category. Just like person vs. technology. Yeah, a story where an MC has to fight an evil AI program counts as person vs. technology. But a story where it’s about an MC grappling with the advancement of technology compared to the old way of life is considered as person vs. technology too. Sometimes the obvious answer isn’t the best.
if the mc was reasonable and just talked it out it would be a very short manga
This manga is unnecessarily long for what it is. Should have been a one shot to begin with.
Bruh, I can’t. I have to drop this manga. The author really pulled a fast one on us by dragging us into her cuckholding fantasy.
Everything about this manga is scuffed. Good idea but bad execution. I see a lot of people putting blame on the husband or more blame on him with some fingers at the MC. Bruh, the MC is just as bad for enabling and encouraging everything. It’s fine if it’s all fantasy and you kept it to yourself, more or less. But once you try forcing it on other people, that’s fucked. The best way to put it: its like the MC going up to actual gay couples and asking them to watch and openly admit that she fetishize them. Then to use them for writing material without their permission? Bruh. And even when he said “No.” she still pushes it and act like it’s the end of the world. Bitch chill. Not having porn isn’t the end of the world and if she was really doing it to support gay love, she would be writing more shounen ai and less of the toxic yaoi story plots.
As for the husband, he’s isn’t great but I feel like he’s a bit of a victim here tbh. I really think he’s trying to cherish her and he recognized how valuable she is. Or at the very least say: “hey. You’re my wife. I want to do things with you and not my retainer. Why do you keep pushing me on to him?” Yeah, there was the weird kiss chapter but tbh, that was really out of character imo. I think the author just wanted to push their agenda. And I think in the light novel, that kiss was a hallucination from the MC part tbh. Also it is fucked that the MC pushed the retainer to take her place when the ML isn’t in a proper “consenting adult” mood.
Yeah, it’s scuffed that ML fucked MC when she made it clear she doesn’t like it but tbh, what MC likes sex in these stories. I swear to fucking Christ. All of them go “kya kya! I hate sex I hate sex!” But still be like “I feel so good!” Like damn bro, what is the ML supposed to do in these mixed signal situations. Curse you Madonna whore complex!!!! If I was the ML in any of these sort of mangas, I’d dump the MC and go to a brothel. At least those girls act like they’re enjoying it and say it.
As for the MC being openminded.... HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHA YOU THINK SHES OPENMINDED?! She’s only openminded when it fits her fetishes. “Hey, it’s normal for a husband to have a couple of lovers... but only if they’re gay! I refuse if it’s another woman though!” “I promote gay love! ... because I can write porn about gay men >:)” Bruhhhhh this shit is scuffed. Everything about this is weird even. The cons outweigh the pros.
But to be expected from Japanese isekai stories. The literal definition of “good idea, bad execution.”
I don’t know where to begin? This was such a wild fucking ride to read. A cross between a train wreck and a comedy; you just can’t look away.
1) when the FL stumbled upon their ritual thinking “a gangbang?!” No... it was an orgy.
2) the reason for keeping her is so stupid. “No one can know our secret for happiness!” Its sex, bob. Everyone knows what sex is.
3) Tbh, the chief isn’t so bad (says the person with a yandere fetish). My only issue is that he can only see the FL as his dead sister. That’s fucked... also I’m convinced the ML is the same but we’re just lied to think otherwise.