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I theorize that it's to provide some light-hearted fun to the end of such a tension filled manga. Like a palette cleanser

He is still sadly

actually not, according to freud's psychosexual stages (even though most of them are not accepted at the moment, however, it is considered as a very inappropriate behavior among other psychologists too)

According to Freud, if any psychosexual stages went wrong (or longer/shorter than average), it will harm that person's character later in life. And this stage is spesifically called oral stage:
"In the first stage of psychosexual development, the libido is centered in a baby's mouth. During the oral stages, the baby gets much satisfaction from putting all sorts of things in its mouth to satisfy the libido, and thus its id demands. Which at this stage in life are oral, or mouth orientated, such as sucking, biting, and breastfeeding.

Freud said oral stimulation could lead to an oral fixation in later life. We see oral personalities all around us such as smokers, nail-biters, finger-chewers, and thumb suckers. Oral personalities engage in such oral behaviors, particularly when under stress."


So, i haven't seen any of that comments that you're talking about but this is not just a "omg It's SeXuAL" thing. It effects even the character development and the relationship of mom and child. Those comments are not thinking 'pervert' or 'weird'. And breastfeeding your child till 5-6 years old is not that normal lmao.

I think more study should be done regarding the issue of the overextend on breastfeeding .. does it really affect the child's personality and whatnot

But if anyone want to hear a personal story regarding this, my mom told me that she stop breastfeeding my bro when he was 7 and he grew up just fine.. didn't really smoke until he was in his late twenties because of his co-workers..between 3 of my brothers, he is the most gentle and his relationship with my mum is normal.. no mummy issues and whatnot.. so, yeah.. don't think too much about it..unless if you have the interest to do this kind of study ╮(￣▽￣)╭

hahaha yeah i have interest this kind of study cause i'll be a psychologist in two years. im just giving some scientific description to a person saying this is normal. there's no point of givng me opposite examples lmao, i already said freud's theories are almost all rejected today BUT these type of things are not being stop considered just because a theory about this is rejected once. i'm not saying anyone's family weird, problematic or smoker. every scientific thing, yes even the strict ones, has an exception in social sciences, actually there's no strict rules in social sciences.

Like i said, i just give an explanatipn of 'this is not normal', for the people saying 'omg stOp saYinG sExuaLiZinG'. Cause you guys have an explanation already, if you have a opposit case -like your brother-, or you guys can explain it with saying 'this is just mom and son and you guys are exaggarating'. I'm just saying, this is not normal at all and i just give the scientific explanation of it. You won't win over ne with giving me a example of your family LoL this is so funny. We don't even need to look at this topic from a psychology perspective, this is not advised from doctors too, you can find anything related to science and helath with a little research.

Lastly, if we don't think too much, what's the point of we have a brain, are we gonna make a salad with that?

Anyways,, there's no point of taking sides on mangago, under a random manga, if i sounded offensive or hurtful anywhere, i didn't mean it in a way to hurt you, please remember that. i hope your happiness and the happiness of your family will last forever. Peace out sweetie. <3

Hahahahha..I see, so you do have an interest in that kind of study..

Yeah, I understand that.. I know that majority of people thought it's weird because children should be weaned after certain age, most probably because it inconveniences the mother and to let the children to be less dependant on the mother, to be independant; to learn more and grow into a proper human being.. an end to one phase and a beginning of another.

To be honest, I don't prefer it when people are quoting theoretical studies in a forum to claim something as it more on the researchers' observation and the statement can be more generalize and the way they state their claim is more statement like..which can give askew view to the reader like what they state is the one true truth..which is no good when putting in public places as people tend to just take that information as it is and doesn't do more research on the topic..so, it can be harmful for those who just read through the comment section..you know..just for fun.. (Yes, I know many theoratical studies put in arguments from different studies, but most arguments were written after the aforementioned statements and it can be kinda long and no one wants to put it in the comment section or random forum..hahahha) (BTW, I much prefer when people quote the statistical study as you know what the major finding is and you know that the finding doesn't mean that it involve all people with the prementioned condition Eg: From *** study, 86% children who overextended their breastfeeding period exhibit psychosexual tendency in adulthood but from that statement you also understand that not all children who overextend their breastfeeding period exhibit psychosexual tendency..just the majority of it)

You may think that quoting scientific study is helping to support you point and to add in the conversation..but it can also cause harm to others as well..because some people are not that familiar about scientific studies..I, myself become more familiar about it after being exposed to it from uni and many more people doesn't know the different type of studies and how there are good and bad studies to quote as well..

Don't worry, I'm not offended about your comment, I just don't want people to have the thought that overextending breastfeeding your child will cause psycosexual problems because people already thought that to be weird, and I don't want people to start ostracized kids that do overextend their breastfeeding priod. Because people can be mean and misinformation can give the cause for people to act that way...and ofc, they never bother to check or find more information on the topic..and just start to bemean others using the information that some random people quote on the internet.

I also know that giving personal experience in response to a scientific one in not suitable and not that reliable to be made in an argument, but like you said, this is just a mangago comment section and I don't want to be lenghty to counter the argument. So, giving my own experience is me trying to justify to people that it's okay to overextend the breastfeeding your child..it is weird but your child will not necessarily have psychosexual problem, just like my brother..unlike what is claim by the previous comment which is you. Not trying to offend you, just trying to give explanation on what I did.

Regarding the overthinking statement. This is my own philosophy, I just think it is just better to not overthink about stuffs that are unrelated to you. Yes, you do need to think because you have a brain but you don't need to overthink about all the issues of the world. Especially, when that something is not related with your life because people tend to overthink and since it is related to them, it is not that important to them and they will not bother to do more research on them and usually make their own conclusion regarding those issues based on what miniscule research that they did. So, it is better if you don't overthink it, it just makes everything better, you won't have a headache over it..you don't spread misinformation..

It is my own philosophy, but I frequently said to other people that "you should not overthink stuffs" because many tend to overthink and over small matters in the comment section and it just blows up out of proportion..so, just don't bother with it..it will give you less headache..

And this is why I don't prefer to comment about serious stuff in the comment section..I tend to write essays about it...hahahaha..and it takes a long time to write it up as well.. I much prefer to spend my time reading more BL..

I think because the strory starts with him in his 3rd regression? And the other lives were revealed later as a flashback
Im not sure tho

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