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you should wait tbh. I Decided to finally read after waiting for so long but the development is slow, give it another 10 chapters before you binge

You should wait because this is some of the most frustrating shit ever. Like it’s good and all but we 79 chapters in and there is no divorce

Well... so...
Takeru (Uke) was a virgin closet gay who was denying his sexual orientation. He realised he is gay in middle school, very young and on puberty.
He have no one he can confide in. He start thinking for the worst and get very defensive.
He feel very frustrated at himself that he start getting aggressive to people with same problem as him.
His shitty behaviour was a persona he made to act to protect himself.
Because he have no one to talk to, he try to learn things or learn about himself by himself (such lonely person...).
He tried buying sex toys online to find out if his preference is really that, or if he can get off with fake dick. However, halfway using them, he got scared and feel uncomfortable, so he stop using them.
He is not a home-maker kind of person, so he don't really tidy up stuffs. So he always forgot to throw away stuff he don't need/want.
.........
One day, somehow when Chouji (Seme) looking straight at Takeru and likewise...
They somehow feels this uncertain mutual attraction to each other. (It is what I would call fated pair. Or perfect compatibility).
.......
Meanwhile, Chouji is an Alpha male who can excels in anything if he try. But therefor he never truly attached to anything.
That is until he met Takeru and know him better.
Chouji being the understanding type, and more mature one, encourage Takeru to accept himself. He become the person Takeru can confide in, and slowly put down his defensiveness.
And, as for Chouji, he is a BI with both feminine & masculine persona merge together. (He is okay doing things with both males & females).
That's why sometimes you can see him being manly af & strong and stuff. But sometimes he can be so fragile and weak to his own emotion made him easily break in tears.
Chouji has accepted both of his persona as him and be in peace. That's why he is able to guide Takeru.
And ever since he being with Takeru, Takeru bring out more of Chouji's manly side. The side which want to protect, spoil, possess and care for Takeru who seems so weak, cute, lonely, and the tsundere he was...
So....
To explain it shortly, this is what they both feels:
"I am not so sure what it is, but I am really is crazy for him and all I want is him. He make my heart feel at ease. I feel very happy with him by my side".

And, if you have not read the prequel yet, please read them first to know what was the original problem which lead to the current state.
Takeru was quite a jerk/bastard in that prequel.
In this sequel, we managed to learn and understand what lead him to do those shitty move. But doesn't mean he is forgiven for that act.
Thank God, Takeru reflected himself and with Chouji's help, he able to sincerely ask forgiveness.

http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/renai_fuyuki_todoki/

He NEVER actually used those sex toys on himself. He only bought them to learn more about his sexuality but he still couldn’t figure out how to use them. He told the same thing to the seme.

Lol... didn't catch that... Thanks for the reminder.
The first one he ever tried to use was that golden toy on Kurama, but because he don't know how to, got flustered, and Kurama took that chance to smacked him.

Exactly! I hated him so much when I read Kurama’s story about a year or 2 years back but I never really knew if he did rape Kurama, either with the toy or he did it himself. Reading this story made me so happy that Kurama didn’t get sexually assaulted by him cos I really felt so bad for him when I read that manga and I hated Emoto so much.

Yeah.
Even after being together with Chouji, Emoto still have that nasty expression.

Lol. Yeah, but now I see it as a cute expression because he is a tsundere.

A reformed Tsundere.

Damn that's heavy stuff ma dude (⊙…⊙ )

*virtual hug* cause i'm a stupid emotionally challenged teenager sorry this is all i got

I know I shouldn't say this but I just hope nothing like this happen in the future with you ever again but I still think you should consult your mother about it because other than mother no one can be a better therapist than her....She will have her own way to share your burden with you and this will also increase the trust between you and your mother and your bond will strength too and if something like this happen she will be able to protect you as no one is more important than children for a mother and it doesn't matter even if your mother has good relation with your uncle at least she will be able to see the real beastly face of that dude......This will kept on increasing your anxiety which will lead to be under depression which will be more dangerous......I can't be the therapist but I can be your ears and I can even advice you or talk to you which cab lift up your burden....But I hope that you will share it with your mother which is the best opinion

Are you a dependant or make ur own money? If you don't rely on them for your financial needs then spill the tea and run off from them . You deserve better gal (╯°Д °)╯╧╧

the only thing that can help is yourself have some courage and most of all fight for was right. I mean he harassed you. I experience that. So I knew how to deal with. Tho it's still kind of creepy all I did was to tell them to fuck off or blackmail them. You have to gather evidence.

DAmN whAT dO I EVeN sAY.,..UGh it’s just me, I want everything to be done and solved already....to stop having it over my head...also i think the reason it’s so hard it tell her, is because I lost a lot of trust in the ones around me, not specifically because of this but other stuff(like I don’t tell family members shit anymore ┑(￣Д ￣)┍) but still like you said, eventually the person I’m gonna have to tell is her. I JUst gotta get the proper gear on yk... thank you tho I think I was thinking that if I said anything I’d be telling everyone right then am there and that was REALLY heavy so Thank You♡

AwH thank you this made me smile ╥﹏╥ *virtual hugz back*♡

Same mindsTHaT was my whole plan. I just got caught up in the rush of wanting to be done with it already UGh and THanKs I dO donT I （/TДT)/

Let’s fucking go (╯°Д °)╯╧╧
i said this before and I’ll say it again MEN IN BASEMENTS 2020
(This gonna be awkward if you’re a male hehe(￣∇￣"))

Tell me about it man┗( T﹏T )┛

Explain why people disliked this.....other then them being the devil, and not in a good way. Suck.me.toes. (︶︿︶)＝凸
JUsT SayInG ┑(￣Д ￣)┍

I've been in this situation before. The problem is you're not choosing your audience correctly. If this person isn't well-vested in your life and interests, you might have to come to the realization that they don't care about you as much as you care about them. Avoidance of issues might also stem from the desire not to talk about them. You may find better luck with this person as a "surface friend" and search for deeper relationships elsewhere in your life. Otherwise you are putting unrealistic expectations onto your friend and your relationship which might ultimately cause the rift between you two to grow larger. It's a harsh truth, but a necessary one.

Of course, this is based off of your comment. You know your situation better than I do, but from an outsider's perspective who can sympathize, that's what I see.

Thank you that makes a lot of sense. I do have other friends that I talk to about all my stuff so ig its not good to force it for that person and just be friends hah sadly but I get it and thanks btw♡´･ᴗ･`♡ you’re amazing and wise Hehe (づ￣ ³￣)づ

No problem! This has been an issue for me in the past. I'm glad I could be of assistance.

To this I'd like to add that avoidance doesn't have to mean they don't care but maybe that they don't know how to deal with it. Sometimes when you don't know how to react to something you can end up coming off blazé.
But mostly what @Damn D~A~K~U Katsuki said.

Yeah I get that, stuff I say could be intense. And it’s not like she doesn’t care about me so what you’re saying makes sense. Thanks for the input♡

Glad to be helpful

The way she replies...she does not know what to say. A person who hasn't been through it really can't know the depth of it or how much it affects you. Its a different kind of caring. She probably wants to understand but may not know how.

It sounds like they're not probing into it because they don't know what to say to you regarding your issues because they simply lack the depth and tact to pursue the topic further with you, not that they don't care. If they're listening intently enough to respond to you, it means they do care. And changing the topic isn't to slight you it can also be to de-escalate tension. Whether its to de-escalate your tension or theirs, or it's simply habitual to carry on the conversation. I can say from experience that I have a number of very close friends that sometimes also can't help me solve my problems but are only capable of hearing me vent.

So I feel like she cares about you, but just doesn’t know what to say. So I would just talk to another friend about it.

I had the same thing happen to me once. I asked her something along the lines of "There's this boy in my class who I've known for a while and whenever I bring up any issues or go into deep thought it seems as if he doesn't care and ends the conversation by saying that's sad or that sucks. What should I do?" And she told me "I don't know, but why would you tell him this stuff if he doesn't care?" I said "Because we're good friends" and she told me "I wouldn't be friends with a person like that". I revealed that it was her and she got angry for "tricking her"? But she just admitted she wasn't a good friend so I cut our friendship off after that.

Well. If I were you I would seek new friends. She doesn' either have the skills to communicate how she wants to. Or she doesn't care too much. I had a friend once who would rant about her life all the time but never really caring about me and what I wanted to talk about. Its not healthy so make friends with someone who is good at listening. But remember to not be what you dislike. Remember to listen to them aswell.

Having a friend is not only about sharing happiness together but also sharing your concerns together. And if she can’t understand what you’re going through then I think you need to find a new friend. Like you said , you’ve only been friends for two years and in my opinion you can get a better friend who can understand and share your concerns with. Friends come and go, I’m sure you’ll find another good person who you can talk to. Or if you don’t want to lose her then why not make other friends and talk to them instead? And if I were you I wouldn’t tell her anything because she won’t understand and her simple answers will just hurt my feelings more and more.

Yeah if I look at it in a certain way I can see that she’s trying like you said to de-escalate the tension, which I appreciate but you know sometimes it just feels like she’s brushing it off but I get it..thanks for your advice ♡

Yeah after hearing everyone’s input I think that it’s better option to just talk to another friend (just kinda hard considering how she had a really high place in my heart..if that makes sense heh) thanks for your advice♡

Yeah I’ve talked to her about it(in the most gentle way possible) but I could see that she was getting uncomfortable so I dropped it..and I think after hearing everyone’s advice I should put at least a little distance between us haha thank you for you advice I appreciate it ♡´･ᴗ･`♡

Well dang that was badass haha(hope that wasn’t offensive sorry if it was) But I’ll admit that I am a bit scared to lose her as a friend so I’ll just distance myself and hopefully we can remain okay friend in the end(I sound like a pussy (￣∇￣")) but thanks for your advice ♡´･ᴗ･`♡

Yes I agree it is not healthy but I am a little scared to lose her as a friend so I’ll just try and distance myself for now (you after reading this:(╯°Д °)╯╧╧) and yeah I always try to be there for people who are hurting(cause I know how it feels ╥﹏╥) thanks for your advice ♡´･ᴗ･`♡

Yes thank you I do have a friend that always really supports me in my hard times which I think was how I really realized properly that the relationship with my friend wasn’t the best. Thanks for your advice, idk why I didn’t really get how true friend should be so when you explained it I opened my eyes more to the situation...hope that makes sense (idk maybe I just never thought too deeply about relationships I’m general considering a lot of them I’ve seen are toxic ) anyways thanks again♡´･ᴗ･`♡

Yeah and I get that we both have had different experiences in life so it’s wrong of me to expect her to know exactly what to say to comfort me. Thanks for your advice♡´･ᴗ･`♡

Np just take care and have fun, it might be hard but I’m sure it’ll get better soon. And if you want you can talk to me when you feel down.

♡

Lol I’ll take the L and apologize for a sorry excuse of a human, or I’m apologizing for myself. It’s a win-win situation. ╮(￣▽￣)╭

Actually you could use this to negate all the downvotes on this site.

Just:

sorry,
I accidentally downvoted (￣∇￣")

(Or nAaaAAH)
sneak 100

Imagine more apologies than there are downvotes

Oops

True true I’ll do this as good deeds to make up for my sins ╮(￣▽￣)╭

I see what you did there (╯°Д °)╯╧╧

Hehe what a nice and chaotic comment section

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in the novel she became uh what do you call this, possessive? obsessive?

Oh wow over her whole family thing? Or just a certain person?

oh damn i am /not looking forward to this development