annoying

you came for his throat with that last line XD

agree so much. there should be a slogan like NORMALIZE SWITCHING

I agree with what you said about the douchy seme and the link between bottoms and girl roles in a relationship , but most authors are reflecting the norms women were the first in the receiver role in intercourse and there are other signification to gay bottons that most certainly goes back to their oedipus complex so ..is it really the plot the problem or is it the state quo of gender roles that bugs you i can't tell

You must be a girl.

It's about applying het sex roles to nonhet sex, and equating the catcher role to a women's role, right down to the guy catching being suited for it because he's "adorable" and "cute". And thinking it makes sense that the other guy's the top because he's more masc.

even if they are, their opinion is valid. for some reason there's this toxic masculinity in this specific relationship and it's disheartening to see a partner's wishes be rejected and guilt trip that very same partner into thinking that they were in the wrong.

it's fine to have a relationship where the top is masc and the bottom is fem but it becomes toxic if your beliefs is that it ALWAYS has to be that way, especially if your partner doesn't necessarily agree. having your wishes be invalidated because "that's how it should be" is toxic and exactly what this manga did.

I agree. I do honestly like dedicated roles in BL relationships (my preference). But I absolutely hate it when the bottom wants to top and the top is like "nooo that's gay!!!!" like bitch ass yes

Oh i see.Now i got it

this is my point thank u very much

yeah i am and that’s why im fucking mad.

they confuse me. imagine thinking that bottoming is so bad yet you do it to your partner. that’s just fucking selfish.

bruh why does that person make it sound like me being a girl is a bad thing? im fucking gay lmao and i also hear hets ask “so who’s the man in the relationship.” it’s not like it’s just queer men that have this problem. and just because i happen to not be a man does not mean i don’t have the capabilities to understand how fucked up some people’s opinions in mlm relationships are. people confuse me lmao.

salt has more personality than him. ugh i hate that seme so much lol.

as a switch myself, I FUCKING AGREE.

I totally agree. But remember its japan material. They are a little too far of normalize sexuality and that kind of things. We are reading stories from people that just can imagine it

dude fr. this actually applies to almost every relationship. it's the same in a het relationship how it'd be super toxic for a dude to say that a girl can't be dominant in bed and proceeds to try and monopolize her in an unhealthy way.

i can't believe people are still trying to invalidate people's opinions on gay relationships because they're not a gay male.

Ikr, I'm a bi woman myself and this is something ppl love to throw at gay women: "oh who's the man in the relationship" if someone straight up asked me that I'd be so mad. "there's no guy here, we're two women who like to make each other feel good, as women."

I dont get any of your point, really.
And no, Im not saying being a girl is bad. I just assumed girls wouldnt know how a guy would feel about wanting to top. Its in their nature man.
Plus the seme explained himself that he takes pleasure in topping. And you guys seems to forget that the seme is supposed to be a sadist. So things he said is purposely going to hurt you. Not to mention, these type of people tend to say the opposite things they wished to say, and they arent good at expressing themselves.
I get it, not many people can coup with these type of people and not everyone can understand their true feelings. They are easily misunderstood.
The uke understood him though, that's why he kept being by his side. You guys on the other hand, dont.

Imma gonna have to give you a big oof on that one chief

Idk if that's an insult or a compliment-