Qxeen_zxy created a topic of Can't Think Straight

When I first started, this was a -5 star read but now I’m actually sad there aren’t more stars I can give it! It’s wayyy better than a 5 star! I’m so glad I stuck it out. This is one of the best turnarounds I’ve ever read.

Qxeen_zxy created a topic of Ang Ang

They were speaking English. English speaking people are typically less homophobic than Korean speaking people are so just say boyfriend and stake your claim to your man. We all know you want him on your lap or on the floor next to you as soon as possible so do that (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

Accuse the obsessed person of being an adulterer! That’s totally the smart thing to do! It’s not like they are so obsessed with you that they only like you and merely tolerate those around you and hate everyone else and only acts nice so that YOUR reputation doesn’t tank cause quite frankly they couldn’t care less about their own reputation when it’s your love on the line… noooooooo it couldn’t possible be that! They absolutely HAVE to be cheating. What a joke author. Conflicts can be anything. Could be one person not filling up the dishwasher correct but you went to cheating?? And not just cheating but you chose the very last person who would cheat… as the potential cheater??? It’s just stupidity at this point.

Someone reply to this when they finally get somewhere. This plot is dragging on rn and I’m actually getting bored. If and when it starts getting interesting again, I’ll read it. Thanks in advance!

Literally they could have told her the truth the moment she came in and one of 2 things would have happened.

1. She believed it from the start and accepted it as the truth.
2. She thinks it’s a huge prank/joke and she laughs it off.

With both of these options, no one has at any point in time lied to her. Even if she finds out later that it wasn’t a joke, she can link it back to the time they told her the truth and she can learn to accept it easier since it’s just the case of accepting or not accepting. With the added lies, now comes betrayal and fear and distrust and anger and humiliation and loneliness that she also needs to confront. At any point in time, they could have just told her the truth and left it as it was since the worst thing that can happen is she doesn’t believe you and hates being pranked and the best is that she believes it and accepts it wholeheartedly but there really is no downside. This doesn’t make you a hypocrite or a person with questionable morals unlike lying for months does. If she believes you and thinks you’re all wacko then so be it. Play into the wacko by continuing to tell the truth. She will probably join in on the fun and spin her own tales. Everyone but her is so stupid.

Qxeen_zxy created a topic of Almost Love

I started this and yes his homophobia is kinda bothering me but what’s bothering me more is the fact that he’s being sexually harassed by the bisexual. You know he’s uncomfortable so you trick him into coming to your house when he’s drunk and you KNOW where he lives? And on top of that, you and this hyung trick him into a legally binding contract he wants no part in while he’s drunk (which actually means it’s not legally binding in any way shape or form) and you expect him to be okay with you? He wakes up in bed, naked next to a bisexual man who’s obviously got the hots for him and is also naked. I’m pansexual myself and I’d be homophobic in that moment. Are you kidding me? If he even so touched a hair on his head while he was drunk and vulnerable, that’s sexual assault so ofc he’s going to hate gays and bisexual men more than ever. You aren’t really making a good case for bisexual men being good people dude. None of the characters in this book are loveable at the moment so I’m dropping but I still do feel a tiny bit sorry for the homophobe. Clearly he has bad experience with gay people and you’re absolutely making it worse.

Qxeen_zxy created a topic of Iyashite Otosu

He’s sharky and I love him and I wanna adopt him. Please be my sharky!

Qxeen_zxy created a topic of I'll give you my purity

I came here for dean and Sarah but if Sarah is picking the count then there’s absolutely no point to me reading this anymore. If dean shows back up and Sarah grovels a bit and makes it up to him, someone comment so I can come back but I just can’t read a story between the count and Sarah. It feels wrong.

Qxeen_zxy created a topic of Hidden Depths

At first, I didn’t know whether to be impressed by his calculative manipulations or to be freaked out by how easily he made it all look coincidental but then he pulled the “I can’t hold back anymore” bullshit when baby boy CLEARLY said not right now. Anyone with a cock that huge should have the self control and intelligence to understand that you need to properly prepare in order for that monster to go in. If not, stay celibate or become a eunuch to avoid assaulting people. I think the thing I hate more is that other than him being manipulative, he’s actually a pretty decent guy and a really good catch (handsome, tall, rich, kind, willing to learn new skills in order to impress his crush, sense of responsibility, etc.) so this whole dubcon assault thing is just so outta left field that I wasn’t even prepared to witness it. If he was an asshole then I could have prepared my soul for this fuckery but no. He catfished us just as well as he catfished baby boy.

Qxeen_zxy created a topic of Mr. Kang's Son-in-law

My boy is right. What? You can fist fight in an important meeting in front of all the staff and investors but you can’t fist fight behind closed doors? You can ruin your own companies reputation but to fight to the death in private is too much for you? Fucking losers. My baby boy is the only sane one and should head the company. The two hormonal toddlers should sit the fuck down.

Girl you can’t even be jealous over his coworkers he looks downright STARVED and on the brink of DEATH cause he’s been craving you and only you and no one else even registers to him! Babe he’s so obsessed with you so just enjoy the ride

But if both parties are willing to be obsessive and stalk each other, I actually somehow find it adorable?? Like it’s totally toxic and wrong but if it’s mutual… isn’t it just that they match each others crazy?? Idk it’s kinda cute

Qxeen_zxy created a topic of Come and Take!

Instead of slashing up other people’s hands due to your inadequacy, listen to 2set and put in your 40 hours of practice daily to follow lingling’s teachings!

Qxeen_zxy created a topic of Thirst

Let me make it worse by saying that it’s actually a thing that happens in real life except most people don’t act on the urge. A lot of times, adoptive parents/children or separated parents/children will start to see the other as attractive in a sexual way. It’s messed up but it’s a biological urge. It’s partly because of the idea of keeping the bloodline “pure” since that is actually something we kinda biologically are evolved to want but also the opposite is true hence the adoptive parents/children situation. We both want “pure” bloodlines and evolution of genes that comes from adding variety to the genes and forcing some mutations to occur. The whole “I raised him and became his lover and then realised it’s better to stay as a parent and friend” thing exists a lot. Even biological parents sometimes face this when their children go through puberty since seeing an attractive human in their “prime” typically gets hormones firing regardless of who it is. It’s messy and gross but biologically, it’s pretty common to feel the urges, just uncommon to act on them.

Qxeen_zxy created a topic of Call me the Devil

So our baby boy saw his parents conceive him? That’s… so disgusting that I can’t even fathom it.

I know this is just for the story so I’m letting it slide but anyone who’s obsessive in the way the brother is (aka making up delusions and using violence when reality isn’t matching up with those delusions) SHOULD NOT BE HANDLED BY YOURSELF! YOU SHOULD NOT ENGAGE IN CONVERSATION ESPECIALLY IF YOU ARE CONTRADICTING THEIR DELUSIONAL NARRATIVE!! IT WILL GET YOU KILLED!

People with this delusional obsession are actually the most violent types and they have a “if I can’t have you, no one can” mentality and they WILL act on it. Just like you see here, he wants to kidnap her and have her for his own self and like she said, it’s because he feels pathetic and the only person he can control is her because she’s weaker than him and he’s conditioned her to follow his words through repetitive abuse. It probably started out as a narc/scapegoat situation where he’s insecure and that doesn’t match his internal image that he is perfect so he makes her the scapegoat and takes his anger out on her. All of his negative emotions towards himself go towards her so that he doesn’t have to feel them and process them. He probably got codependent on her from constantly doing that and then ended up with this whole obsession as she grew up and went through puberty. Basically his mindset was that since he needs her and she’s a woman and he can’t live without her, he must be in love with her because what else could it be? He thinks he’s perfect so he couldn’t be obsessed since only mentally unstable people have that and he’s not mentally unstable right? (<— His mindset).

If you ever encounter a person with delusional obsession like him, please please do not engage. Get a trusted person and both of you, go to the police. A restraining order won’t stop them but that’s actually kind of a good thing. Stay with the trusted person. When something inevitably happens, call the police right away and have them arrested for not only coming after you but also for breaking the RO and hopefully they will be in jail and you’ll never have to see them again. If you are confronted and you have no one to help you, please just go along with the delusion. I know how tempting it is to say “ew gross get away from me you creep!” But you’ll end up in danger that way. Go along with the delusion in a way that allows you an escape and at the first chance you get, take it and call the police or recruit someone to help you out of this situation.

I’m sure there are tons of Reddit subs and forums online that can help you if you’re ever in this situation but this is what’s personally helped me get away from a person with an obsession. Stay safe out there ^-^

Qxeen_zxy created a topic of Part-Time Partner

Complains about throwing clothes whenever but then he throws clothes on the floor himself… he’s such a douchebag