
Ugh second lead syndrome really got me in this one.... I can’t believe the ML would leave her alone and reduce her to a useless woman just because of post partum depression.... does he even love her?

I'm not downplaying what the FL had to go through. What I want to say is that isn't the reason she came back in time is for her to be given another chance to be a good mother to Vicente and fix her relationship with her husband which she doesn't even know was broken as well. So why dwell on the past and bring it up every time? and why run away from her problems again when she can confront them head-on. She has the ML wrapped around her fingers even if she's not aware of that.

You're absolutely downplaying the FL... As an outsider you make it sound so EASY to problem solve an issue from a 3rd person perspective.
But for people who have had depression and anxiety for a long time, their way of thinking is much more narrow and complicated. It's way more realistic that she's trying to put a band-aid on an issue while not actually knowing how to solve it, and that's not really her fault. She hasn't really had the kind of upbringing, experience. or guidance from others, she can only do what she knows how to do. She literally only went back a mere 3 years in time.
3 years doesn't magically alter your personality into being a straight-forward genius problem solver.
She's only NOW getting reassurance from other characters.

she’s not aware of that because the ml doesn’t show it to her so ofc she wont try to talk when she thinks the ml doesn’t truly love her. also she came back solely for her son. in the previous life she was okay with her husband because she never confronted any of the problems. but in this life because she’s confronting the problems she’s at odds with her husband. she’s not a mind reader. he sent in a marriage request after meeting her once and hasn’t really ever been romantic with her at all. throw in abandoning her for months when she was pregnant ofc she’s gonna feel like the ml doesn’t truly care for her. and when she does try to confront them it’s the ml who’s bringing up her past behavior. she’s trying to change for her son and wants to get involved in his life but when she did he tells her to go back to being an absentee mother like before... Not to mention the ml and the ml’s workers don’t let her participate in the house at all. even if she tries they shut her down like she isn’t a part of their family. yknow the phrase "video or it didn’t happen"? that’s because ppl need to see it to believe it. And the ML hasn’t shown her anything as of yet. i’m not talking about doing good things behind her back. he needs to do sth obvious. and see the effort she’s making for their son and not jump down her throat for trying. i think the fl should believe in the ml but ml should also give her something to believe in.

I know a lot of people are rooting for Yomi, but he only loves the “villainess” Iana! Wouldn’t Sol, who wants to know what she is truly like, be a better option?

spoilers( maybe,i think not sure though)my opinion only
on this current chapters sol was literally being suspicion of her instead of getting to know her better and about yomi...well
no, because if you've read the current chapters in the raws you'll see that yomi really loved lana even if she isn't a villainess,the only reason that yomi thinks that she's being brainwashed is because that wasn't how she was before and lana was indifferent of others.When they were young yomi was the only one who was there for her despite being pushed away. On the recent chapters he literally even cried because lana almost got in danger and wad even ready to sacrifice himself for her.
He really did liked her even when she was bad or not and he was literally happy when he saw lana smiled unlike the current lana who used to have a gloomy look.Yomi was always waiting to see her smile and besides he was only worried that they did something to her while he was because lana used to get treated indifferent unlike her sister and yomi wad the only one who new that, lana didn't have anything except for yomi despite him being pushed away by her. He may look like a masochist but he's only like that for lana,he's really caring for her even then and now......
bruh ..........if you were in yomi's position wouldn't it be weird for you to find out that the person you used to know changed so mush like a different person, he did that because he thought they did something to her for her to act that way because above them all yomi was the only one who knew lana's childhood ... besides......uhmm...... sol he's reaction is not that good for me..he may be confused on his feelings for her nor he like the elder sis for saving him and tried to understand his suspicion
sol was literally treating her half hearteddly because he still like the older sister one... it's like whenever he's saving someone lana was always second and her elder sis is always the first priority unlike yomi who would do anything for her sake but if you prefer him he may have a chance because on the recent chapters sol will somewhat understood his feeling for her(not sure though, didn't understand much because it doesn't have original translation)
and for the hero(forgot the name) don't like him that much since he's like developing feelings for lana (not sure if he only wants to see's her as a sibling or not)even though he already have her elder sis with him
yomi may be possessive but he truly is caring for her and lana was his best priority unlike the others so yomi was literally the best in all of them

Okay so three things I’m pretty sure are gonna be revealed: the bunny they play with by the lake is the divine beast, “Dane” is actually the first Prince (but idk why he pretends to have poor health) and lastly Cassiel was in fact, in love with the MC but Angela used a love potion on him. Gonna look for the novel to see if I’m right..

Dane is not pretending to be sick. He is actually sick.
Spoiler
His disease will be healed by the rabbit who is actually a divine beast and he is also not mentally stable as he is neglected in the palace by everyone so he is basically isolated due to which he became more weak minded but after meeting Jayna by the Lake, he was able to become stable.

Every time I remember who is the male lead a small part of me dies

Penelope’s Relationship with Characters:
Spoiler Alert******
Duke- loves Penelope but is a shitty father that neglects his children. Penelope forgives him after she leaves the estate.
Derrick- can’t love Penelope because he feels guilty for being the reason Yvonne went missing. Penelope hates him. They have the worst relationship among the main targets.
Reynold- starts being nice to Penelope after the event in the attic. The relationship get a little better but Penelope can’t forgive him for all the things he has done to her in the past.
Vinter- falls in love with Penelope but feels guilty for judging (believes she’s evil) too early. Since he is the reason the real Penelope is dead, he doesn’t believe he deserves to be loved Iseki Penelope. They stay has friends.
Kalisto- falls in love with Penelope and pursues her even though she tries to avoid him. They connect because they are both the outcast of their family. Penelope falls in love with him and starts living him after she kills Yvonne. The get married.
Iklies- obsess and possessive with Penelope to the point he betrays her, kidnaps her, and threatens to kill Kalisto to be with her. In the end, he sacrifices himself to save her from getting killed by Yvonne. Penelope is sad every time she thinks of him.
Other spoilers:
The real Yvonne is dead. A demon killed her and took over her body. Penelope by killing the demon allows Yvonne to Rest In Peace.
The reason why everyone loves Yvonne is because she hypnotized them. When the ML becomes Penelope, Yvonne only manages to hypnotize Derrick through his guilt and Iklies through his dark obsession.
The real Penelope is dead. All those attempts the ML played before waking up in Penelope’s body, happen to the real Penelope leaving her soul shattered.
Vinter is the reason why the ML is in Penelope’s body. She and Penelope are descendants of one of the great wizards. When Yvonne got her happy ending, she destroyed the world in her epilogue. Vinter is the only main target that survives and uses to forbidden magic to constantly bring Penelope back to life so she can defeat the demon (only a great wizard can). When the real Penelope dies, he brings the ML soul instead.
The ML is dying in the real world. Her family took her body to a hospital after she was found unconscious in her apartment. She is in coma and is suffering from stomach cancer. The ML dies because she decides her soul to stay in the Iseki world with Kalisto. She couldn’t forgive her family for all the pain she had to go through due to fucking misunderstanding.
Although I really like Hugo, it seems like Roswell might be harbouring feelings for her.... I’m excited to see what happens next