i feel like a lot of people forget or just don’t care how hyesung grew up.
this has a HUGE impact on his personality now. and considering that being an omega is so looked down upon, he’s terrified because he think he’s not strong enough unless he’s an alpha. and his fear is justified.
then you have dojin who’s accepting everything and wasn’t hyesung. he didn’t even like omegas in the beginning or did we all forget about that? but now he’s finally coming to terms with his feelings and that his status isn’t everything.
i feel bad for both of them. i hope hyesung went to see byul. i know he cares or else he would have ever been concerned with whether or not dojin was taking care of him.
IMHO you've hit it on the nose. To me it's a matter of time for Hyesung to sort everything out & understand that the past doesn't have to decide everything. Here's crossing fingers they both get the happy life they deserve :)
me and you both!
but i love coming back to see everyone discussing.
i personally don’t care about polygamy. i feel like there has to be a lot of trust, open communication, and equal love in order for it to work.
which i personally think is lacking in this one. in the beginning, i was happy because i thought ryuu was in love with koharu but then i felt like he loved madoka more than the others. which didn’t settle with me.
i’d even be fine if yuzu was the one he chose over the rest because i love the hell out of her. she’s so chill, acts rationally, and is pretty much the whole package but madoka? i don’t really like madoka because of her unnecessary hatred towards koharu. even til this day i STILL don’t get why she hates her so much. it’s not like koharu stole her man. YHE DUDE HAS THREE WIVES.
I'm still on chapter 58, but isnt koharu is ryuu's first love??
keep reading.
haha you're a real dude. Thanks for not spoiling it ╮(￣▽￣)╭
I don't believe "equal love" is possible. Heck, how many times do we seem moms who has several kids but spoils ONE more, has ONE favorite? In a marriage, the dynamics will never be equal. The most you can hope for is respect for all, but one will be loved more, one will suffer more, one will sacrifice more, one will be taken advantage of more .......human relationships are complex and humans are selfish, ultimately. Equal is a dream in polygamy. And usually, I assume there is silent sufferings and for it to work much compromise.
he lent him his uniform. that was so cute. get your man, seunghee.
i honestly couldn’t help but laugh when seungtaek yelled that he can take the heat. if that’s not subtle, then idk what is.
like i actually wanted him to be with hen because that would be a nice turn of events but i don’t like how he seems to be taking advantage of hen and his abuse of power.
like you kmoe the guy admired you and you’re abusing that. poor hen.
i stopped reading this like around chapter 30ish? because i couldn’t fucking stand siwon.
like i nearly cried because of how bad he was treating kang but now i’m seeing this all over instagram. can someone tell me what’s actually happening?
ex-bf came to fuck shit up so shit is being fucked up. :cries in the club:
LMAO best explanation.
IT STARTED WITHOUT CLICHES. WHOO! not that they’re bad but something different is always nice.
IMAGINE thinking that a stained shirt is more important than someone’s troubles and reputation at school.
his school life was fairly fucked because of this. and he got raped because of it. not saying they’re responsible for him getting raped but they also never really apologized until it seemed fit for them.
the brown haired girl ASSUMED that’s what he did. she didn’t even ask. maybe she didn’t spread the rumor but she was still part of the problem.
ANYWAYS, BEAT HIS ASS JUNGWOO. YOURE DOING AMAZING SWEETIE. i’m glad he doesn’t think youngmin cheated bc we both know he would never.
i’ve read a few BDSM stories and they always make the doms... abusive? if that’s the word i’m looking for. like isn’t that disrespectful to the community or something?
i like this so far though. it seems promising.
It is.
In most BDSM stories, the authors just let their dirty imagination run wild and focus on the porn instead of a good plot. Or crappy kitsch like Shades of Grey.
So I don´t expect BDSM stories to portray BDSM in a realistic way.
It´s more of a shame to our community that abusive and other stupid "doms" exists in reality.
Pseud "doms" who think women are submissive by nature and men are dominant by nature. Or other pseud "doms" who are using submissive women to hide their inferiority complex. Or pseud "doms" who think a dom is allowed to do whatever he wants.
I also like 1305 so far and I also hope it continues being interesting.
Lmao i agree. From what I've read (articles and stuff), subs are actually the ones who hold the most power during the play. Ya doms get to do (and say) lots of stuff, and subs are on the receiving end, but behind the set up, subs have the last say whether they need to stop or finish their whole play.
It lowkey pisses me off when I read the manhwas/mangas and see that doms get to be asswipes and subs get to be inferiors. If a dom in real life acts like the ones we read in manhwas (shitty, no respect for subs), it could be borderline abuse ╮(￣▽￣)╭
i agree. I like BDSM as a genre, but it's rare they portray it correctly. I like a lot of the aspects of the dom and sub relationship, so it's a shame they don't represent it better.
Fucking true. I honestly love bdsm and i MIGHT have a kink for it (honestly not sure bc I dont have anyone to try it with yet lmao), but I'm very particular when I read bdsm. Pisses me off when ppl praise BDSM mangas as a good representation and shit and im here like there's??? no??? proper??? consent??? like wtf??? BDSM is a damn kink, a PLAY, and not an excuse for a freaking dom to abuse his sub without proper consent AND go all out without giving a fuck on his sub (im pretty sure there's an aftercare).
[(Imma insert this bc my dumbass just had a realization after I thougth about aftercare LMAO): I'm not an expert on BDSM, but I think that the before and after care strengthens the bond of the dom and sub. No matter how "wild" the dom is during the play, helping the sub clean his/her body with the help of the dom might build the trust between each other. Let's not forget that in reality, BDSM revolves around trust between both dom and sub. The sub trusts the dom that the dom will satisfy the sub's desires but at the same time, check if the sub is still comfortable during the play. And vice versa for the dom + the dom trusts the sub that the sub will tell the dom when the sub can no longer do it. Aaahhh this is why I love bdsm in paper T_T I'm not even sure how it affects their daily lives but having that kind of trust between each other sounds beautiful akdkskdkks ╥﹏╥]
I hope there's a manga/manhwa out there that represents BDSM better :/
I agree with pretty much everything you mentioned. It is exactly that way. Sometimes the Dom is even in control of other aspects of their life, but as far as I know, it's all consented and trust, so too make decisions for the sub so they don't have to worry over things.
I don't know if this is always a thing, but I know with some it is. Everything is centered around trust and knowledge. People mistake all the time, being tied up and using sex toys as BDSM. I'm like, "no, he is just confining and raping the poor sob". Most dom's are experienced enough that it shouldn't hurt or leave marks. not really. maybe very fair pink marks. unless it's a part of the play, then they are rougher.
consent and trust, something all my yaoi seem to be missing. (minus a handful of rare gems)
i’m learning so fucking much.
if i’m being honest, DG admired alex before their arrangement and that turned into love, which he couldn’t help. i was annoyed because i wanted DG to give up multiple times because alex wasn’t what he needed.
but alex had the same feelings. he just didn’t wanna admit that. i mean, you don’t really get jealous and possessive over just a sex partner.
i love DG. he hasn’t really given in. he’s doing what most main charatcers SHOULD do in other yaois and that’s moving on...
i’ve read so many stories where the victim falls in love with their bully that i can just predict how everything will go.
i actually want revenge to happen ya know?
because there are so many stories where they fall in love and i just sit there like, “isn’t this guy the reason you’re traumatized?” but whatever.
it’s yaoi. ima still read it anyways because i’m interested.