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After reading Yaoi/BL mangas for quite some years, I find it a LOT annoying nowadays when I read a manga were the seme is experienced in sex even when he is in his early teens and the uke remains a virgin even if he's past 30-40. Why can't the both of them be experienced or let the uke be the experienced one or better yet make them both virgins(which I prefer more). Idk nowadays I just drop most mangas when an experienced seme and virgin uke pops up but keep on reading only if the story is good. Most of the time, there is no fresh story; a boy meets another boy, sex(with a bare consent) in the first or second meet, they are both in love(?), pretty much the same scenario with different characters and settings.

what are some of the biggest scandals or incidents that has happened in your school/college?

What up suckers, I was just chilling and I realized that lately I've been pretty stressed because of some men around me. Y'know- I think men are cool but the ones around me are just complEte shit and they're kind of giving me a nasty impression.

Since I don't wanna be brainwashed into thinking that "ALl mEn SuCK", please, enlighten me and expose me to a cooler, healthier reality~

Share with me some cool confident, and immune to toxic masculinity male figures y'all admire and tell me why you admire them. (This is more like a request instead of a question but ay) ╮(￣▽￣)╭

Heiloo does anyone know of any manga/manhwa/manhua where the MC ends up with second lead:’)?? I have been in the hunt for a while to repair my broken heart from many rejected second leads（/TДT)/ Istg most of the time the MC always chooses the dood that hurts and rejects them unlike the second lead that has always been there for the MC in the sidelines and IM SO SICK OF IT AAFSKSSJSNAN,, It doesnt hav to be a BXG couple it could be BXB or GXG im welcome to any couples as long as the mc ends up with the second lead (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

The mangas I read with second leads endings are listed below

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1.) Hirunaka no Ryuusei
2.)Tonari no Atashi
3.) Cat Street
Though all of these are shoujo mangas still its very rare for a second lead ending:’)

i highkey wanna get my tongue pierced when i turn 18 but my friend says that her mom ruined her teeth bc of tongue piercings n stuff. so i’m just reconsidering if it’s worth it

pls share ur experience pls

I can’t for the life of me find or remember the name of a manga I’m looking for that I read a while back. It’s a school life shoujo type manga, with a tsundere type female lead and a plain faced, silent, and oblivious male lead. It’s a slow burn and from the start of the manga the girl likes the boy very obviously. The male lead has a large yankee looking friend that is very gentle and sweet and helps the girl.

I think it’s completed, with the male lead becoming a teacher?

If anybody could help me it would make my year. Thank you!

Has anyone else felt extra lonely since quarantine? I've felt so lost (more than usual) but overall I just feel alone. I feel like I have no one. It doesn't quite feel like depression but I feel like I am definitely heading towards it fast.

Anyways, if you can relate how are you coping?

Hello dearies! I know 2020 has been such a tough year for all of us with the coronavirus pandemic causing the entire world to almost come to a complete standstill. Businesses are going bankrupt, no one in their right mind is traveling for leisure, and we’re all basically stuck at home (even going to the grocery is a big deal). Altho ECQs and travel bans are slowly being lifted all over the world, countries that were hit early are starting to undergo a third wave of the virus. This leads us to think, will there come a day when we can safely come out of our houses without a mask on ever again or will this “new normal” stay for good? With that, I’d just like to ask you, how are you taking all this? How are you holding up with the new normal of wearing face masks, social distancing, and all other new restrictions to your daily lives? Share your stories here

So I've wanted to ask this question for a while. I hope y'all won't hate me for posting personal things. I'm asking this question here cause there are a lot of people in here who have gone through similar things and are experienced plus I don't wanna tell my friends. So I have to make a decision, either go to another school to study IT with unfamiliar people for 2 years (grade 9 and 10) and you dont have to go to collage cause you will learn all the things that they'll teach in collage in those 2 years or continue studying in my current school with my friends whom I have spent my 6 years with and go to collage.. If I go to that school I have a chance to get a scholarship. Its not like I can't get scholarship in my current school... Its just that if I get scholarship from a government school I'll have a high chance to get a good job in my country plus if I study IT I can get some part time job and earn some money pretty early.... Tbh I want to go to that school but I have social anxiety.. I don't wanna leave my friends behind and go to a unfamiliar environment.. Just thinking about it is scary.. Plus I'm scared of boys. I don't wanna get close to them.. I'm even scared of my male friends whom I have spent 6 years with.. Life is honestly so hard.. Pls tell me what should I do? And I have heard bad rumor bout that school saying that people have regretted going there or something.. ╥﹏╥

hello frenzz~
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so I rllllly want sum yaoi, anime or kpop friends to vibe with
if ur down or want that too drop your ig handle or ur discord n i'll dm you
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h o w e v e r,,, let's not be dry (≧∀≦)
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n if everything goes well i'll make a gc (●'◡'●)ﾉ

So does anyone know some recommendations that with couples are switch
Like its not a 'top' or 'bottom' manga

What are the best apps/ways in learning another language? (particularly Korean or Japanese but any language is fine :> ) I want to make use of quarantine to learn another language.

I've been stuck and unable to draw anything for a month or two, even when i get ideas.
I was wondering if any other fellow artists have some tips on getting that push to draw cause i'm stumped lmao

hey i’m sleep deprived and very dumb and i don’t really get people but i’m just really interested abt what other people think n worry abt because a lot of the time i feel like big worries for one person can seem very small to another and such. i like getting different perspectives, it feels like i don’t have to live in my head as much shsj. doesn’t matter if they’re temporary or big or small just spill. i’ll start: the thought of having to be myself in my body forever while i can’t even properly realize if i am real and existent or not just.. messes w me especially when i think about being abandoned or alone dhdje that’s pretty vague but i’m also very scared of the consequences of my illnesses since theyll most likely cost me a leg or both when i’m older. feels like i’m just waiting to get them chopped dhsjwiwj anyway yea

Personally I never really cared when it came to other people shipping fictional or real-life people as long as they weren't toxic or harming anyone in any way, if that makes sense. I mean, for example, my friends would say that "oh idol_ and idol_ should be together since they're so compatible.." and I never minded that but when I would hear about fans being like "NO THEY ARE MEANT TO BE TOGETHER" I would get upset and even disgusted especially when they would out-right say it to the people when they are visibly uncomfortable. I also never minded if they read fanfics on them as long as they weren't minors or anything. Like what is everyone else's thoughts on shipping?

There's this guy I've been pretty close friends with for about 8 years (and I also am best buddies with his younger brother but thats irrelevant)

Now about 3 - 4 years ago I noticed he had a crush on me, he started doing me a lot of favours, often asked if I wanted to watch an anime or movie with him, always wanted to do stuff I want to do and a lot of other stuff which got more advanced...
In one instance my best bud even said 'He has a crush on you!' to which he got flustered and said 'No I don't!' and I was like in the room trying to play along and be like 'Lol nAh he doesn't-'

The thing is, he's pretty kind and all but I never liked him back that way, I always thought of him as a chill brother more than anything (And I also was gaying for my female best friend-)
I very much knew he had a crush on me and so I pretended to be totally oblivious to it because I couldn't bring myself to talk to him about it but at the same time I also felt really guilty for letting him live in that false hope

Fastforward to 2020 and uh he still has a crush on me and tries to make advances which make me feel pretty uncomfy mostly because well...
I have a girlfriend now-
And I'm not sure how to bring that up to him, especially when I don't want to break his heart because he really is a cool person

Soo what should I do?

(And I know the title might be a bit misleading but Idk a better one oof)

Lonely potato in need of friends with same interests as me. :)
Shounen Ai, bl and maybe some yaoi?
Tv shows, anime, also reading novels
basically someone to listen to my rants cuz all my friends straight af.
Cheers~ OwO? (discord Làngfèi#2932)

I definitely think there's not enough people in this fandom and I just made this to, idk promote it? Anyway it's an otome game and it's really fun. Idk what else to say except you should definitely play it!!!! And for anyone who has, let's talk about iiiitttt. Idk anyone in real life who has, so I wouldn't mind discussing it here! Like who's your favourite troupe/characters? If I had to choose, I'd say my favourites troupe is Autumn and my favourite characters are pretty much everyone ╮(￣▽￣)╭

I'm a bi girl, but to be honest I don't really give a fuck about the gender or sex of a person if they can laugh and have a good time with me :)

Most of the yaoi manga are all about non-consenting sex or the plot is all about sex. If it's not about sex, try to remplace one of the characters with a female and you'll feel like reading a cringey shoujo. There's only a few of good/ god-tier yaoi mangas. :)