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I created an 18+ LGBT friendly discord server for yaoi/anime fans. We talk about anything really and we stream movies and shows. We have over 20+ channels where you can play games, simp etc. If you want to join we'd love some new friends https://discord.gg/AEkWn4B

I created an 18+ LGBT friendly discord server for yaoi/anime fans. We talk about anything really and we stream movies and shows. We have over 20+ channels where you can play games, simp etc. If you want to join we'd love some new friends https://discord.gg/AEkWn4B

I created an 18+ LGBT friendly discord server for yaoi/anime fans. We talk about anything really and we stream movies and shows. We have over 20+ channels where you can play games, simp etc. If you want to join we'd love some new friends https://discord.gg/AEkWn4B

I'm posting again because mangago won't let me reply on my post. If you haven't seen the other post I created an 18+ LGBT friendly discord server for yaoi/anime fans. We talk about anything really and stream movies and shows. We have over 20+ channels where you can play games, simp etc. If you wan to join we'd love some new friends https://discord.gg/AEkWn4B

idk why mangago doesn't like my replying on my post, but I created an 18+ LGBT friendly discord server for yaoi/anime fans. We talk about anything really and stream movies and shows. We also have over 20+ channels where you can pla games, simp, etc. If you wanna join we'd love some new friends! https://discord.gg/AEkWn4B

So now I’m seeing that a few people are fetishizing gay men now. I didn’t even know this was a thing yet until I started to see questions talking about this situation. So, this is just my opinion, so you shouldn’t get into a fight with me trying to prove me your opinion is better, but I believe fetishizing gay men for being gay is awful. I can’t explain it well, but I really dislike it.

And I hate it when those types of people pull out the “I like BL/Yaoi” because that doesn’t even prove anything. Gay men should be seen as people, not as men being seen as gay. This type of logic is, excuse me for my language, but it’s fucked up. Just by using the “I like BL/Yaoi” card, it proves that you might possibly fetishize gay men. And if you do, why?!

Gay men are people, not tools. Heck, straight people are getting hated on for basically just being straight, like what’s wrong with you all!? Accept someone for being themselves, not how they are seen on some sort of manga/Manhwa or whatever. That’s stereotyping people. Just like how now people are starting to stereotype fujoshi’s/fudanshi’s or anyone in general for liking Yaoi/BL.

Anyways, that’s all I’m saying. Don’t wanna drag this on for too long or else this will get boring.

Even if I hate a manga I stay through to the end just to mark it as read lmao

What are some series you think are either overrated or underrated? Why?
I don't even know why I'm doing this at 7 in the morning I just want recommendations. ( any genre is fine with me )

You know, loving someone makes me feel like I have a purpose, a purpose to protect, care, work, love them. But the thing is the one that I love doesn't love me back. Even my family don't felt sincere in loving me. For me, it just kinda hurt at the same time happy. Happy because it's always my dream to suicide. Nobody cares about me so why not just kill myself than annoying them, right?

I'm just curious about why exactly people like shota. I still read it but I only read it when I want to make myself feel hella disgusted. what's so good about shota? ik kids are cute but why kids in a sexual situation? you can find cute kid mangas without there being anything sexual so what about shota do you specifically like?

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So I started reading a yaoi that was about this guy who visited a video store just so that he could see the attractive owner. The video store had theatres where people would watch sexual things. I forget the name! Please reply if you know what I’m talking about ┗( T﹏T )┛

I need ways to catch a boy cheating.
I know it might sound weird but my friend has been in an a abusive for the year and a half and each time she tells him that they need to break up he gives her an answer that leaves her without any response. he gets rlly angry when she gets close to any boys and isn't the nicest when it comes to controlling his emotions. Apparently in the first 6 months things were going rlly well, but I obviously knew that there was gonna be a catch(probably cause I have trust issues that came from yaoi mangas) and then he started being all insecure and stuff and that's when i decided to pull the trigger, but that didn't work cause she thought that he was acting cute. Then as time went on things became worse and then she finally realised it was time to break it off, but that didn't work. Back to current day, I decided that we need to find a way to catch him cheating, but the problem is I can't think of any good ways.
Btw he has cheated before but we had no evidence to support it.
So if u have any suggestions plse tell me. Thank u

Hola humans I need some gaming frnds u can tell me which game u play and ur username ╥﹏╥ I m lonely while playing games

Hi so I'm not really asking for an advice but rather, I'd like yall to read my "Sad love story". It all started when I was 15 when I realised I was gay. I realized that I fell for him on a certain occasion(Buwan ng Wika - it's an event here in the Philippines to Celebrate our language) and I was a representative for the "Monologue". My monologue ended up badly, and my bestfriend(1year together) let's call him Alex. Well I cried since my monologue ended up badly because I forgot some of the lines and had to get off the stage since I was embarrassed to the whole school. At back-stage, well, I guess that's when I realised I fell in love. He was very nice, supporting, and at the same time I felt safe within his arms. At that time I thought I can control these feelings if mine and keep it hidden from him. School and summer passed by and we're still close. Next School year, well at the start of the school year, I felt like my feelings were gone but when I saw him once again, it felt like it all came back to me. We weren't classmates anymore and he was hanging out with his other friends. Somewhere in August-October, we were gradually flowing apart. And so by November, I confessed... It broke me after that day happened. We never spoke after that specific day of November. December-January I was Sooo depressed that Alex easily discarded me. That's when I met some of my real friends.. And my 2nd guy crush... We'll hide him by the name of Paris. Unlike Alex, Paris is one of those popular-cool kids(dont stereotype coz some ppl stereotype the cool kids as rude or toxic or something). At that certain time, Paris was having a depression, since he made a huge mistake and now ppl saw him as an a-hole or something similar to that. The only reason why I talked to Paris that time is that he was a "Math genius" and me and my friends needed his help, well he sucked at science which is my specialty so I told him that I'd teach him if he teaches us math. And so we decided to study alongside with 3 of my closest friends(all 3 of them are girls.. All 3 of them are smartasses). Well he agreed since me and my 3friends are good in certain areas. One was good in Geometry, and the other was good in Foreign Arts, and my other friend was good in Araling Panlipunan. So he decided to agree since it would benefit him for the exam. And so On the day of the review, we decided to go at my house. And you know casual stuff, we studied but... This was the surprising thing that happened, It somewhat turned into a "Retreat"(reflection). We all had problems that we were dealing with, Paris, was being judged for the mistake he made, 2 of my friends had an argument but couldn't apologise to each other, the other one.. We'll she was fine lol, and I had depression over Alex. Then somewhat.. After that day, Paris became close with us.. And after that people in our batch, started talking about us on how we're trying to befriend Paris since he was down. But well, still we didn't care and we're still friends. And so, Summer occurred. Paris, decided to go to a different school since his brother forced him since His brother was alone in "Manila" (City). Well, after that well, our group were still close but when Paris left it felt like there was something missing in the group. Well, here's my 2nd love story.... After Paris leaving for another school, I would chat him from time to time, I mean coz we're friends.. Back that time I LOVED him as a friend, nothing more. And so, School started once again, but this time it was different because Paris was no longer with us. And so, it was fine, but apparently I still have lingering feelings to Alex... He wasn't just a "Love interest" he was my best friend... That depression was eating me and so, because of being a childish teenager, I stopped going to class. I became distant to everyone. And so, the teacher called my parents and of course I panicked, I accidentally confessed to my mom that I was gay and I was depressed. Which was cringey.. But of course that didn't help, it only made me feel more down, I wasn't ready to go out of the closet but I was forced to because my mom was so mad and I couldn't think of a reason on wut to tell her so, I told her everything honestly. And so, while being so depressed I saw Paris online. And U know since him and I were close, I talked to him and told him everything that I was going through(I was really comfortable with Paris). Then Paris told me, "If you want, I can chat you everyday if you want me to" and so... We became chatting buddies, and rn we're still chatting buddies we've been pming each other for more than 2yrs now, almost everyday without seeing each other for more thana year now. I confessed that I was gay and he was cool with it. He accepted me for who I was. I liked him ever since the day he told me that "I love you bro, even if your gay"(Long story short, after he changed school well he had to go away and so me and my 3 friends were supposed to meet with him and watched a movie but 3of my friends cancelled for no reason lol, it was like a date for me but I'm pretty sure it was like bros hanging out with each other for him). That day ended beautifully lol, We had to cross the road but since I'm stupid and I couldn't cross the road, he held my hand while crossing the road... I MEAN HE IS SUCH A MAN. I was so flustered since he was so sweet. I'M pretty sure that he didn't mean anything there but that really made me blush, after crossing the road he told me "You should learn how to cross the road"Ahhh, my heart was literally screaming in that moment. And we're here in the present. I'm deeply in love with him, and I'm planning to confess but at the same time, I don't want to lose him so I'm not really sure if I'm gonna confess or not. There are many other moments but I'd like to keep my message until here. To those who read it thank you.

Ah it's 3 in the morning. I want to sleep but I can't.

How to fall asleep faster?
My fam is gonna wake me up at 7 or 8 so I reaaaally need to sleep right now ( ￣□￣||)

so i saw this one post about them shipping kpop idols so i want to ask something:
1) which groups do you stan? is shipping normal in your fandom?
2) what do you think about people shipping kpop idols?

OK tbh I don't really have any friends to talk about kpop to (apart from my friend who is sick of me fangirling over boys and all sorts) and really want a person to talk to about kpop and fangirl over other stuff maybe? I'd say I'm interesting and would listen to everything you have to say lol :) but if anyone's interested drop your Instagram?

After reading that post about fujoshis, I can't stop thinking about it.
I mean the girl contradicted herself a lot and all of that, but some answers had me appalled like what???

Do you guys really think is healthy shipping celebs/idols?

I answered someone why I think is very problematic, giving this example:

Is a big problem because fans don't know how to stop their obsession with shipping, take One Direction for an example, Harry and Louis were (and still are) shipped a lot, to the point that when they had girlfriends their shippers would attack the girl everywhere, on the social media and in real life, when Louis had a child, they would theorize that is was a fake kid and all of that, those shippers ruined their friendship a lot, yes they are friends but it's just not the same thing. With kpop idols is the absolute same, yes they are selling a character, but the character doesn't include a bf/gf, this shipping thing comes straight from the fans heads and they delude themselves with their own illusion, so yes, shipping celebs is a big problem because they are REAL, shipping can and will destroy their relationships and friendships, all because of some fans who can't separate wishful thinking from reality.

Also: is not really the idol that is selling a character, is their entertainment company which means they are forced to sell this character and sell all those fanservice 'bromance' y'all like to see, do you guys still think is a healthy thing?

Really want your guys opinion on this.