Love advice ? in ‘26
Made friends with this guy while studying abroad. We laugh a lot, make a lot of dumb jokes, a lot of teasing. Friends sus that he likes me. Lowk ignored it, but after hanging out at a picnic one time I started to believe it, and I couldn’t repress my feelings.
Here’s my problem, never liked a guy before, don’t want to date (especially since we live in diff places ) (1) but lowk want to tell him in a letter I’ll give him then ghost when I go back to my country.
(2) Or should I keep the crush, secretly write him a letter I’m never gonna send, go back to my country then ghost him?
(3) I can just squash the feeling I’ve done it before but it’s hard cause we hang out all the time. Then go back to my country and ghost.
So 1, 2, or 3?
Or you can just stay friends? Would long distance be a problem then too? People overrate romantic relationships tbh. If you really get along that well with him, why do you have to be in a romantic relationship to be in touch? Maybe your/his romantic feelings would fade away with time replaced by a solid friendship you'd both be grateful for.
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10 05,2026
