I am so sick of this creepy micro trope in fantasy romance webcomics where a small child vehemently and obsessively attempts to get betrothed/married to the adult male lead. It’s fucking weird and unnecessary. It adds nothing. And I have never seen this trope in reverse where a bratty boy child tries to marry an adult woman. Not that it isn’t equally concerning either way. Any of the drama and plot developments brought on by this trope could be brought on by a normal crush from another adult, especially because the stories will (99% of the time) just gloss over how weird and concerning that is, presumably under the assumption that it’s an old timey world so obviously that shit must be normalized since nobody is batting an eye. It’s just not necessary and adds nothing of value to the story
Thank you sooo much, you're really speaking my language. Sure, things like Child marriage(Which is sadly still a problem) and being sold off were sadly common in history. But just because they happened doesn't mean they need to be thrown in ever fictional Story. It is not a historical document or historical Analysis. This Story is meant purely for entertainment purposes. Some things just don't need to be include, especially if they add nothing meaningful to the plot. Like those awful stories that throw in rape scene purely for shock value. It's disgusting and unnecessary.
Ofc I admit children often have naive feelings of admiration toward adults, which is a natural part of emotional development. It would have been fine if it was portrayed in a more harmless and touching way.
However, turning that innocent crush into a 'forced marriage' especially without addressing the power imbalance, consent issues, or the child's age soo unnecessary.
+to OP
dawg i feel like yall are taking this a lil outta proportion the author isnt making some social commentary here and infact, isnt even trying to say this senario is right. Its obviously being used as a bit since this partially is a comedy. imo not the funniest thing but its obviously not to be taken seriously - as in the ML literally acknowledges how stupid this is and calls her a nuisance and FL and ML literally get tgthr in the same chapter lol.
Also if you really wanna get into power dynamics and accuracy outside of the typical iTs HiStOriCaL (cause valid) - jus imagine being a kid who idolizes a popstar or actor....but also ur dads rich enuf for u to get backstage access to them. like bro shes not jus a crazy kid, shes a crazy kid w a bumfck crazy, and powerful, enabler dad thats kind of an interesting thing to delve into. imo they coulda made her a tad older, but honestly it wouldnt work the same w an adult cause u cant brush off an adult the same way u can a kid - the whole point is that its ridiculous.
and bro you wanna talk power imbalance? its soooo obvious ML doesnt like this but cant say no properly due to the emperor (indirectly followed thru FL) and his influence, that the princess is making use of. is she a pawn? yes. thats kinda part of the point tho and does add to the plot since using his son didnt work
point is this is a valid concern....but in this story??? so far doesnt seem that deep. who knows maybe itll get taken too far and ill be eating my words but for now its jus goofy
Yeah, I understand that the author isn’t trying to pitch the concept itself. My point that it’s a fundamentally weird direction to go in, especially since it doesn’t add anything to the plot.
Stupid blond bitch pisses me tf off. Just throwing gas on the fire for no damn reason. He literally had no reason to butt in like that, but he’s doing it for shits and gigs? He’s jealous their non committed FWB relationship so much that he wants to ruin it by outing Gyuha as an omega. The whole sequence is so stupid it makes me mad (╯°Д °)╯╧╧
For real! It is so random
completely useless character to exist in the story, but it wasn’t really his fault, wouldn’t it be weird to assume his friend (he had a threesome with) didn’t know? and he clearly realized and was trying to keep the pregnancy secret at first
Nah he knew felt like the top preferred his beta friend to him and got jealous because his little ego got hurt. He knew that everyone who knew Gyuha, including his FWB refers to, and treats him like a beta. On top of that, Gyuha literally asked him to keep secret about him rig omega and pregnant, but Blondie is trying to use that info to stir up shit within 24 hours
obviously he was trying to stir things up, but i thought he was just being, not malicious. ig i lack reading comprehension tho lol, since i thought he was just asking him to keep the pregnancy a secret.
*being messy
MC is so irritating. He just barely managed to get his head off the chopping block (literally) with the infidelity accusation, only to jump right back on it. He’s practically tap dancing under a guillotine ffs.
I get that he doesn’t have a lot of resources, but the scummy guy who schemed with your enemy to oust you from your position and potentially get you executed for infidelity is not the one. He literally risked his life for nothing other than the chance to harm the MC’s position!
It’s just so beyond stupid to even meet with him alone after that debacle, much less even attempt to team up, on top of the actual kiss. I hate it when authors write “clever” bottom/woman protagonists who magically become dumb as a box of rocks to facilitate subpar sexual encounters and artificially accelerate a shambling plot.
Haha this is my first pseudoscience rabbit hole fueled misunderstanding lol
Really hate the glamorization of shitty, subpar patriarchal narratives. Their “relationship” is so shallow. It’s clear that ML is a classic nice guy who doesn’t give a shit about her opinions or feelings as long as he gets what he wants out of her. He sees her as a sexual interest, not a friend or a person. Dropped.
I love how mini memory Valia just goes all in with the immediate marriage proposal once she finds him ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~
She’s honestly disgusting for taking advantage of the landlord like that. He’s passed out drunk, unconscious and just went through something traumatic. Consent is consent. If the genders were swapped Minji would be getting crucified in the comments. Dropped
I was looking for a comment such this. Like why ain't nobody blaming Minji for acting like a creep.
Yes! And even if he was awake and stone cold sober, she’s still basically taking advantage his emotional vulnerability after a traumatic betrayal. She literally committed a crime. No excuses for this shit
Fr but it's fictional but can't deny the fact if the genders were swapped it would have been called molestation harrasment and r@pe
The way I would yeet myself off the nearest available cliff if my landlord ever saw that
The level of para social dependency is crazy ╥﹏╥