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Oh brother stfu, the dynamic between the two fits their relationship. Just because it isn’t a complex relationship doesn’t mean it’s wrong. Now in most instances, people don’t act like yeonwoo, but he has been the happiest child these past few chapters. He is okay with being in a non committed sexual relationship with taehwan even though he is ignoring his feelings. That is a problem he brought upon himself when agreed that he didnt like him and continue to rendezvous. That isn’t taehwan’s problem.

Also yeonwoo is already into the bdsm world, his sex drive is a sub and he has literally been dying for taehwan to dom his ass. Thus he looks for praise and constantly apologizes if he felt something wrong. Taehwan even responded to him like “ if someone walked in here, they’d think I was bullying you.” So this unhealthy shit your talking about doesn’t exist. Yeonwoo is more that capable of telling him no, he did to that weirdo who choked him in the beginning. So just because you feel uncomfortable looking at him that way doesn’t mean it’s unhealthy, maybe you don’t like BL they way you thought you did and prefer shonen ai( and if your a kid that’s all you should be reading anyway).


Taehwan likes people of use, even though he is constantly denying his attraction to yeonwoo he continues anyway. Their issue are going to arise from these factors. Because taehwan is denying his feelings and yeonwoo is pushing his back for monetary gain.

NOW you wouldn’t understand how this relationship is not unhealthy at all because you probably haven’t had sex yet, and I don’t mean with just one partner. You are probably still a kid at that. So please before you deem a sexual relationship unhealthy, learn about sex and experience it yourself at the RIGHT TIME.

Oh shit you went in

Bestie calm down,

PERIODT TELL EM

what was bad about BJ Alex? jiwon literally had DINNER with donggyun to confirm his consent, and even affirmed it again halfway through the story. when donggyun finally learned his worth, then he dropped jiwon, but everything before that he fully consented to

I see both of y'alls points but like, u dont NEED to have a lot of sex or have a lot of sex partners to know what's toxic and what isn't, that's like saying u can only know smoking is bad for u if u smoke

But yea isnt not the doms fault in this situation, he NEVER said he would care for his emotional needs, they're just sex partners, leave it at just sex BUT there are HEALTHY ways of doing bdsm, leaving ur partner for who knows how long and making the sub feel legitimately scared (not the kinky scared/excited) is not one of them

Nothing wrong with being tied/blindedfolded/gagged or wtv, but he WAS uncomfortable for a while and didnt say no coz of a pretty face so I do agree that he should prioritize his needs over his crush/obsession

damn user in the first comment went hard lol.
i agree it's unhealthy and it's up to themselves whether they want to keep on reading or not.
they're sexual partners who both of them are "in agreement" of the bdsm thing (kind of) but none of them are taking it by the right way. as smn above said, you can have bdsm in a healthy way.
both of them have their own issues which they have to work on, that's what the story is about (or that's what i wanna think, we'll see later).
aaand yh now that i remember, bj alex was kind of similar but another whole story lol

next time you reply, try to make it less personal and aggressive so you don't come off as a jacksss. if you're trying to make a point, don't bring up my personal life into it and immediately start name calling. just makes you look like a brat unable to have a productive conversation.
yeonwoo is essentially a stepping mat. taehwan can beat the shit out him and he would still get off on that. the problem isn't the fact that yeonwoo likes being used, that's up to him. different strokes for different folks and all that, that's fine! but like the previous reply mentioned, it's the fact that he is so obsessed with taehwan to the point he will ignore his own boundaries to appeal to taehwan.
if the way taehwan is acting was consensual then it would've been fine. but it's not. taehwan, as far as yeonwoo is aware, is genuinely being an asshole to him. he doesn't care about his needs. doesn't care about the fact that he left him in an extremely vulnerable position without checking in on him and by the time he finally came, yeonwoo almost got caught. (and then he says "you and your roommate need to learn how to lock the door" which just confused me more because wasn't HE the one who was supposed to lock the door since yeonwoo was tied up? )
taehwan yeonwoo don't have their kinks negotiated, yeonwoo is in a vulnerable position where he is in love with taehwan to the point he will consistently push his boundaries and what he's comfortable with just so he can keep having sex with taehwan.
but no yeah, sure, call me a kid bunch of more times. that totally helps me understand what you're trying to get across and makes me want to read the rest of what you have to say.

oh their relationship was consensual doe the most part, it's the fact that dg low-key gaslit jiwon at some point and jiwon almost raped and hurt dg because he got jealous at the sex toy guy (don't remember his name, md? or something like that).

You obviously felt offended by what I had to say n how I said it. You spoke nothing but your personal feelings about each character and then repeated to get all upset with me.

By Felicia, your obviously just intimidated about what I had to say.

I can Agree with what you said about leaving him in the room for a long period of time like that being unhealthy. But the one possibly dangerous experience didn’t define their whole relationship nor did it affect yeonwoo. However, you do need experience in a sexual relationship or multiple in order to understand other peoples sexual innuendos. Just like how a man who never made a million dollars can’t tell you how to become a millionaire, you can’t expect someone who hasn’t experienced sex first hand to understand how one sexual experience with a partner doesn’t make an entire relationship unhealthy.

N what you fail to do is read the novel past face value. Over-evaluating what you wish to, and missing out on the context of the actual story.

So instead of just skipping to the sex scenes how bout actually read what each character says and does and how it fits into the story.

what the fuck are you even going on about at this point, dude? are you legit just high or something? because you are intentionally ignoring everything i have said, jumping to your own conclusions with no basis and running off on a narrative you have created yourself just so you can "own me" or whatever the fuck you think you're doing.
I DON'T NEED TO HAVE HAD SEX TO KNOW HOW CONSENT AND BDSM WORKS.
can you read it better now that i have written it in caps? because it seems like you didn't bother reading ANYTHING i wrote at all. i didn't fucking skip any sex scenes, i read through the entire fucking manhwa and wrote a comment based on what i felt and saw. why in the actual fuck are you so pressed? what, are you yeonwoo, valiantly defending your relationship with taehwan that's full of red flags? do you have a cock up your asshole that's constantly ramming your prostate, and you can't ejaculate unless you write long fucking paragraphs of assumptions and baselsss conclusions to piss people off? i have never met someone this fucking annoying as you, holy shit. please go fuck yourself. i hope we never meet again, fucking asshole.

i wasn't intimidated about what you had to say, just who the hell do you think you are? you think a stupid fucking reply can "intimidate" me? in case you've forgotten, this is the internet. you are quite narcissistic to imagine that i would be "intimidated" by a faceless nameless person coming to reply incoherent ramblings to my comment.
i was baffled, because you jumped to conclusions on your own and then twisted my words to make it look like i am such oversensitive baby for being able to recognize red flags in a relationship. have YOU ever been a relationship? because i have been in a mentally taxing relationship like taehwan-yeonwoo before, and ignoring these small red flags (that have been sprinkled throughout their relationship, but god forbid i mention that) has cost me. but no, you call me a kid couple times, try to make me look irrational, get some morons replying "oh haha you went for her sis

"oh haha you went for her sis , PERIODT" and think you're someone who can intimidate anyone, let alone me. by the stupid twitter lingo you use, you sound like a child who hasn't yet learned how to recognize red flags in relationships. good on you, but don't try to convince me i am suddenly childish for raising concerns about something i think matters. fucking immature, know-it-all brats like you piss me off so much

Me: *adds a comment*
Future me: *keeps coming back for the drama*

there's no more "drama" because i've blocked that insufferable person that was getting on my nerves.

Smart move lol

wtf????

fr does anyone know how to not spoil anything tf??

as someone who gives zero fux about AoT (whatever that even is) i too wish yall would shut up about it and focus on the actual comic.

FR THO

BAHAAHA (︶︿︶)＝凸

I like it. I think it’s what makes the plot and story interesting, I mean as long as it isn’t repetitive

He probably with his boyfriend #－.－)