Both were wrong in some way, shape, form. Notably he was wrong for not talking to her about he feelings (also, the whole actively trying to get her pregnant without her consent). She was wrong for hiding the child and using her resentment as an excuse to deny him the right and opportunity to be a proper father. Men have just as much of a right to be parents as women. She had no proof that he wouldn't of loved his son and loving a woman have nothing to do with loving a child. I am very upset with both leads. Poor judgement on both parts.
You have a good, but remember in stories like these the males tend to think that when the female say they’re pregnant it’s trap and that it’s another mans child and that they’re being used for money. Besides if you were in her shoes would you have told him about the baby? I know for a fact that I wouldn’t and you’re right she shouldn’t have hidden the baby from him, but given how he treated, who knows ow he would’ve treated the baby. Just saying No Hate
I understand what you. As it is a situation where it is hard to say for certain what I would do, I can only believe that I would tell him. I, personally, hold fairness at a high value, not meaning to imply the you do not. I can understand her being upset and reluctant, but denying someone the chance to be a father would eat away at me and cause emotional turmoil. In my mind, if she was discouraged from telling him that night, she should have told him after, as the child was not hers alone. From what I see, she had no solid reason to hide the child, except for her resentment. The only reasons I see to hide a child is if the father is violent or a pedo and he was neither, just a jerk to women. Again, I understand what you mean, but I find hiding a child because of a assumed 'what if' to be very unfair.
I agree with but given the situation, I feel like even if she did try to tell him he would claim that child isn't his and that she's lying to him. Since that's how most of these stories go and I didn't think she hid the child from him for revenge, if she really wanted revenge she could've used the child to get money from him and still not allow him to see the child. It's never right for someone to hid a child from their family, but during that time do you honestly believe that he would think that the child was his?
I see. In that situation, he had his chance to do the proper thing, regardless of whether he takes the chance or not. If he rejects the child being his, that is on him. He can never say that he didn't know about the child. Of course there are the scary 'what-ifs' like what if he tries to take the child, or what if he treats her like a money hungry succubus, but to me that's something she cannot truly say will happen beforehand. Something just does sit right when the FLs in these mangas assume and hide their children. Even though I tend to be anxious about what-ifs, I don't like for my anxiety the interfere with the rights of others. I also don't like to leave room for blame or misunderstanding on my part. I can now sympathize with the FL a little more, but I still think she is wrong along with the ML. The ,fortunately, civil discussion we are shows that everyone does not think the same way even when there are common things agreed upon. I highly appreciate your opinion and that you didn't use all caps or call me names.











And that, my friends. Is why you get all the info before you make a plan.