But babe he was also being ridiculed in those rumours so since you, as his superior, aren’t going to protect your subordinates from workplace discrimination and bullying… he’s gonna have to put all of those bitches in their place. If you don’t wanna do the work, someone else will. Don’t get prissy just because an intern had the balls to do something when the director lacked any.
How are you gonna show you’re innocent but you won’t tell who it was? Also, he was so right with the gay comment. You’re gonna say that you can’t trust a gay to be discreet about another gay? Knowing that gay A has also gone through the woes of being gay and closeted?? Absolute nonsense. For the sake of your relationship with your partner, you simply say “you aren’t supposed to know this but it’s xx person. I’m only telling you so that we can clear up our misunderstanding but they aren’t out babe so you need to act like you don’t know.” and then you can carry on with the rest of your convo but to act like a queer person cannot be confidential about another queer person is rubbish. I admire him for being confidential but I don’t for him allowing a misunderstanding to continue when there’s a very simple solution.
i think not only is the other guy not wanting to reveal he slept with a man but it's also his choice not to have it revealed to anyone, gay or not. i mean, if you slept with someone and you told a friend about it and then this friend tattled it to someone without your permission/knowledge, you would feel upset right? especially if that person is someone you don't know much but only familiar with.
i kind of understand where the top is coming from because it's his friend's privacy, if he asked not to tell anyone as in ANYONE then he shouldn't tattle on it to someone else even if it's their lover since from their situation, the bottom is only familiar with the other guy cause he works there but they're not like friends or anything at all so knowing who he slept with is kinda? i mean he got reassured already that it was someone else from the same department. "out of all people you chose to link me with, you chose him?" isn't that enough proof that the top actually never expected it to be THAT GUY out of all people which says alot because his face looked a little distraught.
for the bottom's side, i understand that he has trust issues and it's really hard to recover from a past trauma regarding cheating but he's getting angry even though he already explained. telling someone someone's secret isn't that easy if you're actually a good friend yk? he was already assured that it was someone else but he still got mad that he wasnt being told about the other guy's affair...? "I promised not to tell anyone." that one line is enough to understand where the other guy is coming from. how can he recover from his other relationship if he still clings to that experience instead of trying to trust someone for real like you're spoiled rotten by your lover. and that's such a wild assumption just because he got a "nice ass" like anyone can have a nice ass. he brought it up on himself, the top reassured him more than enough yet he lets his past get to him. instead of calmly approaching it, he decided to be aggressive which is already a red flag (trauma reaction or not).
though I'm not siding with anyone, I'm just saying what i observed this chapter being accused of cheating because you're in the same department and you have a nice ass is kinda... low ig? and the socks too like anyone can do that even if you don't know them.
u have a point gurl but sht uke's assumption of him is still valid Seme said he was with the redguy that night right?then when he heard the the redflag sleep with someone in their team plus with all shts ofcourse u would suspect ur lover who he was with that night (even i suspected him being with that guy before i read the spoiler) but then this sht get even more sht when he choose to not tell the uke When i know that he shouldn't reveal it to anyone BUT BRO THIS IS THE RISK OF THEM BEING BREAKING UP BUT HE CHOOSE TO STAY STILL SILENT (YEA HE SAID HE WOULD CALL THE REDHAIRED GUY BUT WHO WOULD BELIEVE TO SOMEONE THEY SUSPECTING TO HAVE A THING WITH THEIR BF?NO ONE WOULD)AND THAT'S WHAT PISSED ME OFF
This is my point. It’s admirable to keep a friends secret but at this point you are choosing to not trust your partner to be confidencial AND you are wrecking the trust in your relationship. How can you expect someone to trust you if you don’t trust them? Everything looks shady and instead of just spilling the beans and saying “babe I really am not meant to tell you so please don’t tell anyone. I’m only saying this so that we can clear our own personal misunderstanding”, he decides to basically place his work friend over his lover who he knows was cheated on before. I’ve been cheated on before and although I had therapy and now I don’t have any insecurity (to the point that anything goes as long as there’s no lies told to me), I would STILL be suspicious in this situation. Anyone and their great grandma would be suspicious of this situation. The bottom just wants the truth. He doesn’t even care if he did cheat, he just wanted honesty and the top couldn’t even provide that much. On top of all of that, THE BOTTOM IS GAY AND CLOSETED SO OFC HES GONNA KEEP ANOTHER CLOSETED GAYS SECRET!! In literally any other circumstance, keeping your friends secret would be the correct decision but in this case, it’s the worse one.
You think he doesn’t know that? The matter of the fact is that children are hard wired in their brains to unconditionally love their parents and seek approval from them. It’s basic biology. So why is it that no one ever asks “what tf did the parent do that would overwrite the hard wiring in the child? How badly did they screw up in order to force the child to hate someone they were biologically forced to unconditionally love?” His mum not only abandoned him BUT ABANDONED HIM WITH AN ABUSER!! “But he turned out successful!” Means nothing if he’s suffering and has suffered all this time! People who have never been in this situation won’t understand. No one will understand what it’s like to be forced to overwrite your unconditional love and biology in order to appropriately keep yourself safe unless you’ve lived it. He was forced to endure an abuser who by the way LEFT HIM WITH SEVERE PSYCHOLOGICAL DAMAGE TO THE POINT HE CANT TASTE ANYMORE!! I don’t think people understand how messed up that is. He was abused to the point he lost one of his main senses… imagine if that sense was sight or touch or hearing. He would be considered disabled. Blindness, deaf or severe nerve damage is considered to be a huge deal but why not any of the other senses? His sense of taste has been lost. It’s one of the main senses for a reason!! We have about 30+ senses overall but only 5 made it to basic education. That’s how important they are. And his mum is the cause of him losing it by abandoning him with the dad. She deserves nothing but hatred and disdain. No wonder she never sought him out. She knew she didn’t have any right to seek him after she abandoned her own child. Which btw, mothers are biologically hard wired to prioritise their children’s safety over their own safety. What does it say about the mother that she got away on her own?
I feel you on that. There’s a saying that it takes a village to raise a child so why do parents think that children can raise themselves and it end up okay? It’s such a shame. Forgiving ourselves for hating ourselves or thinking we did something to deserve this is one thing but to forgive those who put us in that position is something we are never obligated to consider let alone give. I wish you forgiveness on yourself and healing. I see you and I am so incredibly proud of you and I love you. Even if our parents (or whoever it was) doesn’t, I do. They may have fucked up your life but here’s to flipping yourself over and living and fucking it back!
Thank you i cried a little bit while reading. Just before i wrote that my mom came and told me he is still your father dont disrespect him forgive him etc. I never felt this angry before. My mom always told me bcz of me she is suffering every fking time of my life she didnt leave but instead used me to vent her anger issues... i always hear my dad saying im manipulating my mom and how unfilial i am.
Yeah I was in the same position as a kid. At some point we went to a women’s refuge but both of them still continued to tell me how much they hated each other and how it was my fault and how much like the other parent I was. I honestly think that most people just don’t deserve to have children. The anger issues will eventually be managed but it won’t ever go away. You’ll have to work super hard just to get it to a point where you don’t want to become a bomb and blow everything up. I’m 21 and I still have internal anger and depression. I found out even more stuff that is actually a massive crime (and in my family’s religion, would be punishable by death in certain countries) happened against me. I won’t say it gets better but as you get older, you gain more power and more control and therapy techniques honestly help. Feel free to dm me if you ever need advice or to vent. I know we are just people who read manhwas and mangas about two dudes fucking but I’m pretty sure we have a good community here. You aren’t alone. You can have a digital village to help continue to raise you. It won’t be the same but it’s pretty heartwarming! I’m sending lots of love and cuddles and headpats your way!
My man brings up some very valid points. How can you be religious and go to heaven when you select which commandments to follow and which to ignore? When you only follow the ones that hurt others? Also in the bible, it says a man shouldn’t lie with another man as he would a woman… that’s instructions not hatred towards gays!! The hole is at the back so you gotta flip him over!! Honestly I wish this gets brought up more often since it’s so hypocritical of the religious ones who hate on others. They forget that God created all to be exactly as they are so if gay is a sin, God created this person to be gay and sinful. It’s literally God created. Who are you to disagree with Gods decisions? (づ ̄ ³ ̄)づ











Fire the secretary?? Like.. your boss is the “princess” and yet, all your actions are for the benefit of the king and other royalty? You don’t even consider what the “princess” wants but you still keep your job as a personal secretary??? I’d fire him. I would genuinely be like “um can I speak to your superior please?” Cause no way in hell am I putting my trust and life in the hands of someone who doesn’t want my best interests. You want someone to give birth from a freak knotting event the first time they go into heat?? You don’t even want them to have the option to get used to the new changed their body is going through? Really? Absolute madness.