I keep trying but I can't come to like Haji...it's just his level of stupidity....it's so incredible. I don't even know what to say.
I don't know why I feel like the other guy might hold out so Jiho doesn't lose his ears without realising his life span is super short and he'll die.
That or he'll wake up and not remember anything.
Or he'll doubt the confession again.
I have trust issues...
Haji is weird af. If you're not sure about your feelings being solely sexual then you would do the direct opposite of sleeping with people. You would get to know them in a platonic, non-sexual way. It just seems like he's finding an excuse to justify his horniness, insecurities and commitment issues.
Haji said he is sleeping around with half animal to gain experience before truly finding someone he want to stay together with. The whole " i fall for his body and not his heart" is solely for horang that is why he is reject horang also haji is looking for human partner so he wont be getting to know his sleep partner better because they are half animal. Haji literally use the dating app because everyone there is looking for one night stand like him that is why he is mad when horang show up because we know horang didnt want just sex but also want emotion to be involve
Ok I understand the situation a bit better now. It still baffles me how on earth he came to that conclusion. Experience with sexual activities will only give you experience in sex (the body) and not the heart. To know the heart, you need to allow yourself to fall in love wih many different people, go all in, suffer heartbreaks, etc. to gain "experience". His logic doesn't add up and someone needs to make it clear to him.
I have nothing against people that enjoy one-night stands. It just bothers me that he said those words to Jiho when he had been through the progress of their relationship from the beginning.
In fact, he himself knew when Jiho fell,before Jiho himself was aware and it was an accumulation of little things rather than body. I mean, they haven't gone all the way yet and I'm pretty sure they haven't even been fully naked around each other yet.
It's just one of those situations where you unintentionally plant your own seeds of doubt onto someone else who was previously fine. Plus, guy was clearly extremely melancholic when he said those things, which makes me think he has a ton of issues to work through himself before handing out anyone advice.
Ahh i just reread the chapter apparently he not only sleep around but also try to date as much as possible so he can pinpoint what kind of guy he like ( you know finding out which personality you like blahblahbla) and then go find a "real" love after. I think as long as his partner isnt that serious too i dont see the problem with it.
Also jiho tell haji that the black hair guy jerk him off several times already + jiho used to like a girl not long a ago to the point he want to give his marble to that girl (that is how serious jiho) even if i was at haji position i would also ask jiho if he truly like him and not because of all the sexual activity they did. After all that guy is the first person jiho did sexual activity with so haji is just concern for his friend. And also jiho is the one that ask haji for his advice not the other way around. Tbh haji has been very supportive of everything jiho did he just asking so jiho wouldn't regret mistaking sexual love as "true" love. Its not planting seed of doubt but its to help jiho to truly understand his own feeling. At least that is what i think.
Well it could be interpreted in that way despite a few discrepancies with the characters expressions that were drawn in certain scenarios etc.
But with Jiho. He didn't like the girl seriously at all. In fact, he went on his first date with the girl and decided to propose with the marble...FIRST DATE.
Plus after that day, that girl has just like vanished lmao.
I can understand why Haji is concerned though. Jiho is naive and childish as hell. Apparently no one carries their marble, a very important thing, around outside...
Lmao that is true the author absolutely forget about that girl.
It's very cute and wholesome and the happy ending is the stuff of dreams. This manga is what is an embodiment of reality Vs expectations (switched because it started off with realistic depiction of love and ends with the fluffy, dreamy ones).
Once again, feeling annoyed.
Traumaisn't a free pass to bully others
I've got trauma from sexual harassment (by distant relatives) when I was 8 and been victim of physical and verbal bullying around the same year followed by being involved in a hijacking.
I don't go around putting up boundaries with people, discriminating against all men, and treating people like shit. No one is responsible for my feelings but myself and the person that caused it.
Taehwan needs to stop treating Yeonwu like his plaything that will dance to his tune. And Yeonwu needs to MOVE ON.
I cannot ship this couple...(๑•ㅂ•)و✧
i’m sorry i had to go through that but i as well was sexual assaulted and taehwan needs to understand that yeonwu has a life and can live it. if he wants yeonwu to know that he feels that way fucking TELL HIM.
kind spoiler: yeonwu starts to treat taehwan like how he treats him now
Do you have more spoilers
Fr that sounds like the best outcome.
Damn I'm sorry to hear about your experience too. People really suck.
Can't believe the nerve of some people to do those things.
just that yeonwu finally says no to taehwan i don’t want to spoil too much
No I like Spoilers
It's like, I feel sorry for taehwan for everything he has been through. But that doesn't give him the right to toy with someone else's feelings. He's super toxic. And it's going to take a HUUUUGE turnaround for him to be an acceptable partner for Yeonwu.
Then again, Yeonwu is also toxic. He should get over him and allow himself the chance to move on rather than hang onto his every word. He needs to have SOME pride and SOME self-preservation. Right now, he doesn't have a sense of SELF. His entire identity is just Taehwan's toy.
We had the sweet relationship at first and then a complete 180 flip of 2 toxic people. Either ways, I don't like taehwan. They both need therapy.
Is the brother....some kind of sociopath? He definitely has a mental illness? Underdeveloped brain?? Idk. But there's something definitely wrong with him. I mean, he thought the dead animals were a genuine gift....because of the pelt...wouldn't you normally make it into something and give the item rather than the dead animal??? Like bruh.
I knew it the moment I saw that panel. And that's to me doing nothing but reading BL.
As an asexual, I don't know how I feel about this.
He’s not asexual, he makes it very clear he has sexual trauma. Shii thought it might be a possibility until he saw through the guard tamaki put up. His mom put him through emotional incest, as well as sexual incest by having sex in the same room as him. I get what you’re saying, but he obviously has sexual desire, he just feels guilty because he promised his mom not to, and also is scared due to his trauma. He’s not asexual.
Me myself a bisexual-asexual. Attracted romantically to both girls and guys but not attracted to them sexually (not aromantic) and I can see that Shii is not asexual.
It's clearly because he is traumatized by his mom's 'love'.
I know he's not asexual. I was saying that I AM asexual and they did not describe asexuality correctly. They described it as having no feeling at all...that's a health issue not asexuality. Asexual people experience sexual feelings like normal people...some of us even enjoy sex but that doesn't mean we have any specific sexual attraction towards a person.
Being asexual also doesn't mean we don't have any romantic feelings at all which is what they described in the manga.
Also he could still be asexual and experience sexual feelings. It's completely possible. And before anyone comes for my throat, this is an example, I'm not saying he actually is.