Let me make it worse by saying that it’s actually a thing that happens in real life except most people don’t act on the urge. A lot of times, adoptive parents/children or separated parents/children will start to see the other as attractive in a sexual way. It’s messed up but it’s a biological urge. It’s partly because of the idea of keeping the bloodline “pure” since that is actually something we kinda biologically are evolved to want but also the opposite is true hence the adoptive parents/children situation. We both want “pure” bloodlines and evolution of genes that comes from adding variety to the genes and forcing some mutations to occur. The whole “I raised him and became his lover and then realised it’s better to stay as a parent and friend” thing exists a lot. Even biological parents sometimes face this when their children go through puberty since seeing an attractive human in their “prime” typically gets hormones firing regardless of who it is. It’s messy and gross but biologically, it’s pretty common to feel the urges, just uncommon to act on them.
You should've kept that "fun" fact to yourself
You could have stopped reading at “let me make it worse” and have been blissfully unaware lol. I had to unfortunately find out this info on another book so I’m just spreading the info so we can all trauma bond because the authors decided to add this little trope into the stories.
I personally hate you, and hope both sides of your pillow are warm tonight<3
You could've spared but decided otherwise
That’s fine but please reserve some hate for your own curiosity. I said “let me make it worse” and that was kinda a huge clue that it’s probably gonna make it worse but you still decided to read on so be sure to spare some hate for curiosity. Like I said, I had to find out in an unfortunate way so I’m just spreading the traumatic info I learned via someone else on this site in the hopes we can all bond in this uncomfortable reality.
LMAO We bonded alright
My bad dawg, i was just jokin with you. But youre right its mostly my curiosity's fault.
Nah it’s partly my fault but idk how to put it as a spoiler tag so I just put that little thing in the beginning lol
So our baby boy saw his parents conceive him? That’s… so disgusting that I can’t even fathom it.
I know this is just for the story so I’m letting it slide but anyone who’s obsessive in the way the brother is (aka making up delusions and using violence when reality isn’t matching up with those delusions) SHOULD NOT BE HANDLED BY YOURSELF! YOU SHOULD NOT ENGAGE IN CONVERSATION ESPECIALLY IF YOU ARE CONTRADICTING THEIR DELUSIONAL NARRATIVE!! IT WILL GET YOU KILLED!
People with this delusional obsession are actually the most violent types and they have a “if I can’t have you, no one can” mentality and they WILL act on it. Just like you see here, he wants to kidnap her and have her for his own self and like she said, it’s because he feels pathetic and the only person he can control is her because she’s weaker than him and he’s conditioned her to follow his words through repetitive abuse. It probably started out as a narc/scapegoat situation where he’s insecure and that doesn’t match his internal image that he is perfect so he makes her the scapegoat and takes his anger out on her. All of his negative emotions towards himself go towards her so that he doesn’t have to feel them and process them. He probably got codependent on her from constantly doing that and then ended up with this whole obsession as she grew up and went through puberty. Basically his mindset was that since he needs her and she’s a woman and he can’t live without her, he must be in love with her because what else could it be? He thinks he’s perfect so he couldn’t be obsessed since only mentally unstable people have that and he’s not mentally unstable right? (<— His mindset).
If you ever encounter a person with delusional obsession like him, please please do not engage. Get a trusted person and both of you, go to the police. A restraining order won’t stop them but that’s actually kind of a good thing. Stay with the trusted person. When something inevitably happens, call the police right away and have them arrested for not only coming after you but also for breaking the RO and hopefully they will be in jail and you’ll never have to see them again. If you are confronted and you have no one to help you, please just go along with the delusion. I know how tempting it is to say “ew gross get away from me you creep!” But you’ll end up in danger that way. Go along with the delusion in a way that allows you an escape and at the first chance you get, take it and call the police or recruit someone to help you out of this situation.
I’m sure there are tons of Reddit subs and forums online that can help you if you’re ever in this situation but this is what’s personally helped me get away from a person with an obsession. Stay safe out there ^-^
Complains about throwing clothes whenever but then he throws clothes on the floor himself… he’s such a douchebag
Can we appreciate the fact that this man is so strong that he can single handedly carry his fully grown slightly bigger than average boyfriend while manoeuvring a door while making out?????? Like sir! He’s so female gaze coded like wtf. Being that strong that you can just pick him up like nothing with only one hand under the butt??? Idk why I’m so hung up on it but it needed it’s appreciation.
Did you read my mind
Yesss.... I do appreciate
Jay with his hair down this chapter looked so young!! It makes me wonder if that’s why he intentionally dresses up and does his hair up like that cause he knows he’s a bit of a baby face with his hair down! He’s so adorable ^ ^
Double down and make it awkward. “Sorry! This airhead was just leaving so would you be so kind as to move away from blocking the door? Thanks! That’s a REAL fire hazard you know? ^ - ^ ”
When in doubt, make them think they said it out loud because it’s always a social faux pas to be rude in public especially to the person themselves. Those rich upper class would NEVER wanna be seen as a tactless hooligan who can’t keep their trap shut so show them up.
THIS!!
The ring was put on his finger then the next time we see his hand until the end of the chapter, it’s gone… ╥﹏╥
sorry i mean to upvote
Instead of slashing up other people’s hands due to your inadequacy, listen to 2set and put in your 40 hours of practice daily to follow lingling’s teachings!