Baby I have been here for like 5 years and let me tell you , listen to the people in the comments and dead stop looking in the comment sections once the forums closed down this site has never been the same, not as if the forums was good but ifkyk. Just enjoy the site w/o comments lol ! It makes you much more peaceful reply
i feel like ao3 has a diverse author range writing m/m, i see tons of men/nb writers;;; and i feel like this discussion really has more value outside of romantic content (fluff, found family, angst with little to no romance) because if there's still way more men than women centered there, it's less about attraction (or being too uncomfortable to in...... reply
I think the best option to save your sanity is just not going near the comments section at all. It's how I keep mine. I've argued with so many people on this site already, but I just came to understand eventually that even if I explained in the most logical, empathetic manner, if they don't want to listen, they won't. People desensitized to rape an...... reply
insane how it's always the ones saying "its just fiction" who jump on other people the fastest for having different opinions. like that one jinx fan who spammed rape threats to everyone. another jinx fan who kept telling a minor to die cuz she said she doesnt like jinx. that girl who used a persons actual trauma and bullied her sm that she was actu...... 1 reply
To those scared of getting tattoos bc of regret, societal pressure etc., try getting henna first and if you already feel sick of it after a while, then don't get a tattoo. I've heard and seen so many horror stories of people getting impulsive tattoos like a turtle saying "sksksk scrunchie hydroflask!", Eren's
face on their dominant hand (they got ...... 1 reply
I’m pretty sure the amount of people who are into fictional noncon and cnc and are also aroused by the thought of doing them irl is not the majority.
Regardless, the problem still remains that if you feel that it’s acceptable to tell someone to kill themselves solely because you’ve made an assumption about their motives and you deem it to b...... 1 reply
Well i mean look at the content available on these sites, they will inevitably draw all kinds of weirdos and trolls. That's no justification of course and you are right about them, but what really baffles me is how much women play into all this talk. I have only interacted with BL readers, who are mostly women and holy shit, the manner in which the...... 1 reply
Didn’t read it all, but I did go through the convos,and yeah, it’s obvious they're probably just a troll. Saying something like “I hope you can’t bear to live in your own skin anymore. I hope you hurt yourself every day until there’s nothing left to hurt” is absolutely unhinged. That’s not just trolling,that’s straight up vile and i...... reply
'Things' are your daily life experiences by which you get to know the world around you. Tell others about the things you did, may it be cool, sad, crazy or funny. You can also find things that you might want to do and a friend to do it with!