Tia's Topics (84)

Easy to say when u are not in her place.

Well said.

If I were in her place, someone should tell me the same. At times we need to hear things in order to close circles.
Also, she needs to work on learning and leaving her past behind, and that's a fact in everyone's life, either we are in this position or going through other hardships. That's the only way to live free, isn't it?

Yeah. But i doubt she has many close friends to share such things with. Often when two people are in a relationship, they don't interact much with friends. They are closest to each other in fact. And she is an introvert and too blinded to see how her ex-husband manipulated her so she cannot survive without him. I mean, how the hell did she accept to live at home when he didn't so much as thank her for doing all the housework is a mystery to me.
Sure housework is a lot to keep u engaged all day but u still find free time when u want to work or do something.
I really admire her(being her) for being able to leave him and come out of that marriage.
She needs to do a lot of self reflection to understand her inferiority complex coz she doesn't have many people around her who can see it and tell her that she's worth it.
Such people find it hard to believe their own worth

True, true. I agree with you. And, I can only say that peep at times make the weirdest of decisions... her ex may not have been a jerk all his life, and seriously, good peep accept energetic vampires in their lives all the time.

Yeah, I'd also say he pretty much isolated her: she asked her to quit her job and stay at home, he took her car etc. so that man was basically everything in her life.

It's true, isolation is one of the best ways to keep someone under control, and it's hard... I've seen women go through this type of vicious circle and it's only through decision after decision, fight after fight against their own fears that many make it out of it.
Abuse sucks, and abuse is not love under any circumstance.

You know abuse and trauma are bad but here you are judging the MC for having them. Lmaooo

"Judging" a comic character, sure, champ!

Also... we all are having a normal discussion, exchanging points of view and learning from our differences... and here you are, judging me on the fact that according to you I'm the judging one #SureSure
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"A comic character" yet here you are saying "If I were in her place" as if she's a real person and you are telling a fictional character what to do, i.e. "you should focus on leaving your inferiority complex behind" as if she's a real person. Suuure ╮(￣▽￣)╭

That, Mr. Shakespeare, was a quote of a response I gave to a person who referenced what I'd do if I were in their place.
And yes, we read stories and develop (and share at times) fictional points of view based on fictional characters. I don't think you can judge a fictional character... bc... you know, they don't exist.
Anyway, I'm giving up with you. I'll drop this convo and keep on with my life, you'll probably respond once more or so and then keep on with your life too, so, bye!

Is that so wrong tho? I mean i also kind of sometimes imagine what I would do if i was in some character's place. I mean I have kinda learned quite some bit the most important one i've learned is a coin has two sides. Uh can be villain in someone's life but in someone else's u might be the hero.

That man was saying Seoha is a fictional character when I said he was judging her. So I said she's just a fictional character so why say "if I were in her place" or "I am so mad at miss Kim rn".

Imagine being mad at a fictional character, which is something that doesn't exist. (that he himself said is fictional, putting back words in his own mouth)

Cherry, sorry, William maturely blocked so I'm responding to you to get this out of my chest.

Gosh, William, you are so tiring.
And... I've no idea why you assumed that I'm a man. Your approach is wrong in so many levels that I couldn't get through to have a healthy discussion with you.
I like to give my opinion and hear others opinions as well -bc hearing different POV is interesting- but you just go and judge, and criticize, and attack.
Gosh... really, you are so tiring.

So i kinda get both of ur opinion and uh know uh both are just giving ur own opinions and many times there are clash when different opinions meet. So my point is shall we end the clash over here? (￣∇￣")

I don't tend to clash, I like to hear opinions in general. Judgement and attacks is the part that I'm against.
Yeah, you are right! I dropped it a while ago and dunno why I got so mad that I took it back yesterday, my bad!
I agree with you, let's end it here!
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I hope I didn't say anything unnecessary and have a nice day (or night) ahead

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You didn't!
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Well it might be confusing but maybe for her, she wanted to introduce the guy to the dad, well, simply because they like each other not because of a deal. And she did tell her dad on the phone that she's married but i think the dad did not take it seriously. The guy also wanted to make sure that he has a stable job or not unemployed before she introduced him to her dad. That's just my understanding though....

OMG, thank you for telling me! I didn't consider his absence and his unemployment. Probably if she told her dad about her marriage again he'd probably not believe her and I guess that's what will happen in the next chap!

her dad knows she married but he probably forgot she said it

Er... she did not keep it a secret?
She told her dad through the phone that she got married and will bring the husband to be introduced to father.
But father doesn't believe her. Because she came back without her husband.
She couldn't bring her husband back to be introduced yet because the husband dont have a fixed job yet.
She planned to introduce the husband formally when the husband got a fixed(fulltime) job not just some gigs.