
dont rlly like how pushy the seme was, but i don’t see anyone else talking abt it?

I understand what you mean but personally I thought it was like the right amount, some people prefer for someone else to take the lead in romantic situations (honestly I feel like I definitely need someone like that cause there’s no way I could summon enough courage to make any moves lol) but he still held back sometimes - like when the other guy was hitting on him and when he was asking him out through the texts - to ensure that he was also actually interested in him. I don’t think he would have continued with anything if he didn’t think the black haired guy liked him as much or wasn’t as invested in the relationship. But it makes sense if you’re not so happy with it, everyone’s different

I will say tho I didn’t like the seme as much at the beginning cause there was no way he could’ve known for sure that he was gay (especially when he was telling him he wasn’t) so that definitely felt pushy to me, plus when he brought him to the hotel (but the uke did have the option of leaving anytime and he chose to stay despite being awake and capable of going home so I can see why that was interpreted as a sign that he wanted something to happen) but I liked him way more once they were together and the hotel situation is kinda what I mean when I say he held back sometimes cause I think that if the uke had left, the seme wouldn’t have pursued him any further cause it would have proved he wasn’t interested - but I could be wrong
yall this popped up in my youtube recommendation..
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VyuNWu-Echo&t=12s