since size differences have been the author’s thing. same with needy bottoms and overachieving tops, then the obsession with tops going wild even when the bottom says stop would have an excuse lmao
lmao exactly, the joke is that it doesn’t matter what trope an author uses. no consent or dub-con is still rape. still annoying how common it is for abo stories to say an alphas rut or omegas heat is an excuse for it, but at least it can be blamed on some type of biological power system and not the top being a inconsiderate sexual assaulter consciously
I mean the same could be said for people who assault others while theyre high or drunk, alcohol and marijuana and be used as aphrodisiacs with side effects like possible aggression and incoherence. Chemical changes in the brain and whatnot because of the influence could warp your sense of morality or critical thinking as well. The urge to have sex rlly wouldnt make you rape someone no matter how intense it is...omegaverses make no sense anyways so the authors probably dont think that its that deep. Omegaverse is quite literally male and female power dynamics put onto men solely, omegas are the weak oppressed who are blamed for enticing alphas to assault them...sounds familiar
oh that’s not-
yep i agree with everything if it wasn’t clear enough. nothing justifies rape- not alcohol, drugs, or even fictional excruciating, painful horniness (heat/rut). i said what i said earlier because the author puts so much dub-con and rape scenes, they might as well write an abo story so they could hide behind the curtain of alpha and omega physiology
omegaverse is very much influenced by the patriarchy and violence against women but eh my original topic wasn’t supposed to be a deep think piece but more like a jab at the author for how much SA scenes they put in comparison with actual abo… and i wouldn’t really compare intoxication/influence of drugs to fictional biological changes in the body. since abo has stronger, more compelling chemical imbalances in bodies, and the whole concept of it is they need literal crack to mask pheromones and shit lmaoo. but irl drugs aren’t needed on that type of scale (preventative for alpha omega symptoms) or cause that same inhibition, since we’re talking about specifics. this whole paragraph got me crying why are we arguing about omegaverse and rape. we agree on the same thing best friend, this topic was js a shitpost <3
do yall not see how small brained they were for this… the best route was asking mc what’s going on and what their plan is?? because at least mc could come out to the lead and directly say i only used the prank as an excuse to confess, what he thought, was an unrequited love- who happens to be a MAN and his FRIEND
the twins assumed their friend chickened out of confessing and was too guilty, didn’t think to confirm their bias at all lmao. the intentions were good but the execution was horrible and that’s what the problem is…
at least give mc a warning before, they threw their friend under the bus without a heads up… didn’t prepare an apology together or even let him finish his sentence the was the most frustrating timing ever. idk how there’s so much forgiveness for them when mc could’ve handled it on his own?? If they were so concerned they should’ve talked to him directly, not only once over the phone and making assumptions after










not ignoring his partners antics from before, but not trusting your friend at all is detrimental as fck. it’s always been an ick of mine when victims of cheaters go after the “homewrecker” and not the cheating spouse. yea the position was compromising but ho-in was also already assuming the worst and went after the one constant friend he’s had with no room for explanation. like bruh he’s been so quick to get angry in the side stories n it’s gross and ruining his character for me
how is he quick to get angry when the whole reason why they’re doing this is because he never shows himself getting angry?? This has literally been piling up inside him and they wanted ho-in to get angry soo this is what they asked for
how did you not see the nuance in this. they wanted him angry as in jealous, possessive/rough during sex, not violent and jumping to beat people? the anger piling up inside him was so unjustified, except for when he saw the friend fall over, but the little actions that led up to it weren’t enough events to even pile up lol
reread the recent ch, but he threw and broke a pen and got all raged up all because he was angry his hyung hung out with his friend for another day. from the timeline not much happened other than them hanging out on few occasions and the friend calling the bf “hyung”
the snapping made sense for the latest chapter, but not going after the friend and already assuming the absolute worse by them being in proximity. like that’s strange??
I don’t get how ho-in’s anger is unjustified when they both know that what they’re doing is going to make him jealous/upset? Just because there wasn’t a lot of events that happened doesn’t mean that he can’t get angry. They just got to a peaceful point where chunwoo stopped going back & forth between ho-in and the other dude and he was probably almost getting over that. Just for chunwoo to make him jealous again using his best friend? Hell yeah I’d be pissed
no yea i get being annoyed and ticked off, but his reactions were not on par with the actions his best friend and bf did beforehand. if you think it is, thats a matter of personal choice but the rage he showed just from being apart from his partner for a few days and then seeing his best friend call his bf an honorific was strange to me. its not that he can’t get angry at all to me, its that he was so intense over nothing at first. the only justified time for him to be mad was when walking in on them, but other than that you’d think the bf killed his dog or something. i know their dynamic is different because of chanwoo but really look at his reactions to the smallest interactions between the best friend and bf? if he was suspecting something why not ask straight up instead of jumping to conclusions, and doubting your friend without a chance. im not making light of his situation but trauma doesn’t excuse behaviors
Ummm let me get on top of your significant other with a whole bunch of dildos around us are you really gonna think we aren’t doing anything especially if you cashed them and they said they were doing nothing and just charging their phone ? Yea this totally sounds & looks like nothing…NOT how is hoin an annoying bitch when his boyfriend purposely neglected and wanted to make him jealous and you mentioning this nonsensical plan say oh it was just to make him jealous and rough in bed HE LITERALLY COULDVE JUST ASK HOIN TO BE ROUGH DURING SEX LIKE WHAT ??? And granted hoin did go overboard with his reaction I still think it’s a pretty normal thing…. And hoins boyfriend ain’t the most trustworthy person I know so why after two years of testing him and treating him wrong knowing you lost his trust be like ok !!! Let’s make him think I’m cheating so he can slap my ass during sex !!! Everyone is wrong in this damn situation but if anyone is closest to right it’s hoin
ok… i literally say that the only time his anger is justified is in that situation where he finds him on top. i don’t think you’re getting my point, but also ho-in was the one who knew of his bfs situation in the first place and wanted to be used?? he’s not the closest to right and agree they all need some communication. you are taking me calling him an annoying bitch a lil to personal
No it’s just there’s no reason for you to call someone an annoying bitch for venting anger that their partner keeps building up inside them tf have some compassion the hell
how does calling someone an annoying bitch make them have less compassion what?? there is reason i called him that and i listed them… just because you’re angry it doesn’t mean you lash out in the ways he did and i throughly explained how it was weird for him to jump to conclusions and shit. maybe read what i said about him perhaps instead of jumping to put your own input?
like damn my whole point is that he’s fucked up for not believing his friend and jumping to conclusions BEFORE walking into the situation with them? im not even defending the bf, but how ho-in is so territorial over him and it causes him to even distrust and wreck his other friendships
Don’t you think that it’s the friends fault for wrecking the friendship since he went along with it? If my so-called best friend made a plan with my bf to get me
jealous that’s fucked up and super toxic. The friend shouldn’t have agreed to do it bc he knows what ho-in is like. I’m not the jealous type but if my best friend and bf are being suspiciously secretive, not answering the phone, and only hanging out one on one. I would start not trusting them. This whole plan is causing ho-in to distrust chunwoo and his friend.
uh yes? why do yall think im defending the bf or the best friend im strictly talking about ho-ins behavior alone. he doesn’t know that the friend is purposefully doing that or sees that they’re being suspicious… he BELIEVES and accuses his friend based off the neutral actions. the bf is allowed to hang out with other men one on one and should be a person outside of ho-in. if your first reaction is to freak and chase your bf down for not picking up for a few hours maybe that’s something that should be worked on. you’re thinking from an all knowing perspective which is completely different from the things that ho-in actually sees himself. no where am i saying the friend and the bf were justified or right bruh, youre really not getting where im coming from in that ho-in needs to heal and do better with overthinking/anger