
i just want to make it clear that submissive personality men doesnt equal bottom, its kinda a stereotype and its not a healthy mindset. also its fine to ship the mc dad with another man, just ask if yall dont sexualize him and call him a bottom just due to his kind nature.
Theres a reason why alot of men isnt comfortable with femininity and being gentle because then everyone calls them a bottom, not a man, ect....
toxic masculinity is real people and yall shouldnt judge a character due to their personality nor look
thank you for coming to my ted talk

While I do agree with most of your statement. Toxic masculinity encompasses the idea that being a bottom is inferior and a “less of a man” when it’s not. It ties in with the idea that it’s a woman “position”. So that idea is misogynistic when-being in the woman’s “position” isnt lesser than being a man and should be viewed equally. Having a better outlook on one position is toxic masculinity. So there rlly shouldn’t be a problem with pple making him a bottom. I understand that guys can be uncomfortable being sexualize but that’s a different story than hating on being a bottom if that makes sense.

oh no i know what you mean but most of the comments stating hes a bottom is due to his kind gentle nature and its kinda sad to see that men cannot express themselves in more of a "feminine" nature without people saying "hes a bottom"
theres nothing wrong with being a bottom i was just trying to say that just because someone is soft doesnt equal being a bottom if you get what im trying to say.
sorry if i didnt express that better

just adding to what i am saying sorry,
not all bottoms have to be soft to be a bottom, i think the reason why im saying all of this is because there is alot of people thinking that soft = bottom in a gay relationship kinda feeds into the hetero idealism.
whatever a person is a top, bottom, verse, or none shouldnt exactly correlate to the persons personality and look is what im trying to emphasize
hes not worthy of her love at all point blank period hes one of the few shittiest mls i want to fucking beat the crap out of.
Your (im talking to the ml) trauma doesnt give you an excuse to treat people like shit you stupid fuck