I think the ML has an aloof personality, but I also believe he hides or doesn't mention his pervious relationships because a situation may have happened where they also questioned if he truly liked them. But you can tell something has happened because he sometimes questions how he should have done this less or etc when with the MC. I think he's very much serious about our MC but he's also being cautious with him too. But this isn't really benefiting him because it leads to the MC misreading his caution as lack of interest for him and their relationship.
Love your sensibility babes
I like this but I hate how every chapter is just sex now
THIS BRO, like its getting insanely annoying man where the fucking plot at
Why is there even a season four.....it's really not that deep. Don't be with either....why are we dissecting this to rebuild it back with one or the other or both.
I love how nothing is forced and taken without permission, or just made to be accepted even if they didn't asked for it. They are pretty wild, but everything is done with the consent of each other. No one is hurting the other or play mind games or being emotional immature because they don't understand their own emotions or feelings. I love how there is an equal balance of story and intimate moments and not just straight soul crushing smut. It's super green flag, but it has yet to become boring or repetitive. Not everything is sunshine and rainbows, but has moments that are actually relatable and realistic to keep the story interesting.
They really made the second couple the main story line........cuz like what happened to our main couple, they make short appearances in their own story. Don't get me wrong the second couple has a nice story line. But the main couple story could have been just as good...I mean if we ever get to see them. Man, I just a little peeved.
the four of them is the main characters, both couples are the main, there's no such a thing as a side couple on the four
both couples are the main from the start though, imo it's rather more interesting that we get to see different story pace for each couple
Are you reading this story without brain? All the characters are main here.
Don't let people tell you that Mo and He Tian are the main characters, back in the day (and I WAS HERE back in the day) we used to call them "side gays".
They may be everyone's favorite but they were NOT introduced with the main characters and they were NOT in the original plot. They became popular and because people apparently enjoy enemies to lovers more (with a side of SA), they are in a bigger demand, and that made Old Xian "abandon" the original main characters.
There was no plot in the beginning.. it was just random skits really. She even made He Tian have a crush on Blondie, then scrapped that when a proper plot started taking shape
It started out that way but I think it’s changed and now they’re equals.
I think the key to getting her to write more about the first couple is to show support when a Zhanyi chapter drops. If people are too negative it could well backfire and cause the reverse to happen.
At this point, I'm sort of taking what I can get. It's obvious He Tian / Mo shippers are louder, so I am embracing the FairPlay approach: they won the popularity contest and we won't get to see any development on Jian Yi and Xixi's story anytime soon. I am here for crumbles. I'll try not to be bitter about it, but let me tell you, this whole cat / mouse dynamic is so boring to me...
I appreciate the confirmation at the end!!! Really dope!
I wanted more but this is enough too. I needed him to be like if you keep this up I will let the world know about your ridiculous jinx etc...so don't appear back in front of me or my grandmother again. I wanted Dan to complete close that door and lock it and the only way JAEKUNG got access to him if and only if he let him in. I don't want to ML to have the capability to access him, to be completely shut off from him....to fucking suffer. But also this is only the beginning.
I'm not fulfilled..... something things are just missing and rushed. Hope there's side chapters.
I miss when ppl were scared they'd get an STI from sleeping around ╮(￣▽￣)╭ ....like being that back.
It never exists in BL. Why? Idk. It would definitely be refreshing if such were mentioned in BL but nah.
condoms & STI treatments exist
ykw, condoms aren’t 100% effective at preventing stis. and honestly, even though there's treatment, why go through all that trouble- spending money on treatment and dealing with emotional stress?
my brother, i think you are afraid of intimacy and have been taught to slutshame.
there is nothing wrong with consensual sex between adults. the idea of excess and concern trolling are implicit religion that have no place in the world, certainly not in anything other than causing more stress and misery, and certainly not in gay media.
Consensual is one thing.
Stupid Mangago, deleting my other parts.
After I said: Consensual is one thing:
My concern is towards those that don’t do treatments or get themselves checked, idk what redacted meant but for me, why put yourself and others at risk when having a more than two person intercourse and/or orgy. If that person involved in an orgy is interested in me, and wants to sleep with me, I’d definitely want them checked. Nothing about slut shaming, at least not from me.
It doesn’t exist in BL (a bit satire cause BL is known for lack of sex Ed) therefore I don’t think about the risk of STI spreading. It would be nice if mentioned but I can do without it too. It’s fiction for a reason.
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i mean, you clearly get that this stuff is fiction. authors are very rarely going to spend time going over STI prevention & treatment bc there's a high chance it'll come across as grandstsnding or proselytizing. people read these things to have fun, not to learn about how things work.
can fantasy media cause substantial harm? sure. which is why it's important to remind people fiction is fiction and to educate people in a serious environment. like sex ed class. in reality, we can't force people to adhere to not having sex, and we shouldn't try, bc promoting abstinence and not teaching about or giving access to contraceptives and medical aid always leads to significant increases in STIs and unwanted pregnancy. in essence, telling people to just stop having sex doesn't help anyone. unless you think everything on the romance to porn spectrum should have a pamphlet on safe sex practices?
that aside, there are a handful of BLs that address condom use & STI testing. those are the more down-to-earth type. there are many, many more BLs that have a virgin protagonist and their journey to find The One. and there are many that show condom use, even with committed couples.
I think you’re generalizing a bit here. I didn’t say to stop having sex, have more protected sex when you’re in an orgy or even just between two people. But it is more riskier and chances of spreading is higher with multiple partners if not clean.
Anyway, what you said is your own perspective and opinion. I’ll leave that be.