Jaden even went out of his way to include you in the invitation cause he saw how close you were with Pine-Sol, and you still jelly! Like the man is trying to make friends and you just rude over nothing, you had over a decade of Pine-Sol’s obsession and you still insecure? Y’all lucky I have a crippling addiction to bara tiddies and memes
Well it looks like he’s never had a time (aka 1st time) where he was jealous before, so I think it’s fine for him to be allowed to feel that way. Plus I don’t really see how he was rude at all..
He only looked at him a couple times and then made an excuse to take Sol away, he was never upright rude to his face or rude behind his back.
But what’s really crazy is dem nipples, hot damn give the artist a raise and all the awards for those. Those have to be the most perfectly drawn nipples I’ve seen on a BL guy, and trust I’ve seen a lot of appetizing nipples ლ(´ڡ`ლ)
Sooin’s gonna meet the parents, Santa Claus and Jack Skelington. Best Holiday Special Evah!
BRUH SANTA AND JACK?! LMAO JACK SKELETON IS HALLOWEEN BAHAHA I DIED AT THIS COMMENT
I mean it fits the Vampire aesthetic
Is Param sleeping with Mr.Han really that bad? Don’t get me wrong, that’s my NOTP and I don’t like the idea of it, but what exactly is the issue? I don’t know Korean and I have no idea what the events leading up to that were or what the context of that decision was, and I’d guess not many of us here do either. We get so caught up in shipping we forget this is a love triangle in a smutty BL with an uke who’s never had sexual relations before and all of a sudden a hot young thing and his longtime crush both covet him: not only was this an expected outcome, don’t act like if you weren’t in Param’s shoes you wouldn’t be as tempted to play the field.
Sex is just as much of a determining factor as any other when making a choice on who to date exclusively, and so far Hwi has more experience with Param than Han so is it really much of a loss that Han gets to tap it once? We also forget Param doesn’t know what we know about Han, to him this is his longtime crush and that is hard to let go so maybe this is the step he needs to make that final decision, post-nut clarity and all. So long as he communicates with both parties that he is still deciding by casually dating both of them as a trial run and doesn’t leave them in the dark to cause miscommunication or hurt feelings, what’s the issue here?
Cause it just seems like slut shaming to me, and I always find it odd people go out of their way to see sexual content but as soon as one of the romantic leads sleeps with another person, within reason, there are calls of “dropping this” and “I don’t like x character anymore”. I could understand in stories where there isn’t a love rival or slutty character advertised on the cover, but this has been a clear love triangle almost from the getgo. Hwi and Param’s relationship was initially sexual and for awhile and even a bit now Hwi’s burgeoning feelings for Param have been unrequited because Param’s heart has been set on another. For this to change there is going to be mess, there are going to be tears, and there is going to be a sense of betrayal and heartbreak, and I will judge how the author portrays that when the time comes. I just don’t think with the limited info we have now Param sleeping with Han is a sole reason to jump ship, especially when it was already set up and Hwi has way more mileage in that department and it’s not like they’re exclusively dating, so what’s lost here?
Oh so I didn't r
See the spoiler yet
And your saying Param sleep with Han.
Yes, sorry if I didn’t cover that up well.
You really wrote this whole text bcuz u totally want to see Param and Mr. Han fuck
Chile didn’t I literally say in the beginning they were my NOTP? If you didn’t even bother to read that much, why are you responding?
For some reason half of my text wasn't send (I was joking about this anyways)
But I have disagree with you. You say "Param doesn't know what we know about Mr. Han". AND THATS THE POINT. First, would u ship your friend with his crush If u know he's an asshole? (AND If was in Param's shoes I'd like to know my crush is a player, even if this would hurt me, so this is not an excuse)
Second, that's how a love triangle works: we choose one of the caracters (unless it's a threesome but that's not the case). I prefer Hwi bcuz I had enough info and I think he's the best partner and has the best qualities.
Also, there's nothing wrong about dropping the story if u don't like how things are going, even if you think people have bad reasons to do that. I'd hate to see Param and Mr. Han, so I can understand why someone would drop this
But 1) Why blame Param for that? You can be upset at the coupling and hate Han for being an asshole, but Param doesn’t know what the audience does so why hate him for falling for Han’s manipulations? You wouldn’t blame your friend for being with an asshole because they have incomplete info and don’t see what you see, so using your analogy we shouldn’t denigrate Param for his mistake.
2) We know that Param sleeps with Han, we don’t know if they’re endgame. That’s the point, the contest is not over nor has it been decided especially if Han has substantially less sexual encounters with Param than Hwi does. We can be upset at this development and even take a break, dropping is your choice as well. However, acting like Param all of a sudden is ineligible for Hwi as a partner because of this is premature, as is acting like all is lost for their ship.
I want Hwi and Param to be together, this may be a minor setback but that’s it. I still believe they’ll be endgame and this is a way for Param to bring his feelings for Han to closure. Acting like Param cheated on Hwi when they weren’t exclusively dating or chastising him for not remaining pure for Hwi is slut shaming, which is ironic when Hwi and Param started out as sex friends and this is smut. So again, what’s wrong?
It's not slut shaming or staying pure
It's about seeing someone work his ass off and pretty much putting his heart on his sleeve but then see the response that param just sleeps with another guy.....
Right, and that sucks, but...was that not clearly part of the stakes since the end of season 1 at the latest? Isn’t that also, from Param’s perspective, what Mr. Han is also doing: putting his heart on his sleeve and working hard to court him? Also from Han’s perspective all Param has been doing was sleeping with this other guy so he shoot his shot at a chance to make an impression. All I think is that this is very confusing for Param and as much as I don’t want to see Hwi hurt, I believe he is a better person than to truly hold this against Param as in true essence he did nothing wrong. All’s fair in love and war, and sex was involved from the start so why couldn’t sex play a role in both sides of the courtship: if all parties understood this from the time the gauntlet was thrown, then regardless of their personal feelings it shouldn’t be an issue. So why then, is the audience in such a furor?
Because not everyone is OK with seeing the person that they worked hard and that person didn't even reject him and went along with hwi normally
But seeing that person sleep with someone else, not everyone is so insensitive to it...
And we can empathize with that, cause it is upsetting. I just think many are missing the big picture with the precedings of the story so far and being hasty, declarative, and uninformed with their actions and opinions based on a chapter that hasn’t been translated yet. My opinion may soften by that time, but as of now it seems shortsighted unless something about that, excluding people who are avoiding their mental/emotional triggers of course.
1) Lol I didn't say blame Param tho, neither I tried to denigrate him. I think it's totally the oposite actually.
2) Who's acting like Param's ineligible for Hwi as a partner ?
I think u got me wrong, I like Param as a caracter just like a friend of mine. That's the reason I absolutely hate the fact that he may have sex or something else with Mr. Han and that's the reason I ship him with Hwi.
You're probably talking about a small group of stupid people who hate Param (the majority of people who read this is not like that). What I'm trying to say is that I disagree with your main topic "Is Param sleeping with Mr. Han really that bad/ What's the issue?" Because I DO think it's really that bad and it's an issue.
If Param was my friend in real life I'd like to see him sleeping with someone who cares for him, since I'd hate to see him get hurt. I'd offer him advice and a lot of reasons why sleeping with Mr. Han is a bad idea (remember he's not only atracted to mr. Han, he likes him, and like u said having sex here is a BIG part of a relationship).
Then I have no quarrel with you and weren’t addressing you or your type as I feel similarly. My original post was talking about the extreme people who are saying Param’s trash and acting like he stabbed Hwi in the back and is unworthy of him now. I thought by clarifying that in my response to you that was apparent. If none of what I said in either post applies to you, then I’m not addressing you.
You throw away a good one like Lucas, but then call up and got into bed almost naked with a should’ve stayed one night stand after he stalked your workplace waiting for you? You give crazy even the slightest chance to take advantage after so many red flags before breaking it off, but pay Lucas dust when he hasn’t done anything wrong and hurt him in the process. Josh don’t love himself, just self-destructive af #－.－)
We’ve all seen enough hentai to know where this is going...and for once I’m here for it
I’m too drunk off tiddy milk to remember
Wait....... There's a plot ?
Just checking if there was one, cause I don’t see it but I could be too horny to notice
Y’all need to remember: once an abuser, always an abuser. Because of their power imbalance Nakyum would always be a victim at the whims of his master, and any misstep on his part that causes a lapse of trust from his master would result in swift retribution. That’s what it means to gain the “affections” of an abuser, always walking on eggshells ┑(￣Д ￣)┍