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I actually disagree. Most readers are Hwi simps lmao

most readers yes, but i actually saw comments (most than expected) still shitting on hwi for his behavior the first two chapters so I wouldn’t be surprised honestly lol

considering all the comments I saw still calling out hwi for the first two chapters it wouldn’t be that strange rip
That’s another good point, I don’t think most ppl here knows or even cares about how dating works in korea -
I’m begging for hwi to not be too overwhelmed by his own feelings and give in to param that easily, param has so so so much more work to do to redeem himself, I feel u so much cause I think this is the manhwa that gives me more headaches between every other i had read until now

Maybe most of don't know how dating works in Korea, because most of us aren't Korean??? And Hwi did do some dumb shit to Param first two chapters or not. That doesn't make his actions less valid. He took advantage of the fact that Param's body was sensitive and that he was desperate for change (physically). And how are you going to be someone's sex partner, knowing that they like someone else, and then expect a date without the other person feeling conflicted? Judging by your pfp Imma just say you're probably biased.

From my point of view, Param didn't do anything wrong, but Taehyun is definitely an SOB. My main point is that I don't think Param is actively TRYING to play both men. Taehyun coerced Param and many other men into sex, just to leave them hanging. And Hwi took advantage of Param's sensitivity and gave him "lessons." They both did this knowingly and knew what they were trying to do. Param's relationship with Hwi is like friends with benefits. And that's why I don't think Param has an obvious crush on Hwi (yet). Param tells Hwi that he's caring and a really sweet guy, but never really compliments him on his looks outwardly. I just think Param's completely oblivious to the fact that Hwi likes him. That's why (right now at least) I can't really say that Param's playing with both of their feelings. Like it's not with knowing or malicious intent.

u really judging me from my pfp? lmaooo bye

I don’t have any strength left to write the same things over and over again, it’s like talking to walls anyway, i already spent too much time over this fr
At least we have the same point of view, I’m glad

and to be clear the only thing hwi did was that blackmail thing that got lost in 2 chapters, he did wrong? of course but he never took advantage of param, they physical relationship was consensual from the start.
what I was saying indeed i find funny to still call out hwi for what he did in 2 chapters while we are at chapter 40 and he’s the only one who got a real and fast development, while han is a trash since chapter one and param still didn’t get his shit together

yeah, that’s it. I was already considering param move unfair and disrespectful towards hwi even without taking into account korean culture, if u analyze it it’s actually even worse. The author is korean so the dating culture they displaying is probably based on their own country, and we’ll, there’s nothing to add.
Now that I think about it that’s why I read many comments from kfans being really disappointed, makes even more sense now

I love you.

I think everyone is mad at Param because we all know we’re cheering for Hwi lol but there are also a few others out here who are literally calling Param a slut (which he isn’t) and saying he has done something “immorally wrong” by having sex with Han, which simply isn’t true. I think that’s what some people have an issue with - the folks who think having sex with others even though you’re not in a relationship is somehow morally wrong.

most comment I saw of people mad at param aren’t even calling him a slut or anything, I’m not mad at him cause I like hwi but cause he leaded him on, param is free to fuck whoever he wants, but in the moment he accepted to date hwi he simply shouldn’t have done it, official relationship or not it was disrespectful towards hwi feelings and his trust towards him, and for me this is not okay, let it be fiction or real life

I’m wondering what exactly you mean by saying “the moment he agreed to date Hwi” because I did not see such a moment ever? Hwi thought it himself that he simply asking Param out for a date and Param agreed to go out on a date with him on Sunday, but that doesn’t mean they’re dating. Unless you think “going out on a date” = “dating” then okay. I’m genuinely curious if this is a difference in dating cultures or some countries have different definitions of what dating means (I’m not arguing with you on anything! I’m simply curious).

I think this is a difference in views regarding relationship. From what I’ve been taught and experienced, if you’re not officially committed in a relationship and have not verbally confirmed with eachother we are now lovers or whatever you call it, you have no say in what the person you like does. I’ll feel really hurt and angry if the person I like goes to have sex with someone else, but I don’t have the right to go tell them that they shouldn’t have done that because we’re not dating and I can’t force them to pick me. They don’t owe me reciprocation of my feelings. I don’t find it disrespectful of my feelings at all because, if I was Hwi, I haven’t even confessed my feelings yet so how are they supposed to know I’m serious? I’ve only shown interest in them and someone else showed interest in them too so perhaps they’re still wavering. Just because I aggressively chase them doesn’t mean they have to consider my feelings and think about how I’d feel all the time. I’ll be sad as hell but I can only try harder to make them know I’m the best for them.

hwi question was “date me”, if they chose this wording in english trans sure it’s not a random choice, then param sent him a message right after to give him confirmation, call it dating call it going to a date u still take some sort of commitment with another person. And it’s an unwritten rule that if u accept to date someone even if it’s not official yet u not supposed to go screw around with other people. In my country there aren’t any strict dating rule but it’s to bare minimum to act with regards to the other person, in korea too where the story is set, if u someone asks u on a date that means they wanna get serious with u, it’s not something to take lightly, it’s a real commitment and if param feelings were still swinging u had to reject the date.

About Hwi he confessed already many times, in chapter 28 or something he literally told param he liked him, plus he sent him so many direct signals, param sure knew well about what hwi was feeling for him.
It’s important to put into account other people when u are not the only one involved, especially cause hwi wasn’t just a one night stand or a fuck buddy, him and param created a friendship bond, they intimate, they supposed to care about each other, so even if u have nothing official with that person, knowing their feelings for u, u supposed to at least respect and cherish those, especially after leading them on.
Also idk if the “aggressively chase” refers to hwi, but he was everything but aggressive until now, he always tried his best with param without pushing him (not like han did), param clearly leaded him on, while accepting his date or even before he never really been clear about how much his crush for han was still affecting him, until now their relationship was exclusive, so if param was still unsure he should have at least informed hwi about it, as being fair with someone u supposed to care about

they really feel so legitimized to offend and make assumptions about u, they would do the same cause they real adult and if u wouldn’t u just an immature teenager.
If they think it’s okay good for them but I’m free to say that for me it’s not without being harassed by random people.
Also I saw how they love to pull the “slut shaming” card when most comments don’t even call him a slut or anything, just say he fucked up and shouldn’t have done what it did.

it’s quite concerning that so many ppl associate being adult with being selfish and don’t mind about others feelings. I’m almost 23 I admit I don’t have much experience with relationships but I’m the kind of person who feels bad to forget to say hi while entering a shop, I’m really emphatic with people around me so when I read comments like “shut up u would do the same” like no??? I wouldn’t ??? I would feel so freaking bad to do something like this to a person I care about and who care about me I feel sick just thinking about it.
It almost seems like being emotional and regard ppl around u is something stupid and pointless in adulthood but for me actually is the bare minimum, it’s literally common sense. And I know lot of people actually don’t give a shit even irl, I experienced it myself, but that’s nothing to be proud of tbh.

thank u ~ I never really cared about being in a relationship tbh, I saw my university friends going through it and they were always so frustrated rip

Exactly, being selfish is nothing to be proud of.
About Han he has really zero excuses, getting cheated on unfortunately is nothing uncommon, still it doesn’t give u the right to hurt others on purpose just because u suffered once in college.
Param was a victim of Han manipulation and pushy behavior until he gave up to him, that “whatever” was the worst thing he could have chosen, especially because he knew what he was doing was wrong, that he would have regretted it, that he liked hwi and than han was a piece of shit with him, still he just gave up on his own thoughts just because he was horny?
I don’t care if u are horny, u can still being caught up in the moment but param still followed han to his apartment with mostly clear mind, he had his time to go back on his steps but he still chose lust over his own and someone else feelings and that was wrong.

I’m dying to see what he says ლ(´ڡ`ლ) I feel like Hwi is too head over heels for Param to not say yes

fr he’s to kind and too emotionally involved but until now he got a grab on himself despite his feelings so if he still needs his time I feel I would kindly tell param about it

I'm also nervous about how Hwi will respond. I want them to be together so I hope he does give him another chance but for some reason I sense drama ahead.

Do you have link for the raws???

Yay! Thanks!

Yes, I just saw it. Saw it coming and yet pleasantly surprised at the same time! Very exciting!

this is the link for the raws but they still didn’t upload it ,, https://tkor.cx/안티피티

I thought the pain would have went on a bit longer, I’m so shocked I didn’t see it coming at all omg

Here you go:

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Yes, I thought Param would suffer a bit more and that he and Hwi would take longer to find their way back together, but I'm glad that Param found the guts to be an adult and do the right thing. I want them to reconcile and be together so I'm very happy!

I’m so happy to see hwi so much at ease and genuinely shy and overwhelmed after the past chapters, I really hope this time everything will work out and param will continue to grow as a character like he’s doing now

It feels to sudden? I definitely don’t think the drama is over.

param needs to draw a clear like with han now, that’s necessary if he wants to stay with hwi, that worries me a bit tbh

Yes, exactly. He has to let Han know that the person he wants to be with is Hwi. But Han also knows that Param's body is sensitive. So will he use that to still try and manipulate Param? I could see him doing that

yes, it’s important to be clear, hwi deserves to know what happened exactly between param and han. Hwi was always open with param so I hope param will take the same courage he used in this chapter to give hwi a proper explanation

that’s what worries me the most, seeing how it went last time too - I hope param will be able to reject any kind of manipulation this time if something like this has to happen or I will be so freaking disappointed honestly