Anyone else find this a little bit too realistic to enjoy? No? Just me? Must be due to my discomfort remembering my youth.
is it realistic? It doesn't seem to be that much realistic to me
It's more realistic than most i have read
oof how can i make it into a reality??
its realistic,,
i meet my husband his 34 and im 17
his single he has stable job
and im glad that i meet him
we are now 10 years together
Same goes to me. Met my husband when I am 18 and he's 33.
10 years and ongoing with 3 lovable brats (´∀｀)♡
Did you guys ever feel reluctant to get into a relationship with someone much older? I sometimes feel awkward talking with people a few years younger thinking we're both mentally too different
My father married a woman 13 years younger... XD
yes it is
my bf is 46 and me 27
dude its not bad to date older us lobg us his single and his not married
never underistamate older guy when it come to sex
Omg all of you guys sound like you have such loving and cute relationship!!! im so happy for you all congratulations and for more to come for your relationship <33 i want to meet someone like that someday too! Also being 46 and 27 is so close to the age in the manga lmaoo
At my country, celebrity also got together even though with long age gap..such as the girl was 37 and the man was 21..also few got married with such age gap
yup lmao but im not a sales lady our his my neighbor when u was elementary i had secret crush on him
but he never get married becouse his firts love chested on her when he go to abroad
I'm sorry to hear about his first love.. but that's so cute, having a crush on him during elementary and ending up actually dating him in the future (≧∀≦)
yup dream come true lol
his already madly inlove with me now lol
and thank to that bicth his mine now haha
WHAT
What I'm happy about reading alp your replies to each other is that even if you're adults with your own kids, you still read manga. That's what I'm happy about.ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~
I prefer older guys too. Guys at my age just want to have fun and play around. I hope I can find a older guy. But I think it will be difficult as most men treat me like a little sister.(´°ω°｀)
So, I looove this story. BUT, am I the only one who has trouble following it sometimes? Like, the scenes change abruptly and I'm left not even realizing it transitioned until a few panels in. Is it just me?
Same here ╥﹏╥
Is with these stories of old men dating literally CHILDREN!? Seriously, I don't care how 'cute' it is, the reality is the pushing of this being normal in these stories are dangerous. It is why in real life, disgusting, old men feel they have the right to hit on young girls and much younger women. I remember when I was 18 and had 45 year old men pursuing me. At the time, books like these made me think I was hot shit and I wore rose colored glasses. But let me tell you, it wasn't cute. It was disgusting. It is predatory. Men like this should be shot.
Y’all snowflakes blow my mind. MD is in the wrong? He’s not a good Dom/BDSM partner? What?
Chanwoo keeps allowing himself to be BEAT up by his boyfriends and goes back for more. He NEVER says the safe word during play with MD even when MD feels it is past where they should go. He rejects MD then tries to bring his NEW BF to meet MD fully knowing how MD feels about him. Seriously, the boy needed a taste of his own medicine and a sharp wake up call. Which he got.
For all the soft kiddies whining about MD: BDSM is more than physical. It’s emotional and mental. It’s breaking down, humiliating and other “not nice” strategic play meant to completely shatter and release you. MD did a fantastic job, he quit immediately at the safe word and is shown practicing after care (hugging/comforting) directly after. If you don’t like the realities of what BDSM is, don’t participate and stop reading this side story. Simple as that.
The fact that this post have nearly 50 likes is horrifying.
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Right lmao. People hating on it clearly don’t know how BDSM works much less been in a sub dom relationship
OMFG. BDSM is about FULL CONSENT, SAFETY AND OLEASURE, SATISFACTION of both partners. Did you see anything like that in the play with other sub? Did you?
Oh so 'manipulation' is a part of this BDSM reality? New info. They had a mutual agreement to seperate their private lives and their sexual relationship. MD did what he did because he has ulterior motives. He intentionally placed someone in an uncomfortable situation just to push his ideals on chanwoo. Whatever the reason is doing something that you know will hurt another person is wrong. Im not commenting on the slap or the play they do, rather the situation that MD created. Get off your high horse and stop thinking that you know whats best for another person. I just hope you wont be intentionally hurting someone just because you think they need a lesson or that they deserved it.
Lmfaoooo why tf are u blaming him for getting beat on by his ex bf ur disgusting
Yep. I did. Safe words are there for a reason sweetheart. If it was past the point of comfort for the sub, he was capable of saying the word/phrase at anytime to stop.
Him and his partner were Not in a bdsm relationship, I’m not talking abt MD, I’m talking abt his ex that gave him bruises
this post is too true! Chan show he can go against MD and say the safe word, he just never did! and it's annoying me to no end! and the fact Chan dare to show off his new "bf" was fucking low from his part and shameless! he got what he needed and there is no reason to make Chan into a baby that can't decide things for himself.
shame the trolls will still whine how the baby can even decide shit now.
Your pov is toxic and ignorant I have no words.
Wasn’t talking to you dear. Try to keep up. In response to your earlier comment:
Radical honesty can be tough on the feeble minded. I’m an abuse survivor, one that is lucky to be alive and my experiences have shown me that there is a point where you have fault. Never said it was deserved, abuse is never deserved, but there is fault when the person continues to get into those relationships.
If you get beat up (in a non-consenting way) and continue to go back to them or seek out partners with the same qualities there is an issue with you. And if you fail to address it, work on it, identify past traumas and reasons why you continue to get into abusive relationships, you have blame. Again, doesn’t mean you deserve it or it is right, but you have a responsibility to check yourself when you continuously wind up in the same fucked up situation.
Good. Don't let the door hit you on the way out :)
The other comments didn’t load dipshit, you said it like he was the only one to blame, if he has a cycle of bad relationships, the fault is not entirely his, I think we can both agree but the way you said it made it seem that way.
Also plss do some research on bdsm, I’ve been into it and this had different motives, they both know it was wrong which is why MD apologized.
Seriously I feel like crying while going through this comment section.
If you don’t know what bdsm is, stop trying to propagate your misunderstandings smfh especially since you clearly don’t know jack shit about bdsm lmaoooo
Keep reading your 50 Shades doll.
Chan isn't a victim if he chooses to stay!! IT WAS HIS CHOICE!! if you don't get what responsibility means on your actions! you too young to read this. STOP READING if you too young for this.
Go back to reading your 50 Shades doll.
Like... It looks like you based your "knowledge" on such positions.
I hope you are too young because this ignorance would be worrying if you are above 20.
It’s more dangerous that people like you walk around with rose colored blinders.
I actually based my knowledge on being part of local BDSM chapters, attending seminars, actively participating in dom/sub relationships as both roles and having close friendships with many others in the community. Where do you get your “knowledge” from sweety?
Bruh, you’re not fooling anybody here. Don’t you have multiplication hw to do?
Either you are lying or they are misinformed and ignorants. I'm med student hon. In two years I will be a doctor. And I have seen more humble professors of medicine who could admit to mistake than you.
Sorry but with this pov you will either hurt your partner or you will be hurt.
And I'm especially sensitive about uneducated and irresponsible/unsafe BDSM plays because I had doubtful pleasure to see the results of such plays.
Lmao, what does being in medicine have to do with BDSM? You just admitted to having zero knowledge. Please sit the fuck down.
"And I'm especially sensitive about uneducated and irresponsible/unsafe BDSM plays because I had doubtful pleasure to see the results of such plays".
It's the continuation. And I used to be interested in the topic...but man it's even a common sense. Simple, logical common sense and empathy. You seriously don't understand the base. Elementar roles.
I’m not trying to fool anyone though? :) My homework consists more of node.js and .NET, having an understanding of maths helps though.
Bruh, does calling someone a bruh make you feel like a big boy, bruh?
And it was example that even people with titles who has worked in some field for years can be mistaken and misinformed... And you are acting like holy truth.
You are such specialist you can't even see a clear coercion. Clap clap I'm impressed.
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Same. At first I was enjoying the back and forth. But now I’m tiring at the ignorance. It’s gotten to where I don’t even want to push your buttons anymore :( Sadly, this play session is done on my end. Do continue to moan to your hearts content though.
You are just uneducated and ignorant who will most likely get hurt or hurt someone else. I can only feel sympathy for your supposedly partners.
I don’t wanna challenge ur ignorant, hurtful views but the FIRST thing you learn abt bdsm is consent and boundaries, Also telling ppl to go back to reading 50 shades ain’t doing shit, UR BASICALLY READING THE SAME THING, Imma go now, ur clearly either underage or insanely dumb