sometimes i really wonder if it's important to put a label on people (like gay, bisexual, pansexual etc). love is love, isn't it? i mean, i don't have anything against people who identify themselves as such but i still wonder about this
In the grand scheme of things, no, labels aren't important and I agree with your comment. But for where we are in time right now, I think they are VERY important. Just having your label acknowledged means that a fundamental part of your identity is valid, even if it's not fully accepted by society yet. And knowing that many others share this same label makes you feel less alone.
whenever i think of me turning old i always fear that i'll end up forgetting (y'know like getting dementia or alzheimer's) my loved ones (like my sister, who is very dear to me or my future partner if i ever get married lol) but reading stuff like this reminds me that even if i forget them i'll still love them











not a big deal? nOT A BIG DEAL??? what he went through is definitely not "not a big deal"
he has all of us crying and weeping and wanting to murder the previous queen (even though she's dead) for doing shit like that to him
That's not an uncommon victim's reaction. They tell themselves that to not break apart. Maybe he's also repeating what he was repeatedly told back then.
this makes it even more sad and worse
It really does...