Oh, so weâre just out here pretending that fathers in childcare manhwa donât deserve happiness now? Writers are so obsessed with making the ML and FL get their perfect fairy-tale ending while the fatherâwho literally raised the MC, sacrificed everything, and probably suffered the mostâjust sits there like a background prop, smiling through his pain. What kind of lazy storytelling is this?
These authors act like once a man becomes a father, his personal life is over. He gets to live vicariously through his daughterâs happiness while he rots away alone. Why? Because God forbid a man over 30 finds love in these stories, right? The double standards are ridiculous. If the father has any romantic subplot, itâs either killed off, ignored, or turned into a tragic backstory. Meanwhile, the ML and FL get the cheesiest, most drawn-out romance arcs known to man.
And letâs be realâsome of these fathers are way more interesting than the so-called "perfect MLs" who just exist to be handsome and rich. But no, the genre thrives on turning them into selfless, suffering saints who donât even get a sliver of happiness for themselves. Just watching their kid be happy is supposed to be enough? What a joke.
So yeah, next time an author thinks of writing yet another father who raises the MC like a single dad champion, at least have the decency to give him a love story too. Heâs not just a side character in his own damn life.
And, those who downvoted me earlier you guys are no less than those creepy Kpop fans who were their shorts listening that their idols got into a real relationship..
Author clearly want Joo-rim to "sacrifice" himself and his entire life and take such a "heavy" burden as to caring for someone else's child and give up on his individual damn life (not going to mention happiness I don't want others to lecture me about the definition of HAPPINESS).....
(Honestly happiness is subjective to each individuals, but Joo-rim has nothing called an individual life .. he according to the plot gotta take the "HEAVY" burden of a somebody else's child. ..... )
Itâs weird youâre taking a FANTASY WEBCOMIC and trying to apply it to real life. Obviously this comic isnât accurate to any portrayal of children and itâs not going to focus on the side characters WHICH IS HER DAD AND FRIENDS!!
Any romance to be had is obviously going to be second to the main character WHO IS A CHILD!!
I donât know how you read the first chapter and got mad that the story revolves around the child when the story directly tells you itâs about childcare, first and foremost. You literally saw a baby and expected her to the side character in her own story, just so you can slobber over her dad getting married because thatâs apparently what the synopsis and cover art told you would happen??
Also erasing his own personal character and growth in this quest to demonize this webcomic is crazyyyy. He specifically chose to adopt her because he wanted to give her a better life than he did which comes with sacrifices that he knew he had to take, as well as the fact that he doesnât want to get married anyways! Youâre acting like he had a fiancĂŠe when in reality heâs heavily traumatized from losing all of his close friends in a dungeon plus having an abusive family.
If youâre that mad that he chose to adopt someone elseâs child, something you obviously view negatively, maybe donât read adoption centered stories because OBVIOUSLY ITS ABOUT A CHILD BEING THE FOCAL POINT AND NOT THE DAMN DAD.
Read a romance story and stop trying to send hate to a child care comics just because it wasnât what you expected.
This isnât real life, itâs a comic, saying âitâs his own damn life,â doesnât make sense because heâs a FICTIONAL CHARACTER SO IT DONT EVEN MATTERRRR MY GOD
Someone said the story hasn't even begun yet..
So I mtl'ed and read Korean commenters..
And, most koreans too agree with this fact that this mangwa has kind of projected the dark side of those obsessive Kpop fans .....
And, honestly I can't care less about comments passed by stans who see nothing other than cuteness ..
The MC apologists cringe me out
It matters a lot .
Your logic has many holes..
Do the MCs never recover from their trauma???
The novel has this tag- "ROMANCE".. so I'm pretty sure I'm not in the wrong place.
I pretty much can't care about the child I'm not an MC apologists..
I do not hate her either..
But, is my point wrong???
Isn't it a very same plot - the saintly pure tragic father obsessed with his daughter???
I would be creeped out honestly.
The author pretty much desires to cover the MC with plot Armour that's Pure and strong at the same time...
I simply pointed out what's wrong with the authors over using the same generic plot...
I thought you were a troll not bc of your preference bc idgaf what u think. Nothing wrong about liking different genres. But itâs simple: Donât like it? Drop it. If u really hated it, then comment your thoughts once, leave a low-star review, then drop it. But you keep coming back and commenting the same things again, ruining the experience for recent readers. At this point, all I can conclude is rather than making a point or expressing your opinion, youâre just commenting to piss people off. A troll.
What on you on dude? Itâs pretty clearly demonstrated he doesnât have a love life and he isnât interested in having a love life. He adopted her because its too dangerous for an S-rank kid to just be running around. He literally did it out of his own volition. You act like he got baby trapped with someone elseâs kid. Plus, heâs pretty happy living with the MC. It doesnât take that much reading comprehension skills to understand the plot of this story. Honestly we should just ban men from reading manhwas they always gotta ruin it.
So youâre mad that the romance isnât what you expectedâŚare you serious? So youâre spazzing out online because the romance in a childcare webcomic isnât what you expected and now everyone has to hear about your freakish obsession with romance. BffrâŚ
Why are you so creeped out at a childcare comic? She has plot armor because SHES A CHILD!!! The main character is a child therefore her only struggle is finding her found family, thatâs the entire plot.
Also the Father doesnât have to be married, why do you want him to be married so bad??? Itâs literally his own choice which clearly since heâs in his mid 20âs he didnât want to do!!!
Youâre weirdo who hates kids and want to see them suffer for some wild reason and gets mad when the romance is a subplot and not the main plot which again, wasnât even advertised in the synopsis but the tags which notoriously on this website are never correct which isnât the webcomics fault.
Honestly, my english skills ain't that worse considering we've been on it for quite a long hours..
It is not me who is obsessed rather it is the viewers and authors that are sickly obsessed with a goddamn chaste single father / or an ex-villainous father with a tragic background and mother being killed off..
Do you think it is normal??
I have no issue with adopted child or whatever.
However the theme aka the plot is over an used one..
What does a healthy family got to do with a father being pure virgin or single??
I have come across comments on multiple such father-daughter manhwa saying that "oh! Uf the father got a wife I am gonna drop it " .. what the heck does it mean anyway??
I have got no animosity or whatsoever against that kid but hey, it is not like Joo-rim getting his personal life will probably adversely affect her rather it will be a good thing..
But, the author and fans promotes the idea that a father must be single and weirdly obsessed with its child..
What the hell?
Ban man?? Is that what you got ??
Honestly, now I understand the Korean viewers better...
It is not Joo-rim's decision rather the author's and fans promoting the idea that a father must be single pure chaste and sickly obsessed..
Why can't he have a personal life??
If sexist remarks are what you got them please avoid debates..
Are you Chinese? Sorry, I don't think my country is china where yaoi and bl authors get jailed and people gets killed for expressing their views...
In multiple manhwas, there are thousands of negative reviews .. even in the good manhwas... Yet, I don't see anyone getting so irked....
Why is it that my views are wrong while yours GAVE TO BE CORRECT??
And, what the hell would I gain from attracting your eyes?? Money? Gold bars? A sense of accomplishment??
Are you crazy? You shouldn't be so narcissistic..
I just express my views and that's it .
Hey, I get it. I'm not trying to be mean, but your comment might have rubbed some people the wrong way. These fans really love this manhwa, and your words might have felt like a bit of a slap in the face to both the author and the readers. Maybe try rewording things to be a little softer? You know, like, "Hey, I've got some thoughts on this..." instead of directly criticizing. Just a thought! (=ăťĎăť=)
Look, I'm not saying I'm right, but honestly, your comment felt a bit like an attack on the author and other readers. It's fine to disagree, we all do! But the way you put it across might be why people are upset. Maybe try rephrasing it to be a little kinder? Think about how you'd feel if someone talked to you that way.
Are you in the right headspace right now?? Tf you mean by âJoo-rimâs decision rather the authorâsâ the author is the AUTHOR. The AUTHORâS decision IS Jo-rimâs decision. If you want a story where a guy gets with a woman and yadayada theres THOUSANDS of that. God forbid a story be a found family genre where the man doesnât get with a woman. Itâs FOUND FAMILY. Where in the story does it say that he HAD to be âpureâ and âchasteâ and never be in a relationship? People donât care if he gets into a relationship, and people donât care if he doesnât get into a relationship. The story doesnât even revolve around his life, it revolves around the MC, the kindergartener. Again, literally NO ONE CARES if he gets into a relationship or not, and youâre the only one that is malding over this. Youâre spending hours and WEEKS of your life being a hater in one of the most wholesome manhwas Iâve ever seen just because it doesnât fulfill the relationship expectation you have on a character that isnât even the MC??
U mean, a girl cannot become a family??? What are you on?? Are those manhwas wrong??? Ain't they all about a family ? A home?? What are you yapping about??
Are you telling me that a girl cannot be a family coz she is supposed to warn the bed and that's it?? C'mon your views are more offensive..
And , yes many viewers have often criticised the authors about the ml getting in a relationship especially in Childcare genre..
Do you know why? It is PRETTY similar to those Kpop stan syndrome ....
And, about Joo being traumatized? I'm sorry but isn't it pretty much the basic plot that can be found in all manhwas regardless the genre.
.Sorry to tell you but the Author basically wants only MC's life to be the full of rainbows meanwhile others worshipping her and that's not how it goes in all manhwas and that's why author's decision for Joo-rim's ending is disastrous and unfair..
Also, b'coz in childcare genre this subplot of a ever-chaste, self-sacrificing, devoted and doting yet a tragic father is kind of very boring and unfair ..
It is just like copying the same content over and over for the same genre..
How is it fine?? Tell me??
Had there been only the mother who died while giving birth to MC the comment section would have blown up mocking and sarcastically pointing out that specific sub-plot aka dead mother...
But, now it is silent coz she got adopted by a strong celibate pure guy .
Do you get how overused this plot is??
After reading everything from what everyoneâs said I feel you arenât actually reading the replies to you. Also who said he was a pure and chaste virgin thatâs no where in the story. Sure heâs single but who cares fr if he gets a girl or not no one cares your basing that point of yours strictly from Koreans (that we donât know actually exist or not cause I havenât seen Koreans say that about this comic or others) and not on any of the comments saying otherwise. Whoâs to say they werenât joking? Itâs a drawing. 2D. No one actually cares but youâre making it out to be that the dad needs his own life when the story based on CORRECT tagging, not mangago tagging, is about a 4 year old finding family. Iâm really lost on how you put this much hate under this manwha as he hasnât shown obsessive gross tendencies to Gruu at all there are some like that but youâre not commenting under those manwhas just this one.
Huh?? Okay first of all, define what âfound family â is, because clearly it seems like you donât even understand what weâre talking about here. When did I ever say a girl canât be a family?? Literally go on and quote me saying any of that. This manhwa is about the MC and her found family. My views arenât offensive, itâs just that you have absolutely NO idea wtf Iâm even saying. Youâre in your own little world fighting imaginary battles and arguments.
""Mc found her family"" .. So, MC's family supposed to have a single pure father who sees nothing besides her..
That's exactly what this genre has become sadly...
It's about "found family" yet I don't seem to find a single ""complete family where there exists both father and mother....a complete one""..
There's a manga where the MC and her family are assassins and she's also an overpowered MC..
The family is super cute and the manhwa has everything..
The MC is both cute and powerful...
I forgot most of the plot but if I remember correctly it is ""anyaxfamily""
And, remind you the Tags don't forget it ..
A family with no other thing than overpowered MC playing cute and a pure tragic hero/villain father that is obsessed over her..
Can't the childcare genre authors make something different?? Why does every child are manhwa follow the same HARCORE TRAGIC PATH...
My point remains valid childcare genre/ found family genre whatever you call it has become cringe with the same exhausting and overused tragic yada-yada sub-plot.....
Also, how can a family not have romance btwn the father and the mother??
Is it a crime for the parents to be involved in romance?
"Manhwa is about MC then it should be only about MC"- This is the summary of your previous comment.
However you are being very childish .. you do know that many manhwas also do posses the side characters story and their personality progress... There are many side couples besides Ml and Fl in manhwas..
So, it should not be that surprising here either...
Yk you're behaving the exact same way the crazy kpop stans do..
Surely, the MC wouldn't mind her father being investing his attention to somewhere else for a female moments....
Ripped straight from google : âNo, a "found family" does not have to be a full family in the traditional sense; it refers to a group of people, not necessarily related by blood, who choose to support and care for each other like a family, which can include a close-knit group of friends or even a single, significant mentor figureâ
In short, you didnât even search up what found family genre is and youâve been pulling shit out your ass this entire time. Sit down and quiet down bruh you arguing just to argue and you ainât even know what the topic and convo is actually about
Okay, you say "complete family," but there are so many different types of families out there. Single parents are one, and it's a popular genre, which, as you can see, people use. It's legit like any other copy-and-paste type of genre, like dungeon or solo leveling manhwas, where everything has the same plot except for a select few. If you're getting so mad over one type of genre being copy-and-paste, why aren't you getting mad over the others?
also, if this is a child centric manhwa then it would be through the kids view right? so maybe, just maybe yk, there is romance but guess what, the kid doesn't see it bcs they are a kid and don't get it...also this story legit only has 20 chapters so u don't even know for sure what is happening in the future regarding romance or personal life....
this entire story is about her finding a family that cares about her...her new dad legit has other responsibilities, and its shown?? and it's not just about the dad and her, she has other guardians...
I just don't get why you are so worked up over one story when there are so many other things and stories that are so much worse that should be paid attention to. But you are here??
Okay, you say "complete family," but there are so many different types of families out there. Single parents are one, and it's a popular genre, which, as you can see, people use. It's legit like any other copy-and-paste type of genre, like dungeon or solo leveling manhwas, where everything has the same plot except for a select few. If you're getting so mad over one type of genre being copy-and-paste, why aren't you getting mad over the others?
also, if this is a child centric manhwa then it would be through the kids view right? so maybe, just maybe yk, there is romance but guess what, the kid doesn't see it bcs they are a kid and don't get it...also this story legit only has 20 chapters so u don't even know for sure what is happening in the future regarding romance or personal life....
this entire story is about her finding a family that cares about her...her new dad legit has other responsibilities, and its shown?? and it's not just about the dad and her, she has other guardians...
I just don't get why you are so worked up over one story when there are so many other things and stories that are so much worse that should be paid attention to. But you are here?? ďźďżŁă¸ďżŁďź
Typical of people with covert narcissistic behavior tbh. They think that their opinion matters this much because they think that they're not like everybody else with that horse shit opinion. They think they're smarter than anyone because they're the only one who "sees" through the story when they're just making it into something that it's not. They want to feel important even in a limited space because they're well aware that in the real world they don't hold any significance to anyone or on anything. You can tell the commenter isn't as heard in real life so they're like this here. You can even see the type of person they are through her other comments in some manhwas/mangas. They don't condone rape but it's an exception if it's someone they like. This person is a mess










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