Get Dojun into therapy now!! I need them happy and healthy again so I can live my relationship goals through them
Folks seeing this as “hawt” and “sexy” when we are in fact dealing with an extremely broken person who uses sex as an escape from his trauma. Porn has RUINED some of y’all thinking!
Thank u ! Please marry me you're so right !
It's hawt because it's messed up lol
??? It's hot exactly because it's NOT real life but just fiction and we're free to fantasize abt toxic stuff if we like , while knowing perfectly well they'd never work out irl. Learn to differentiate.
Learn to differentiate? It’s fiction?? Lol your critical thinking skills must be on leave today. It’s the same romanticisation of toxic and trauma behaviour in fiction that perpetuates the suffering of victims IRL!! Toxic stuff almost always works out irl, there are so many ppl in situations like Ian, some even in worse. Having honest conversations surrounding trauma is what we should be doing not calling abuse hot because it’s fictional and the smut turns you on. Do better!
That’s their only argument haha.
I think you need to calm down
You're being rather reactive to what is simply a difference in how we are all free to consume media, as long as it doesn't cause harm to others.
So, again..Learn.To.Differentiate.
If you'd like to analyze a piece of media aimed for entertainment as if you're doing a dissertation on the human condition, or just use it as sample material to discuss concerns that you have about topics portrayed in the story/as a jumping off point for issues as seen through a real life moral lens, you sure can do that. As I can do the opposite. Highly suggest to get off your high fictional puritanist horse and fight where it actually matters.
Yes, cause it's a valid one. Give it some thought, maybe.
@Nana don’t reply and block if you can’t handle.
Okay but you don’t think the abuse or trauma is hot, right?
Rereading this as a reminder that love that is wholesome and pure exists
Oh gosh it’s too early in the story for someone to cause problems for them… need more FLUFFINESS first
I don’t think she was trying to cause problems. If anything, hopefully I’m reading this right, I think she was trying to…understand? I think she’s more curious than anything why he’s dating a man now since she specifically mentioned how he used to date girls. Maybe she had a crush on someone and found out they were gay or she herself has feelings for another girl. Or she’s curious about what “liking” someone is like. Anyway, I think her “why don’t you have a girlfriend?” convo with him was prying and trying to get him to talk about his relationship. Anyway, I’m not really getting crush vibes from her towards haebom. They truly do seem to just be friends/neighbors who grew up together. I might be judging too early but I think she’s fine and is not gonna cause trouble for our couple.
Wow! Love your insight! I interpreted it in a kind of "she has a crush on him" way, like teen girls with their teachers, and was trying to maybe see if their was any chance if he would even think to date her.
I definitely that she doesn't seem like shes going to cause trouble! She seems pure at heart!
The car saleswoman knew EXACTLY what she was doing, oh my I love them so much!!!
If your take away from this chapter was how slutty or hot Ian was, you might need some therapy. This is clearly trauma behaviour. Ian’s desire to be touched by TJ is not because he likes him- anyone who sleeps with another person bcuz it looks like the other “wants it” should tell you how little they think of themselves. Oh and manipulating TJ to do it with him or else he’ll go sleep with the first guy he sees? That is self-loathsome behaviour right there. Not saying he’s the bad guy nor is TJ tbh, but this is why I’ll never root for their relationship. It was formed out of extremely toxic conditions. Youngwoo needs to do so much healing first
Exactlyyyy
you’re so right
Hot sex<<<<<
Hot protective sex>>>>>>>
Hot passionate sex with pretty dicks>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Really thought I was pro Jo x Ian but at this point idc, I just want what’s best for my baby Ian cuz he’s been through a lot. And if we’re being honest about things it’s with neither TJ or Jo. None of these men have a PURE emotional connection with him, it’s either connection through shared struggle/trauma or sexual attraction, they just want to possess him and that’s not healthy, luv. Really hoping Ian chooses himself in the end or just leaves cuz he really needs a fresh start!! None of these tops are worth it!
TIS WHAT IM SAYINNN
I disagree with the aspect of Jo. While yea their dynamic is still developing, he’s not really trying to possess him. He’s never once told Ian what to do and all he wants is Ian to be free from a world that is full of killing, drugs, and trafficking. Obviously he does feel possessive of Ian because of his feelings for him. That comes in tow with anything that has feelings for something. But he’s never tied him down. If anything, Ian is the one holding himself back. After all he was supposed to ditch the identity he currently has long ago
yessssss… i love jo
Anyone who says Tristan cheated needs to go fucking touch grass, cuz in what world does an involuntarily bodily reaction from being stimulated WITHOUT your CONSENT count as cheating?!! Are you mental?
Amen to that. I swear it's like people are addicted to negativity. This story is going perfectly with a thrilling development all while the main characters are loving eachother unconditionally. Even ready to die for each other. Still, people in here keep bringing on the nonsense. Give us a break you party poopers!
First they accused Ethan of cheating because of a meanless kiss. Then it was Tristan who cheated. After that I some are saying the last chapter was close to SA because Tristan was forced. Another ones said Ethan is no longer the same and he became too dominant. Are we all seriously reading the same story?!?! Oo
Exactly! And Ethan was dominant before he met Tristan. Also is it really that bad that they are switches? I love that about them. They crave each other in many ways. Also they are obviously so in love. People need to stop accusing them. Especially tristan since it was without consent.
honestly i do think it depends how you perceive the kiss as, while i do agree the other one is not counted as cheating and it’s ridiculous to say so, the kiss can definitely be seen toward it even if there weren’t any feelings involved. it’s not wrong for people to feel off about it, realistically your partner kissing someone else would be counted as cheating as it wasn’t necessary in any form. it’s not really that deep if people are angry at him for the kiss. i can’t really remember anything about the other dude cheating erm my memory is failing bad but that’s js my opinionnd
True! This is like saying that victims of SA or r@ped can’t be treated as victims just because they reacted to stimulants.
Even if you don’t like it when the body gets stimulated it reacts in certain way it was designed to react to!
This is so real I’m in love with story so much! I know this first hand cuz I’ve been in Dojun’s shoes. Constantly letting your guard up due to past trauma, not having enough confidence, feeling like you can’t depend on your partner because you would be burdening them ahhh I hope it really works out for them
Did it work for you? I mean your relationship? It's fin if you don't want to talk about it
No it ended I’m afraid my partner tried so hard to reassure me but I just couldn’t give because I was so insecure so we ended up not working out. In hindsight I’m glad he left because he deserved so much better than what I gave him