
please let these people get some closure. just have an honest and clear conversation, i need the ex boyfriend to tell him that they’re officially broken up instead of just stringing him along by being unclear, and i need our boy to recognize that he can’t live in the past and that life won’t stop for him.
if you grew up the way ilyan did, you would have this attitude too. this man could never trust anybody, not even his own neglectful father. of course he’s going to lash out the second people care about him, let’s not be stupid.