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I just want to add we don’t know the boundaries of their relationship so we also can’t call anything sexual assault or lacking consent. There is a kink like this as well as something some couples are just okay with their significant other waking them up this way. If she didn’t like it I’m sure she would have told him and he’d never do it again misunderstandings and such this happen in relationships simplifying everything down to sexual assault or lack of consent doesn’t work in every situation and can also show people in a completely bad light he didn’t have bad intentions nor was there malice or the want to make her uncomfortable and the same would be said for her if she woke him up this way I’m pretty sure waking up your partner with a bj is so commonly known but no one views that as sexual assault because we don’t know other peoples relationship I have friends that enjoy it and friends that don’t and simply tell their partners that

Look, I've seen you comment on pretty much every comment I've seen with a similar stance to me with almost exactly the same thing.
First of all, consent is first and foremost. Of course there are people who like this or have this as their kink and there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with that, but something like this should never happen without being discussed first or setting that precedent that you're okay with more spontaneous acts, etc. It is NOT something that should be tried, wait for your partner to tell you they don't like it, and then never do it to them again as it is in fact a non-consensual act when someone is asleep or incapacitated at the time. Ask first and then go for your life, it costs nothing to get consent BEFORE making someone uncomfortable or potentially traumatizing them.

Yes this is a fictional story but there are real life implications and I, and others like me, were just raising concerns about it because many women and girls (who may even be reading this) have experienced SA and don't even realise they have gone through it until later because of the lack of autonomy for the female body in the world, so emphasising one's own right to consent is important.

As someone who has also experienced sexual assault I’m not downplaying anything I said consent was the most important thing and rape and sexual assault can’t be taken lightly but they aren’t words that should just be used in every given situation just as you said it’s important for girls to know what they are it’s also important for people to know what it isn’t I learned that after being in a better relationship and even more after simply being by myself should he have asked YES did he no but that doesn’t automatically make something sexual assault things in life are more complicated than that and saying somethings assaults while it’s not in real like is just as important. And if a girl later on decides she was uncomfortable or that it was then it’s sexual assault my whole point was that we can’t call this sexual assault because the person receiving doesn’t think or see it as sexual assault. Sexual assault isn’t a joke and shouldn’t be taken lightly and just as we should always believe people we also need to understand other sides to things and know when to believe someone when they say they weren’t assaulted. For me this didn’t happen when I was assaulted it was something else and I’d rather not say but I did like this when it happened to me and we completely talked about it after as it was also mentioned in passing before hand. My friend had this happened and liked it in the moment but then decided she didn’t and she told her partner who was a girl and they never did it again and she doesn’t have any trauma from it. Not everyone gets trauma or pain for things but if someone said they were sexually assaulted then they were and if they don’t see what happened as sexual assault then end of discussion trauma isn’t simple

I’m sorry if you see what I’m saying as wrong and I hope I didn’t downplay your trauma I have my own and that’s not pleasant I replied on so many posts stating it’s sexual assault or rape because of how so many people can easily misuse those terms I’ve had a friend who’s mom tried so hard to tell her she was assaulted when she was so sure she wasn’t and she wasn’t as it was her choice but I just wanted to talk about the other side of this and the character doesn’t think she was assaulted and that is also a possibility in cases like this I was a little upset because someone tried to downplay my own assault when I made a previous comment and said I must have not actually been traumatized by it but I hope I didn’t sound angry in my comment here or on any thread

Tl go brrrr hehehe

lmao I saw your comment 4 hrs ago saying you were on chapter 4 XD I love that you've already read through everything lololol

and I honestly have to say I'm a prince-leaning gal. I love an "I'm a scary asshole to everyone but you" type of ml (he's like that later on). I gotta say, Reynold is growing on me, but I'm still upset at him for the attic event D: I'm kinda mad at the whole family, tho, cuz they used to neglect and hate her but now they're being all nice?? gahhh idek anymoreeee

nvm 3 hrs ago??????? damn babes you read fasttttttt

when I find a good series like this, my whole life gets put on hold til I'm done hehe~

It was worth it 100% :') Honestly want to start reading the original webnovel ASAP because I can't get enough of the story!

I can get behind that! Honestly I usually lean more towards the "I'm an asshole to everyone but you" characters (and I mean I would never go for someone like that irl so I'm fine with crushing on psychotic fictional characters being my toxic trait AHAH~). He's probably my second choice tbh! I've heard some stuff about Eclise so I'm eh about him, Derrick is kind of bland at this stage, and Vinter is interesting but they haven't interacted enough so I'm honestly for Reynold or Prince at this stage. At least our prince keeps things interesting and is a hottie to boot :P

I do 100% agree about the attic scene, my heart BURNED when she said that line about only being a 12 year old girl who didn't even know the value of a necklace and he absolutely deserved that, but the look on his face and how he was feeling about that makes me believe he genuinely knows he is the one in the wrong and I hoep we see more redemption from him. I think part of it is that he started with the lowest % of favorability so I'm like YESSS get higher bby~~ :')

I'm honestly more mad at the older brother Derrick than Reynold because at least I do feel some arguably more reasonable justification with him walking in on Penny essentially saying she hopes their real sister never comes back (I honestly might have reacted like Reynold if I heard that about my missing sibling as a kid myself, who knows tbh), but Derrick probably was just crushing on her and being rude in classic tsundere fashion without good reason based on previous hints, so this turn around from him is just UGH.

EXACTLY. reynold would never be the main love interest but i can't get him out of my mind lmao tsunderes are adorable. i love it when male characters are facially expressive and don't just stand there like a statue

GIRL YES don't even get me started on the *eyes widen* trope, I absolutely love it when a character will do/say something and another character will widen their eyes in shock or surprise or emote really expressively (and luckily a lot of manhwa art styles are often perfect for expressiveness especially in the eyes) and it just makes me feel all fuzzy inside~~

welcome aboard girl xD

annnnnd I'm already up to date because I did ntohing but read it all day, and oh BOY am I in love

thank you so much i’ll be sure to remember this for future translations
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not a problem at all! Translation is always such a fun and rewarding process but its also extremely hard work and can be such a grind, so thank you so much for your efforts in bringing this series to other English speakers :)) <3 <3