
i hate the way men use a woman's love and effort to just throw it aside in the end. trash.

I also dislike the idea that either partner in a relationship would throw away anothers love and effort.
The only situation i can easily imagine this occurring though is when a love is unrequited. someone could simply not have feelings in return, or could be leading the other on.
(But this is DEFINITELY NOT something that is unique to men)
yeah this is nice. i love to see growth and mutual pure love. need that.