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In about four years, my family will marry me off to someone I don't know, and I'll have to live to clean and cook for him. I tried to enroll in the most remote university to avoid this, but they wouldn't let me. I tried to work, but they wouldn't let me. I tried to work online but i'm not allowed to have an account, what do i do , i just want to die, I have no way out; women are not allowed to live alone here, and I have no source of income or any basic knowledge that would enable me to escape.

so i've talked to a couple of people about this but kinda got pretty vauge answers, and i don't really want to air all of my business out to people i know ifykwim.

i’m looking to change career paths, but honestly, i have no idea where to start.

i originally planned on going to college years ago, but things never really worked out.. i moved around a lot, my school transcripts got messed up along the way, and eventually i just kinda gave up on the idea. at the time (even now), i also didn’t really know what i wanted to do with my life, so i lacked the motivation to pursue anything in particular.

since then, i’ve worked a handful of different jobs, about half have been physical labor, and the other half have been customer service. at this point, i’m extremely burnt out on both. i know i don’t want to spend the rest of my working life doing either of those things, but i’m having a hard time figuring out what i would enjoy doing instead.

my mother’s husband suggested that i work for the company he’s at cause he's been pestering me saying i should “get a real man’s job.” (despite literally having experience with physical work). aside from the fact that i have absolutely no interest in that kind of work, the environment is also not something i'm comfortable with. he and the people he works with have made it pretty clear that they’re racist and homophobic, and as someone who is openly queer, that’s an absolute no for me.

unfortunately, i also live in an area where job opportunities are pretty limited, which makes figuring out a different path even harder.

so i guess what i'm really asking is what kinds of careers are out there that people actually find enjoyable or fulfilling.. and if anyone has, how'd did you figure out that they were right for you??

i'm open to remote work or in-person work, and i’m also not necessarily opposed to going back to school or getting some kind of certification if i can figure out what direction i want to go in.

the problem is that i don’t really have a specific dream career in mind. i mostly just know that i don’t want to keep doing the jobs i've been doing.

if anyone else has been in a similar position.. especially if you changed careers without knowing exactly what you wanted beforehand i’d really appreciate hearing how you figured it out and what kinds of careers i should look into or how to figure out what i might enjoy cause it seems like i don't have a lot of options..

The questions posted here are gettin more and more personal lol
One or two seems harmless but why are some of you guys answering every tell me a little more bout yourself questions... like asking your nationality, age, language, ethnicity or country, gender, what you do for work or your year level in school.. at this point i wont be shocked if someone'll ask your government name or social media account and yall will respond, stay safe out there ydy.

I grew kind of bored of reading only bl mangas and manhwas and since I wanted to read more either way I am look for reccomendations for bl/yaoi novels , I would like it if they were psychological or just fluffslop but pls let em be well written thank yeww (=・ω・=)

has anyone played the game? me and a friend from uni decided to play it IN THE LIBRARY, we gen didnt know theres any NSFW scenes, we got at first endings 4,3,2 (the bad endings) so nothing came up, until the normal endings twice, we got him dry humping WE SEE EVERY SINGLE DETAIL OF HIS DICK, AND THE MCS VAGINA and bit our boob as well, the second time, he eats us out (fucking enjoying it too) the guy is lowk chopped in some scenes but don't rec playing in the uni library using their internet, you get stares for yelling and confusion you'll start ! ANYWAY good game highly recommend

ZHENYA vs LUIGI MANGIONE begin!

Zhenya: No wonder your name is Luigi since you'll always come second place?
You better give up and save face!

Luigi Mangione: I'll fucking kill you

WHO WON?

Oh, but if it’s a male-male (BL) story, that would be even better, as I have a special preference for that genre. Feel free to recommend anything—I’ll give it a read. And thank you all for the suggestions.

Your life is broadcasted to the world 24/7 like the Truman show.

Fans should stop asking to bring back the dead if the death of the character is well written.

I don't like how many people ask for a character to be alive and keep coming up with theories like, "This character isn't dead because of this and that," when the death of the character is actually so meaningful, well written, beautiful, and symbolic to the progression of another story or to ending the story

Tbh I dont even used that app nor did I know that it got banned until I opened my TikTok lolz but hey that's good ig cuz atrocious shit alwayss starts on discord

Do you guys have some manhua or manhwa where the fl is a witch or LIKE ITS HISTORICAL STUFF and the story takes in the school orr STUFF

Why is it so hard to make online friends? I just want to find the ji9star to my neutaa
I always end up ghosted (I'm at my wits end) and I'm so jealous of people with matching pfp hahahaha

Lame ass question but I reallllly like him

So I'm in college right and like 2 weeks ago this guy in my class who's exactly my type ran to catch up with me after it ended. He started talking about how he thinks I dress cool and stuff but I'm really awkward and have no social skills so I panicked and kinda keep quiet, when I did talk I forgot all the social norms for responses and went on a rant about dog sitting (idfk)

Anyways I get to my car he's like "I'm kind of walking in the opposite direction of my car. I'd talk to you more but I don't have anything interesting to say." I lowkey didn't hear what he said at 1st so I just smiled and walked away ;_;

Then last week he walks up next to me and I just look up and don't say anything again cuz I'm a wimp T_T I want him to talk to me so bad he's smart and friendly and super cute but idk what to do...

Like how do I get him to approach me again??? I was hoping we'd be in the same group for assignments but nope. I also don't really have an excuse to go up to him, like what am I supposed to say? (if he even still thinks I'm cool)

I'm super desperate to be a scholar here in our region, but it requires connection and Ii don't have any. It makes me depressed since I'm doing everything that I can.

disclaimer: this is specifically about bl/yaoi manga/manhwa/manhua (which i read a bit too much of

this might be weird, but i really don't like experienced x virgin pairings (and vice-versa).

like there's just something that always ends up feeling off about having one guy be "everything" for the other, especially since bl generally places so much emphasis on sex, etc.

I saw a comment about someone’s first BL ( Royal Servant, what an era) and it got me thinking. I read WAY too much to recall what my gateway manga/manhua was, especially 15+ years back.

I can only imagine it was related to one of the animes on Adult Swim at the time like Inuyasha or something from the library like Full Moon wo Sagashite, Maximum Ride, Rosario + Vampire.

While I can’t remember, the first BL I read had to have been in 2016 (which was such a solid wave of releases) because Killing Stalking was a constant source of chatter. Though many would argue it’s NOT BL lol.

Since taking down bato and almost all of it's mirror websites and even tapas they also have a new system to global monitor illegal translations on social medias that can detect up to 16,000 IPs 24/7. I'm just worried about the end of piracy and this website since it's been talked about so much on socmed :')


https://newsroom.kakaoent.com/news/kakao-entertainment-unveils-industry-pioneering-dark-chaser/

hi i feel like a real chud. i cant go to school. ever since i was diagnosed with anorexia it took everything away from me. i dont even wanna leave the house anymore (｡ ︿ ｡) all i do is chud out and read gl and bl all day long in my bedroom. i’m depressed all the time and school is so draining, it’s like a toll. i just wanted somewhere to talk about this tbh and like…i don’t expect anyone to know how to respond or even want to respond. Also if you wanna be uhm friends or something we can bond over yaoi and stuff…but i just idk what to do how can i bring myself to go and not like die

tmr is my best friend's birthday and I have to get her a gift because of course. I love her but I don't know what I'm supposed to freaking get her, cause she says, " oh just get whatever you want for me that'd be fine "

I'm going to harm you, cause that doesn't help??? T-T

Okay so I need you guys to tell me what I can get from her like at target or Walmart or on amazon

A little bit of a description on her so you can help me.
-she likes Legos
- she loves yaoi for boy lovers
-She's Hispanic (Costa rica)
- She's not very artistic
- she does band and music
-She likes anime
- She's very cringy
... Yeahh, oh
-she's a good baker.