It's my first time to stay awake the entire night with no sleep.
I had a 2 hour nap earlier and prior to napping it was my first time to drink two shots of soju.
Anxiety is making it bad because my thoughts wont stop and it scares me what if im unable to sleep again. My friends are all asleep and i had no one to talk to. What do i do :(
what do you mean unable to sleep again? like, develop insomnia? alcohol does not cause insomnia. on the contrary, it helps you sleep but with less quality of rest. IF you do get insomnia, it has nothing to do with those two shots of soju. you may be unable to sleep because you're either not used to napping during the day or you napped late into the day.
I have had this problem before too! :(
-What helped me to sleep-
- calming or sleeping music of waves
^It helps calm you down and make you kinda sleepy?
- Maybe try writing in a journal or just a piece of paper about your feelings or stress
^I try to do this every night and it works!
- Try not to take naps in the day because it can ruin your sleep schedule and you will go to bed late
^I rarely take naps now :)
- If you need someone to talk to, feel free to message me anytime! :3
hopefully I helped in some way!
this is nothing to be worried about. I sometimes go up to 5 days without sleep during exam season (but I've trained myself to do this every semester) and sometimes I slip up if I start reading a manga and go a night or two without sleep as well. Nothing to worry about. You will see that some times ur body needs less sleep and sometimes it needs more. It's not a machine that is programmed to always sleep the same amount of hours each night. Just let ur mind wander off, look around in the room, write something in notes on your phone.. maybe about ur friends sleeping habits or idk. and if u don't like that maybe read manga or think about what u want to do the next days. and you'll see that u will be able to make it through 24 or maybe even 48h without sleep and not really feel different. of course at some point u will feel the sleep deprivation and ur Body will start to "shut down". Means you will probably go earlier to sleep. (for me it's usually like this: 4-5 days without any sleep followed by a 16-20h nap starting at around noon lol). But if u are concerned and u have free time tomorrow just take a noon or afternoon nap. Even if ur body tells u he doesn't need it at that time u can force him by laying in bed with closed curtains and putting all phones, laptops etc away and just shut ur eyes. At some point u will sleep.
Just relax. Everything is and will be fine. <3
Thank u :(( rn im still scared cuz what if i wont fall asleep again in the next night. Anxiety makes it worse :(( ill try to nap later in the morning cuz my brain wont function well
I thought soju had a contribution to it thats why i had to mention. Im not used to naps but this night differed cuz i wasnt able to get a wink of sleep and my anxiety gets worse cuz i feared this would happen again and ruin my sleeping pattern. It scares me what if i wont be able to get a wink of sleep again on the next nights
Aw no problem! You got this! I know you will fall asleep! (๑•ㅂ•)و✧ Remember to stay calm and breathe! Ah sounds like a good idea!
Thank u so much this really helps. Im in college but i never experienced this kind of sleep deprivation because it's the anxiety that is keeping me awake. I sometimes get 3-4 hrs of nap when studying but i never fail to fall asleep quickly. My mind and body is tired but i wasnt able to get any sleep and it's the first time for me thats why my anxiety kept me up and paranoid because i glance on my clock from time to time and when i realize it's late and im still wide awake i get scared. Ill try to take a few naps in the mornings, it's almost 5am here and i completely gave up on sleeping and wait for the sun to rise cuz i have online class at 9am. Thank u rlly this helped me :)
from what you let on, I don't see anything concerning. more like, the problem is your anexiety and nothing else. I think you should fist acknowledge that there's nothing to worry about and realise that the problem is the anxiety. once you know that as a fact, you can start working on it.
Im a girl and a fujoshi, and im straight. I don’t read yuri because i feel uncomfortable with it as a straight woman,(i respect lesbians and BI) but i wholeheartedly support yaoi and i love seeing two guys together and i even ship celebrities. Am i the only one like this? Ive only encountered fujoshis that are either BI or homosexual in the internet, so im wondering if there’s someone out there like me.
Im straight and Love BL. I dont enjoy readjng Yuri as I do Yaoi, but I can still read them if I choose to. Its just not as enjoyable for me. I dont fantasize about celebrities though lol.
I sort of relate. I enjoy yaoi, it's my life at this point, but I am a curious person so I like trying out new things.
I relate completely so you're not alone
yuri is for boys, like yaoi for girls.
I usually dont read Yuri because all those I tried reading are too... "gnan gnan" dont know the word in english, too cheap maybe ? As much as shoujo manga. Well, actually, everything related to girls are like this for me. Worst when it's in movies...
But I don't ship celebrities. And I'm straight.
hi
Does straight girl masturbate over a dick pic?
same as you
Let me just say my problem is not yuri... it’s the female characters writing problem. Like how should I put this into better words...
Yknow how there’s a point to why the population of Zootopia is animals and there is no point in Sing why the population is animals? Yeah, yaoi (male character) is the point and yuri (female character) is for gag.
I’m waiting to see the female character writing problem fixed... don’t throw Emma from Neverland here because she is one gives no perspective as the lead female character in her story. It could as well be a little 11 year old boy and the story would’ve be the same!
And that is the problem with writing female characters. They can be replace or remove and the story would still be there FUCKing SAME!
Sorry if anyone got trigger. I’m a bisexual fujoshi and that’s my opinion.
That's really insightful and a good point! Come to think of it, its's true for other media as well. You got me thinking...
Exactly! Like for the yaoi, the usual approach is how the straight guy might want to marry a woman and have kids due to sociatal standards and what it means to be a man. It’s a real journey.
Whereas I have yet to see a yuri where a girl question whether or not her straight partner is satisfied sexually without the penis. Or that the partner chose to stay with the girl who can’t open a jar for the partner.
Or how girls worry about their menstruel cycle because it’s a real thing... but don’t ever pop up anywhere other than for gags? Which is still rare?
Especially when omégas go through heats in yaoi sooooo and it’s what made the omega verse so popular. Lol.
And does straight girl enjoys anal sex?
They sometimes do but they won't come from ass so it means they don't enjoy anal yet you guys enjoy reading yaoi whereas yaoi do thrust dick into anal and why is that
I knew that men can come from the ass but women. When straight girls read yaoi, who do they imagine themselves as, the giver or the receiver or no one? If the answer is no one, why they read yaoi then cause this kind of story meant to pleasure dick and asshole which aren't women's weak point?
I'm just trying to dig the reason why you straight girls read yaoi?
I felt dizzy all of a sudden seen more than 1100 words
Some mangaka portrays ukes as weak and girly, and im not really a fan of those. Is there any manga/manhwa with tough ukes who barely sheds tears and is not girly?
Yuuutsu na Asa
its actually the opposite,uke's in webtoons and manwhas have the stupidiest,no character development,no personalities and just plain straight idiot. there are a lot of Manga's out there with realistic and manly uke's
I got my ear pierced this june 1 on my lobe part i got two pierced and they used a piercing gun, i got it pierced at the mall. It's already june 4 and it doesn't seem to be healing and it got worse today cuz last night i moved the earring around to check if there's any visible swelling cuz it really hurts when i press and move the earrings and it appears to be none, i tried removing both of the earrings earlier and it freaking hurt so i wasn't able to remove it and the pain worsened, it's not rlly swelling but it hurts when i move the piercing around helpppppp i dont know what to do my mom just told me to not try to remove it again and to let the wound close but it's been 3 days and the wound's not yet healed, i dont know if i have diabetes causing the wound to heal slowly and i can't go to the doctor to have this checked cuz school starts tomorrow what to doooooooooo T_T
I can't believe the people who pierced you didn't tell you this, but it takes a couple weeks for piercings to heal...
Here is a guide on how to handle ear lope piercings: http://m.wikihow.com/Care-for-Newly-Pierced-Ears
OMG RLLY thanks they didnt rlly tell me about that T_T thats why i panicked and thought i got an infection T_T is it going to be fine? cuz i kind of like moved the piercing a lot i even tried to remove it T_T so the pain got worse
It took one of my secondary piercings 7 months to fully heal because it was father up the ear ... relax, disinfect and keep the piercing studs in for at least six weeks
thanks everyone your answers helped alot <3 thank you so much ^^~ ill try not to move the piercings too much and wait for it to heal, it's my first time to get my ears pierced lol xD
Anna is right. Piercings take much longer than 3 days to heal. 2 weeks is a minimum for the earring to remain in the ear. Some technicians recommend leaving them in for a month, in order to keep the hole from closing over. It is quite all right to rotate the post or hoop in the ear during that time, especially while you swab it with a 3% hydrogen peroxide solution or isopropyl alcohol. Just don't remove it. Peroxide is a little better than rubbing alcohol since it tends to cauterize the skin cells which stops plasma in the wound from suppurating and helps seal the wound from dirt, bacteria and other septic matter. Also, rubbing alcohol tends to thin the blood, which means it won't easily stop bleeding. The reason you rotate the earrings is to keep your plasma cells from sticking your ears to them.
There are 2 other issues you need to be aware of: (1) potential metal allergies, and (2) infection. Some people are allergic to metal, even surgical steel. If this is the case in your situation, the earrings will be a constant source of irritation, even after many weeks. But there are likely to be other signs if it is an allergy. For example, metal bracelets, watches and necklaces will cause the same sort of rashes. You can try experimenting with other metals, like 24 carat gold, but there usually isn't a thing you can do except remove the earrings and let the holes close.
If it's an infection, that means something septic has entered the wound. The treatment will depend on the severity of infection, but you don't want it to enter your bloodstream where it can travel to your organs or other parts of your body, so treat it seriously. You will be able to tell it's an infection if it is angrily red, painfully swollen and oozes pus, which is a thick yellow or greenofish liquid. Start by attempting to clean up as much of the infection as possible with rubbing alcohol, iodine or peroxide. Soak a wad of cotton batten in the antiseptic and gently rub it into the wound every hour until you cleared away as much of the pus, blood and biowaste as possible. Keep the area around the piercings meticulously clean and dry. If it doesn't clear up after a couple of days, or it suddenly starts getting worse, go see a doctor and get a prescription for oral antibiotics. If those don't work, you may need to book an appointment at a clinic to have the infection lanced and cleaned out.
Pierced ears is destroying your temple. It is a sin. Remove your earrings!
oh thanks i actually had my nephew to check my ear if its red or nah he told me that the back of the pierced area is a bit red :/
thanks :) i dont have any allergies and actually the back of my ear's pierced area is a bit red according to my nephew is it normal :/?
Yes, it's normal. Just keep it very clean and dry for a few weeks.
thank you so much :) u rlly helped me a lot <3
I just recently saw this tag in AO3 when i was search for some fanfictions, eren centric, kuroko centric, what does it mean? is it a role? position? googled it up and it means in a center, still confused :/
Eurocentric means surrounding or centered on Europe, so Eren centric means centered on (or about) Eren - it mearly means the main part of the story is about or from the point of view of Eren.
oh thanks a lot <3
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Please recommend a yaoi manhwa that is good to read cuz im currently outdated and it's shocking to see that a lot of yaoi manhwas have been posted during my hiatus and just wondering if there's a good read on the new ones
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/circle_wang_zi_ying/
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/crossing_the_boundary_twins/
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/flower_of_destiny/
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/i_am_cupid/
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/vampire_and_hunter_spin_off/
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/serenity_film/
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/eoleunnalaui_alice/
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/meeting_him/
Any manga where in the male lead has an incurable disease, illness etc..
any genre is fine except hentai and ecchi
i have read boku no hatsukoi kimi ni sasagu, innocent blue
thanks in advance~
Ah, sorry I didn't read the part where you've had read Boku no Hatsukoi Wo Kimi Ni Sasagu
its fine thanks :)
any manga with a sick male lead? any long term illness, any genre is fine except ecchi and hentai i have read innocent blue and boku no hatsukoi kimi ni sagasu of course yaoi and shounen ai is fine~ thanks~
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/koyoi_wa_kimi_to_chi_no_kisu/
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/konoyo_ibun/
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/houyou_jikken/
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/yuuwaku_recipe/
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/ame_ni_niteiru/
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/yasashii_dakeno/
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/renri_no_eda/
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/xu_ge_yuan_ba_da_xi/
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/kyou_no_kira_kun/
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/oujisama_no_kiss/
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/jazz/
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/chigireta_heart/
does any of your family know that you read BL mangas? i recently dreamed of my sister accidentally finding out i read BL mangas and it got me have this weird feeling after i woke up, but srsly none of them know but my friends know and they're totally chill with it, and i have a friend who reads BL mangas too and we're really close we recommend fanfics to each other, she's more on fanfictions than mangas though. Im a fujoshi for 3 years now and still none of my family members know.
My family doesn't know, but they don't even understand what mangas actually are - they think I read comics for kids :D My friends know that I read shounen-ai, but I deny reading yaoi, even in front of those who read mangas themselves ^^" Last year, I went to a comic con and I admitted to reading Viewfinder and Ten Counts, but I also told my friend they are the only yaoi mangas I read because of the incredible storyline :D
No, none of my families and my friends know that im reading bl, it's nice that you still have friends knowing you read bl, cuz actually i kinda want to tell some of my friends, but it's just hard for me, so no one knows
My sister and I both read yaoi but our parents don't know anything lol. I've been giving hints such as asking them questions like what do you think of gays? Gay marriage etc. And if they will ever find out that we read yaoi, I think they'll just ask some questions like why do we love yaoi etc. And then they'll just leave us alone XD
I'm a secret fujoshi too...I'm absolutely sure that if I were to ask my parents opinion on gay marriage etc, they might misinterpret and think that I am gay. That won't be good for me cuz my parents are actually really uncomfortable about gay people/marriage :'(
My parents don't know but my friend does. I told them and they were totally fine with it. It turns out that some of them also read yaoi. I haven't told my brother about me liking bl but i am pretty sure that he knows since i put a lot of (shounen-ai) posters (just to be safe) but i don't think he minds
Whereas I can literally see Narnia in my closet
My younger brother. Though he thinks I've quit. God knows I've tried, lol.
My mom can never find out because she'll use that as an excuse and say that I actually DO like sex (I don't), so I can give her her goddamn grandchildren that she wants so fucking badly. I swear, if that woman found out I'm a sex repulsed asexual, or if I came home with a girlfriend one day, she'd lock herself in her room and cry. It's okay to be queer as long as it's not one of HER kids. Irrelevant rant over, lol.
No one in my family nor my friends know that i'm reading bl! Only my boyfriend knows and he's fine with it (=・ω・=) i wish i had some friends to talk to about manga and yaoi （￣へ￣）
they knew that I read mangas but what kind of manga no
but I told my cousin(≧∀≦)
I was introduced to the marvelous world of BL by my sis... younger sis... kids these days sure are precocious... ┑(￣Д ￣)┍
But yeah, almost everyone in the family knows we're reading porn manga (any kind) but since my uncle, aunt and father also read erotic comics (yes, they lent them to us too) they have no say on the matter ^^ They're okay with it (they didn't have a choice XD )
And my friends know too!
The only ones who don't know are my roommates... I didn't tell them because, funny fact: they are 3, one straight, one bi and one lesbian (sounds like the start of a very bad joke), and when I heard them say it I was like, okay, so they're open on LGBT+ things, and I told them I'm asexual... And they were like "what, that doesn't exist, you just didn't find the good one" (╯°Д °)╯╧╧ So I'm definitely not telling them I read gay porn =_="
mine do i very open about with my family and they dont judge me (58 y/o woman (straight)
My family do know that I watch 'weird Japanese animation' but they don't know about me reading fan fiction or BL manga. My family isn't that open towards the idea of gay couples etc...
Literally no one knows I read yaoi/BL manga. Not my family, norm my friends. It just feels weird talking about stuff like that, especially since we don't be rly communicate with each other in my family. I'm also scared that my friends would think im "weird" and feel isolated from the class...(although I know my classmates likes yaoi and she doesn't mind other people knowing)
Actually only 1-2 people in my class like it...
My family doesn't care at all, sometimes I even watch BL dramas with my mom. (without sex scenes of course, that would be very awkward.)
I think my brother suspects, i didn't tell him though. And, a college friend ccurrently in Japan. If only the others know that the serious, career driven, and chemistry nerd is secretly a fujoshi. They'd definitely think I need a shrink. LOL
My entire family knows (I think my dad does too lol) after a few years of not making it obvious and no one really cares. Two of my sisters and one of my brothers read BL and I watch some BL anime with my mom. We are a pretty open family but my Father is a bit old school but he doesn't really say anything when my mom jokes about me watching gay porn. (￣∇￣")
lol looks like we have a majority of parents not knowing that you read those stuffs, tbh my sister once showed me a pic of a gay couple and she said that it was quite cute but i tried to act grossed out xD i dunno why i did that though LOL ╮(￣▽￣)╭
Help please!
This is a japanese manga, shounen ai or yaoi. This a plot scene that happened in the later chapter -- The uke was given a protective charm by a yokai woman (i think it was a strand of hair?) who was later killed? The seme sees the charm on the uke and mistakenly believes the uke is to blame for her death, causing a misunderstanding. The seme takes the charm with him. While leaving the uke’s house, he realizes the charm was meant for protection and rushes back to find the uke lying on the floor, being attacked by yokai. The seme then intervenes to save him.
Does someone know the title?
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/matsuyoi_no_oni/ it MIGHT be this i don’t really remember the plot but it sounds familiar