In the nicest way possible, if you understand where jihan is coming from, why are questioning his feelings?
Yes jinyeong had every right to ignore jihan but you’re making it seem jihan did jinyeong wrong by saying “expecting him to be friendly”, you’re forgetting the fact that jinyeong has been actively harassing jihan by taking jihan’s no for an answer. And yet despite that, jihan’s still sad over ending their relationship.
If anything, jihan’s a pure heart. Despite jinyeong making him relive his trauma by “cheating” on him, he still stayed with jinyeong. If you know how hard it is for jihan, then what’s the point of questioning his feelings? Both parties are at fault and at the same time, the victims.
If you think jihan is being shitty for expecting them to still be friendly then what more is jinyeong for allowing his mother to verbally harass jihan and openly meeting other women while they’re still a thing?
yes jihan did something wrong. jinyeong is clearly not over him and jihan is ignoring him on everything else. thats great, but then as soon as he has to face him irl he wants to be friendly? im saying this because ive done something similar, (so sorry for that guy btw) but keeping in touch so soon after usually only hurts the person trying to move on. doesnt mean hes a bad person its just again bad behavior; his feelings are 100% valid, but feelings dont excuse behavior
and i never said anything about jinyeong being any better than him
What bad behavior exactly? Jinyeong didn’t even bat him an eye when jihan said hi, and jinyeong didn’t even seem affected by that when he was shown again.
And i never said you thought jinyeong was better than jihan. If you comprehended what i sent, you’d know what point i’m trying to make. You can call jihan’s “behavior shitty” but you can’t leaving out the part where jinyeong has done so much worse.
Thank you! This is exactly what alot of ppl miss when it comes to jihan’s character
"If you think jihan is being shitty for expecting them to still be friendly then what more is jinyeong for allowing his mother to verbally harass jihan and openly meeting other women while they’re still a thing?" Ohhh spill!! (▰˘◡˘▰)
You didn’t say anything new that debunks what they say lmao
Respectfully, I genuinely don’t know how much clearer I can make it I’m not commenting on jinyeongs behavior or defending him at all because it’s been established he’s done bad, you’re arguing against a point I never made…
N bad behavior isn’t defined by other persons reaction it’s the action itself
Ohh spill means they agree
I forgot not everyone is on stantwt and use slang language dawggg my bad y'all and yes, this means i'm agreeing with you
Yeah… and i’m asking what bad behavior from jihan are you saying because i genuinely have no idea at which part of the story where jihan has done something so heinous.
1. Jihan cucked jinyeong but gave him an option to leave.
2. Ghosted jinyeong because jinyeong literally wouldn’t take his no for an answer.
Aside from those two, i’m pretty sure jihan has treated heeseop way worse. Which is why i’m asking what is the bad behavior you’re talking about LOL. We keep circling back to the same questions because you won’t answer the one question i’ve been asking.
girl what??? i thought it was a rhetorical question bc i stated exactly that in the OG post that you read and decided to reply to, but lemme copy and paste exactly what i said since you didnt get it- " expecting him to still want to be friendly when hes currently in the process of moving on is shitty"
??? “ N bad behavior isn’t defined by other persons reaction it’s the action itself” and “expecting him to still want to be friendly when hes currently in the process of moving on is shitty”
You keep contradicting yourself which is why i’m asking you the same set of questions LMAO. Where is jihan’s actions? When you said so yourself that he’s just expecting to still be friends? Shouldn’t expecting something be more of an emotion than an action??? Did you fail english class perhaps? LMFAOOOOO
i’m asking the same questions LOL!!! it’s so funny watching you guys keep circling back and forth but i know how frustrated you must be. i think they’re just hating jihan for the sake of hating because they like jinyeong and jihan didn’t choose jinyeong the rapist and jinyeong that allowed jihan to be bullied by his mother all while at the same time is meeting other women while still being in an arrangement with jihan
... it was lit last chapter, didnt think i needed to state it; he tried to start a conversation w him, that is what i think is bad, i feel like all this was stated in the og post.
im not hating jihan lol i still love the story and characters, that doesnt mean you cant call out their behavior because some people rly dont think he did anything wrong (not anyone specifically)
and you’re doing the same thing to jinyeong? don’t act like you didn’t comment right before this saying that you like jinyeong and you feel like being cucked while reading the smut scene between heeseop and jihan “im not hating on jihan lol” but you can’t even call out your fave for his actions LOLLL you’re so adamant about jihan’s shitty behavior, for expecting to still be friends with his rapist and the man who allowed him to be abused by his mother but you can’t do the same thing for jinyeong. who are you trying to convince?
and the other commenter already even answered this. if you knew how to comprehend sentences, you wouldn’t have to keep repeating yourself. i’m pretty sure if the og commenter came back they’d just reply, stating once again that they will just have to keep asking the same set of questions because your answers are repetitive.
yall keep bringing up jinyeong to somehow contradict me when i literally agree that he did bad shit. i like jihan even tho he did bad things, i like jinyeong even tho he did bad things. i didnt say anything about jinyeongs wrongdoing in the og post bc this was just about the recent chapters, this isnt a whole review of the series with every single opinion I have about it and the characters.
Honestly there’s no point in continuing this conversation because no matter how much we try to explain how much you’re contradicting your words you just can’t seem to understand our point here If you just read my past replies carefully and actually tried to decipher and understand them this’d be finished as soon as possible. No one is hating on you for hating or “calling” out jihan’s “bad behavior” but you need to understand each and every character’s nuances. If you think jihan is a shitty person then so be it LMFAO, just stop spouting bs as if you’re way above everyone else for “calling out” a complex character.
yes!! you love rapists!! good for you!! but you draw the line at expecting to still be friends with your rapist that’s how u sound btw and if you still can’t get the point across then you need to go back to school and work on your emotional intelligence because you’re fucked up btw
i get 100% get jihan being sad over losing someone he cared for been there done that but expecting him to still want to be friendly when hes currently in the process of moving on is shitty