PXR's Topics (529)

idk about you, but i was young when i discovered this site. young enough to where i was still mentally developing. when i first started reading bl, i fell into the smutty and cliche ones that didn't include realistic depictions of gay couples. and that warped my perception of them later on. i caught myself expecting gay couples to act or look a certain way, and fetishized them because i was projecting what i had read onto them.

i'm guessing that the majority of people on this site are young kids or young teens, and i'm worried that what happened to me will happen to them. whichever way you look at it, that kind of fetishizing mindset is not a healthy or acceptable one at all.

Lol yeah, tbh im so tired seeing people talking abt minors in this fictional world like... why r u so serious? If u r uncomfortable then just leave.. i remember this aint a thing back then and just have fun in fictional world. It’s not like we normalize it in real world...? “Stop shipping this, stop normalizing this, stop justifying this” oh can yall just shut up and enjoy it? They r NOT REAL

I understand what you are coming from but it's really no body's responsibility really and not everyone goes through it the same way you did
Because I also went young and into the smutty scene quickly but it never wrapped my point of view towards real gay people
From the very beginning for me fiction and reality were completely 2 different things

Or of course minors as well

Yeah seriously
I'm going here to this ILLEGAL website pretty much expecting that unlike twitter
People wouldn't lecturing like they are Saints but here we are ¯_(ツ)_/¯

i also can understand your pov. my concern is that, while kids may be able to distinguish fiction from reality, they can still form a subconscious relationship between what they are reading and what they see in real life.

i'm guessing that when you're that young (not you specifically, just general you), you don't have much exposure to those who are a part of the lgbtq+ community. and because you don't have anything to go off of other than the stories you read, you form connections in your brain whether you realize it or not.

it's like growing up not caring what you look like, but then being exposed to all of these ads that tell you otherwise and all of a sudden having it be a concern of yours (not the best analogy, i know, but the one that pops into mind).

kids are affected by their surroundings and what they consume, just like adults are. as much as you may think you're not being affected (again, general you), you are to some extent.

I understand but again
As adults on the internet we are not responsible for what minors consume ,their parents are
And also as adults we need to keep in mind that fiction and reality are 2 different things and for that simple fact we need itch that idea and not be so easily affected by fiction because you know we are adults after all and at least we have the mind to know what is right and wrong
At least we should have that much critical thinking

I was thinking the exact same thing, I just hope he doesn’t become one tho

Yeah exactly

It's not just you

Honestly, she has a good point. Masato has to understand that Asahi has issues he doesn’t want to share out of fear of either feeling vulnerable or the fact Masato won’t understand and will just ignore it. Naru is that friend with wise words even though it’s deep af. I vibe with her words honestly

I agree with you but just wanted to clarify naru isn't a she. He's a guy. He just long beautiful hairs.

I understand but I feel like that every time he opens his mouth it complicats things

omg I meant he when I was typing I didn’t notice I put she lol but I know Naru is a dude lol

honestly, there’s a limit for being a good friend to being privy.

Naru just needs to wait for when the problem arise, not bring it up for them to make it complicated. He’s a good friend to asahi, but for masato? hmm...naru wants him to do the 1st move for their relationship.

IMO I don’t want that kind of person in my life, that’s just unfair. it’s like naru and asahi has their own world

Tbh I feel the push Naru give them is actually good for their relationship..... Altho he do interfere it a lot I still like it that it helps them grow their relationship

I see what your saying but what I think it is that Naru bring the situation up since he know Asahi just a little bit more than Masato. If he doesn’t at least bring it up a little, Asahi will continue to be silent and Masato will not know what’s going on. Naru is a little pushy and nosy but he means well. Naru literally got these two together and he wants to see them thrive. But yea Naru should watch from the sidelines instead of speaking on it

Yea I’m afraid he’s going to get hurt.

You seen any raws?

No but everyone knows that they will date eventually

Ok i sen the raw just now and damn that's something

Where did u read the raw huhu

At newtoki, you can find the links at the comments at page 30 ish i think(づ￣ ³￣)づ

Thank u

SHIT I MEANT TO LIKE UR COMMENT NDJDJDJD

No worries it happens

I think he probably is one so I'm not going to be tricked this time...... because I've been tricked alot while reading stories or love triangles like these ╥﹏╥

I honestly hope it doesn't really turn into a love triangle
Anti pt is enough for me

Yep same(▰˘◡˘▰)

He's got that assholish face. And attitude probably

You are not wrong (▰˘◡˘▰)