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And definitely not cheating if he was forced or manipulated

Thats totally rape and kidnapping...
Where the hell this cheating idea come out???

thanks for the spoiler and hooooly shit??? that’s super dark omg....

Woah that was dark. I thought this will just be the usual love triangle with very tense relationships between the three.

It’s good

I think it is ... it is cute and the characters are very likable

With whom?

Idk that's what it said on lezhin so I have started it yet because I don't want to go through the pain if it is till it's over

Oh oh. That's true. In lezhin are two versions of the description. One is with only the two and the other says there comes another guy. I don't like this :c

Dear lord I hope not. I hate those. Have been suffering enough with Anti PT

The Webtoon on LEZHIN has the #lovetriangle ╥﹏╥

Right? I feel I'm seeing my sons. Huhuhuhuhu. They grow up so fast~

Yea! But this is something that happens in a lot of bdsm mangas ╮(￣▽￣)╭

there's /definitely/ something off. as someone who's been calling themselves a dom and sadist for quite a while now and leads a BDSM relationship w someone rn, i would like to whack the seme. he's everything i don't like and does everything you shouldn't do when introducing someone to BDSM, but now i started the story and i w a n n a s e e h o w i t e n d s.
(it's also very common with these stories to be a little... meh, dub con or non con are normal on this site so complaing won't do much

Okay I’m glad I’m not the only one that’s thinks this, like yeah I’ve read a lot of BLs with BDSM and I know not everything is always going to be accurate and maybe I just don’t know a lot about ukes that are doms but I know there needs to be at least some trust and willingness and at least a safe word .. idk I like the story but it’s also making me feel uncomfortable if that makes sense

totally! BDSM is a very sensitive topic and doesn't just require a little trust, but a huge amount. the sub usually gives away all control to the dom, so you have to be sure that the dom actually knows what they're doing and can handle the responsibility. in this story, the sub is also very unwilling, and the dom just leaves him to make his problems out with himself... if someone is unsure and feels ashamed of the fact they enjoy being degraded or hurt, it shouldn't be ignored, especially not by their dom. sometimes, stories like these can make one feel uncomfortable — and if it makes you feel uncomfortable, that's probably a good thing. i'm concerned for all the people thinking the relationship portrayed here is normal and okay. but then again— the only good presentation of BDSM i've ever seen in a /famous/ yaoi was BJ Alex, the side story the author added in.

in conclusion: you're totally right. trust is fundamental, safe words are /always/ necessary and /always/ to be respected. and if the story makes you feel too uncomfortable, don't be afraid to drop it! there's no shame in that, and there are several lists on here that contain manga and manwha with very good representation of BDSM.